So, I've been in a serious relationship with her for almost two years and now we're considering marriage at least in the next two years.

I've disclosed some of investments, interests and plans to her. But she's been pestering to know my account balance, always asking for how much I have or even an estimate.

I'm really getting pistes with her endless requests.

NB: She's an Igbo lady less than 25, I'm a Yoruba guy less than 30. She's the only child. Her mum feels Yoruba dudes are uncaring and poor, she's been on the verge of cutting off the whole relationship and I think this one only way she wants to finally size me up and decide on the next line of man to pick up.

What do you think and advice?

Never ever in your entire life reveal your bank balance to someone who you aren't married to.. Let alone your wife.

Bank statement is confidential

dingbang:
Never ever in your entire life reveal your bank balance to someone who you aren't married to.. Let alone your wife.

Bank statement is confidential

i will advice u to be careful.... That ladies is nt meant for u

dingbang:
Never ever in your entire life reveal your bank balance to someone who you aren't married to.. Let alone your wife.

Bank statement is confidential

u joking right

Think I agree with the guy above. So to her it's all about the money. What happens when there's none

ojun50:

i will advice u to be careful.... That ladies is nt meant for u

excuse me.. what did you just type? Does it even make sense?

whitebeard:
u joking right

I am not joking...

dingbang:
I am not joking...

how can u not tell your wife your account details

freepop:
So, I've been in a serious relationship with her for almost two years and now we're considering marriage at least in the next two years.

I've disclosed some of investments, interests and plans to her. But she's been pestering to know my account balance, always asking for how much I have or even an estimate.

I'm really getting pistes with her endless requests.

NB: She's an Igbo lady less than 25, I'm a Yoruba guy less than 30. She's the only child. Her mum feels Yoruba dudes are uncaring and poor, she's been on the verge of cutting off the whole relationship and I think this one only way she wants to finally size me up and decide on the next line of man to pick up.

What do you think and advice?

Let her go if she wants to.

whitebeard:
how can u not tell your wife your account details

why should you. .? Its a private thing

cos she is d voice in an atm DAT says 'thank you for banking with us'

dingbang:
why should you. .? Its a private thing

no it not, especially when u are married

whitebeard:
no it not, especially when u are married

But they are not yet married naw

she needs it,for the embassy. she's applying for a visa with you as the Associate sponsor.

defolman:

But they are not yet married naw

that one is okay

E wan kee u....

op pls and pls leave dat idiot...dats hw my Igbo sisters behave dis days. all dey tink about is moni without even struggling to make their own although there re exceptions sha. b4 u let her go humiliate her by asking her to show u her own bank statement you'll see hw broke she is..

ikeepitreal:
she needs it,for the embassy.
she's applying for a visa with you as the Associate sponsor.

Update: Babe just chat me up asking if I can sponsor her to complete her undergraduate programme after which we'll get wedded.

Obviously, my answer is NO! Cos the marriage isn't set and cast in stone already.

I can't come and carry responsibility wey pass me. If her papa no fit give her basic education, must she Lord it over me?

Wetin una think o jare?

NB: Thank you for the responses so far.

she might d info to EVANS OOO

dingbang:
Never ever in your entire life reveal your bank balance to someone who you aren't married to.. Let alone your wife.

Bank statement is confidential

she might leak d info to EVANS & CO

freepop:
So, I've been in a serious relationship with her for almost two years and now we're considering marriage at least in the next two years.

I've disclosed some of investments, interests and plans to her. But she's been pestering to know my account balance, always asking for how much I have or even an estimate.

I'm really getting pistes with her endless requests.

NB: She's an Igbo lady less than 25, I'm a Yoruba guy less than 30. She's the only child. Her mum feels Yoruba dudes are uncaring and poor, she's been on the verge of cutting off the whole relationship and I think this one only way she wants to finally size me up and decide on the next line of man to pick up.

What do you think and advice?

..bro..IBO girls here in London all ways ask for yorrr bank statement b4 they give u their phone nombar.....they say it's their tradition....had to show one nnkechi girl my nombar b4 I get ordddnarrrry kiss!!!)true story)

Waiting for a girl's comment

freepop:
Update: Babe just chat me up asking if I can sponsor her to complete her undergraduate programme after which we'll get wedded.

Obviously, my answer is NO! Cos the marriage isn't set and cast in stone already.

I can't come and carry responsibility wey pass me. If her papa no fit give her basic education, must she Lord it over me?

Wetin una think o jare?

NB: Thank you for the responses so far.

She wee use and dump you like menstrual pad
Never reveal ur bank details to your woman either married or unmarried, she'd size the Bleep outta your life

Wire wire

freepop:
So, I've been in a serious relationship with her for almost two years and now we're considering marriage at least in the next two years.

I've disclosed some of investments, interests and plans to her. But she's been pestering to know my account balance, always asking for how much I have or even an estimate.

I'm really getting pistes with her endless requests.

