Good morning guys, how are we all doing? Let me go straight to the point. So yesterday my thread was the. Most talked about although yesterday and it drew some attention to me, but something funny happened today on my way heading to church. I was on my way to church and while we were being stop by the traffic light the was this guy, at the next car beside us he started calling me ashawo and a stupid girl not even minding my husband and daughter was all with me. It’s painful he started calling my husband hiv and all kind of name.. I’m in pain and I have cried my eyes out, we could not make it to church as we drove back home my husband has left the house as I speak and it really sad. I shared my story here because I want a form of closure and also inform people what we lady go through when we love a man regardless.

My husband has asked me to leave his house and not to return. This is really sad and I’m broken beyond measure, God know I love this man and I did will never make any mockery of his health but was trying to educate people out there that it’s possible to still be marry to your partner regardless of his status because there are medical teams that can make this possible.

This is one of the ills of a faceless forum where you bare your face. I hope you find a way to mend your home

Apart from me, who else don't understand what this woman is talking about ?

Too much talk is not good.. anyways I'm not interested in your c0ck and bull stories..don't even care if it's real or not..

Godada:




This is one of the ills of a faceless forum where you bare your face. I hope you find a way to mend your home

I’m broken

All I smell here is Lori iro... Only if u can provide evidence..

Guess you are trying to write a movie script

Mehn
I don't even know if I want to believe this or not

It is not everything that u share online tho....


Who owns that dick btw

This your story no dey add up...

Wahala

Ah, see lies flying all over your head like butterflies.

possiblity and credibility of this story is near Zero

This painful

That's what you get when you bring your private life to the general public to dissect.

Do you think most of us don't have relationships we cherish and no amount of SM brouhaha can dent it? We do but we all choose to keep it private because that's what a sane person should do, it's also not totally wrong to share your problems but do it politely too.

You never spared anyone that trolled you even if it's merely teasing, sis life no hard reach like that na. There are some comments you need to ignore but I guess you enjoy the fame far too much to ignore anything.

I'm sorry that you're facing that challenges in your marriage now, it will surely pass but also learn to bridle your thoughts and quit showing off, you practically live your life on social media so don't expect anything less either.

Why do we have to know if your husband is living with hiv or not? You choose to marry him and that's enough reason to do right by him by being his wife and not a social media parrot. I'm sorry if I'm sounding harsh but it is what it is and I'm not going to mince words.

I pray he calms down and sort out the issues amicably with you, just pray this doesn't ruin your supposed marriage.

Peace!

U can't even tell us a complete story. Why did the said man started insulting you and your husband out of nowhere? Who is he to you? How did he know u and what transpired between both of you that led to that verbal attack. Try and give a complete story for once so people can understand u better and know how to respond to u. Not just playing the victim card here with an incomplete story as though u are talking to kids.

Someone insulted u and ur husband but topic say a nairaland almost beat u at coza today.abeg which one we go believe

Michelle55:
That's what you get when you bring your private life to the general public to dissect.

Do you think most of us don't have relationships we cherish and no amount of SM brouhaha can dent it? We do but we all choose to keep it private because that's what a sane person should do, it's also not totally wrong to share your problems but do it politely too.

You never spared anyone that trolled you even if it's merely teasing, sis life no hard reach like that na. There are some comments you need to ignore but I guess you enjoy the fame far too much to ignore anything.

I'm sorry that you're facing that challenges in your marriage now, it will surely pass but also learn to bridle your thoughts and quit showing off, you practically live your life on social media so don't expect anything less either.

Why do we have to know if your husband is living with hiv or not? You choose to marry him and that's enough reason to do right by him by being his wife and not a social media parrot. I'm sorry if I'm sounding harsh but it is what it is and I'm not going to mince words.

I pray he calms down and sort out the issues amicably with you, just pray this doesn't ruin your supposed marriage.

Peace!

Are you okay?? Honey I have never bash anyone here on this forum before. Go through my thread I hardly insult anyone here I don’t even have the strength for that. If you go through my previous thread I only was telling my story which I believe there are no templates for that, how dare you come for me when I clearly didn’t send for you??