NB: She's an Igbo lady less than 25, I'm a Yoruba guy less than 30. She's the only child. Her mum feels Yoruba dudes are uncaring and poor, she's been on the verge of cutting off the whole relationship and I think this one only way she wants to finally size me up and decide on the next line of man to pick up.

What do you think and advice?

she is looking for the boy with #30billi for akaant

freepop:
So, I've been in a serious relationship with her for almost two years and now we're considering marriage at least in the next two years.

I've disclosed some of investments, interests and plans to her. But she's been pestering to know my account balance, always asking for how much I have or even an estimate.

I'm really getting pistes with her endless requests.

NB: She's an Igbo lady less than 25, I'm a Yoruba guy less than 30. She's the only child. Her mum feels Yoruba dudes are uncaring and poor, she's been on the verge of cutting off the whole relationship and I think this one only way she wants to finally size me up and decide on the next line of man to pick up.

What do you think and advice?

she is looking for the boy with #30billi for akaant

freepop:
Update: Babe just chat me up asking if I can sponsor her to complete her undergraduate programme after which we'll get wedded.

Obviously, my answer is NO! Cos the marriage isn't set and cast in stone already.

I can't come and carry responsibility wey pass me. If her papa no fit give her basic education, must she Lord it over me?

Wetin una think o jare?

NB: Thank you for the responses so far.

See the way Ur village people want make u go score own goal

freepop:
Update: Babe just chat me up asking if I can sponsor her to complete her undergraduate programme after which we'll get wedded.

Obviously, my answer is NO! Cos the marriage isn't set and cast in stone already.

I can't come and carry responsibility wey pass me. If her papa no fit give her basic education, must she Lord it over me?

Wetin una think o jare?

NB: Thank you for the responses so far.

she get someone giving her wrong advice and ideas. When the bank statement didn't work, she used the sponsorship of her education as the next bait. You gave her the PERFECT ANSWER. Just leave that relationship and look for better girl to avoid one kain story later.

Exactly, my point. It was obvious there were some external influences she couldn't withstand. I've asked several times if she feels pressurised. She's no. But I know that isn't the case.

I just tire for the whole wahala.

jaymichael:
she get someone giving her wrong advice and ideas. When the bank statement didn't work, she used the sponsorship of her education as the next bait. You gave her the PERFECT ANSWER. Just leave that relationship and look for better girl to avoid one kain story later.

Now this is epic cos she jokingly asked me about having N30billion in my account.

I just smiled, say na from joke we dey sabi true talk oooo.

I tap myself say, bros, you can't cope with this.

she is looking for the boy with #30billi for akaant ;Dshe is looking for the boy with #30billi for akaant

freepop:
So, I've been in a serious relationship with her for almost two years and now we're considering marriage at least in the next two years.

I've disclosed some of investments, interests and plans to her. But she's been pestering to know my account balance, always asking for how much I have or even an estimate.

I'm really getting pistes with her endless requests.

NB: She's an Igbo lady less than 25, I'm a Yoruba guy less than 30. She's the only child. Her mum feels Yoruba dudes are uncaring and poor, she's been on the verge of cutting off the whole relationship and I think this one only way she wants to finally size me up and decide on the next line of man to pick up.

What do you think and advice?

she wants to kidnap u. She maybe Ecas sister. Kikiki

Lol! This one weak me ooo.

Is it a thing with Igbo girls or just a personality make-up or orientation to life?

MrCork:

..bro..IBO girls here in London all ways ask for yorrr bank statement b4 they give u their phone nombar.....they say it's their tradition....had to show one nnkechi girl my nombar b4 I get ordddnarrrry kiss!!!)true story)

I'm just startled by her sudden reactions and pestering. I was thinking she was a more mature lady who could appreciate my struggles and plug into the future but all she's looking for is a made guy with all romantic rims, spiritual muscles and all her fantasised attributes, hence, my been too open with her on some of my investments and career plans.

Was asking if she knew the reason most Igbo guys marry quite late/aged, and she said because they go all out looking for so much money to come marry their Igbo wives, cos marrying an Igbo lady is a lifetime spending and it's really expensive. For her, she's even more expensive, being the only child. My response was, does that make you any better than other ladies from multiple families abi what return on investment do I get from that. It just doesn't make any financial and futuristic sense to me spending so much on wedding/woman, when there are loads of generational investments one could make.

Unfortunately, she's from a low class family, but she's simply jumping out of herself. Anyway, na all the best cos I know the beans must be spilled sooner than later.

Meanwhile, I want to believe that her actions aren't enough to generalise that all Igbo girls are like this,
especially when they're in a relationship with Yoruba boys.

I love Igbo ladies but at this point, man must rethink his steps ooooo. Make I go meet my ofe manu sisters

crismark:
op pls and pls leave dat idiot...dats hw my Igbo sisters behave dis days. all dey tink about is moni without even struggling to make their own although there re exceptions sha. b4 u let her go humiliate her by asking her to show u her own bank statement you'll see hw broke she is..