I keep saying this I’m not just famous on this platform I fought for my place. Where were you when people will creat thread to call me all form of name. Raging from that I’m a guy, that I’m into voodoo and that I’m a prostitute? Where were you? To even think you are a female make it more sad that you will sit there and say all this things.

I will keep saying this and will never stop. I fought for my place here and just like everyone I can share my story just how I want it, and if you don’t like or it doesn’t sit well with you then that is totally your problem not mine honey.... when next you want to drop those unsolicited advice remember that I fought for my place here. Now check that

Get well soon

Casalindal:


Are you okay?? Honey I have never bash anyone here on this forum before. Go through my thread I hardly insult anyone here I don’t even have the strength for that. If you go through my previous thread I only was telling my story which I believe there are no templates for that, how dare you come for me when I clearly didn’t send for you??

I keep saying this I’m not just famous on this platform I fought for my place. Where were you when people will creat thread to call me all form of name. Raging from that I’m a guy, that I’m into voodoo and that I’m a prostitute? Where were you? To even think you are a female make it more sad that you will sit there and say all this things.

I will keep saying this and will never stop. I fought for my place here and just like everyone I can share my story just how I want it, and if you don’t like or it doesn’t sit well with you then that is totally your problem not mine honey.... when next you want to drop those unsolicited advice remember that I fought for my place here. Now check that

did u even calm down to read her comment or u just felt she should bear the burnt of your anger.have gone through all the thread u created,and if at all some one insulted you on the road then is your fault,u don't need to tell the whole world your hubby is HIV or not.u can advise people without stating your hubby health.and pls don't even think of insulting me or claiming level with me.

Casalindal:


Are you okay?? Honey I have never bash anyone here on this forum before. Go through my thread I hardly insult anyone here I don’t even have the strength for that. If you go through my previous thread I only was telling my story which I believe there are no templates for that, how dare you come for me when I clearly didn’t send for you??

I keep saying this I’m not just famous on this platform I fought for my place. Where were you when people will creat thread to call me all form of name. Raging from that I’m a guy, that I’m into voodoo and that I’m a prostitute? Where were you? To even think you are a female make it more sad that you will sit there and say all this things.

I will keep saying this and will never stop. I fought for my place here and just like everyone I can share my story just how I want it, and if you don’t like or it doesn’t sit well with you then that is totally your problem not mine honey.... when next you want to drop those unsolicited advice remember that I fought for my place here. Now check that

Which place did you fight for..and of what use is the place self?

All dis yaba left escapees wey plenty 4 nairaland self, dis forum don lose him value

Casalindal:


Are you okay?? Honey I have never bash anyone here on this forum before. Go through my thread I hardly insult anyone here I don’t even have the strength for that. If you go through my previous thread I only was telling my story which I believe there are no templates for that, how dare you come for me when I clearly didn’t send for you??

I keep saying this I’m not just famous on this platform I fought for my place. Where were you when people will creat thread to call me all form of name. Raging from that I’m a guy, that I’m into voodoo and that I’m a prostitute? Where were you? To even think you are a female make it more sad that you will sit there and say all this things.

I will keep saying this and will never stop. I fought for my place here and just like everyone I can share my story just how I want it, and if you don’t like or it doesn’t sit well with you then that is totally your problem not mine honey.... when next you want to drop those unsolicited advice remember that I fought for my place here. Now check that

LOL, which place did you say you fought for?
You have forgotten that Nairaland is like a barrack shey? .. Soldier go Soldier come, barracks still remains! Get that into your thick skull. To even think you're married makes it more appalling, what are men getting married to these days?
It seems your brain is made of silicon and no matter what advice they give you here, it just wouldn't fit in.
Oh please don't play that nonsense female victim's card with me, it doesn't have any effect. I stand for what I believe is right no matter the gender involved so don't make it all about you
What business do we have with what happens in your private life if not that you're seeking for useless fame here? Take a look around you young woman and you will see that no one really cares if you slipped while walking, just face your marriage wahala that you brought upon yourself no be me send you message.
PS: before you reply again with insults, go through my posts and you go know say khaki no be leather.. I go wash, dry and spread you like clothes. I'm not a guy after your cookie so aboobi calm down make God use you today oh if you no wan make your heart no shatter finish aside the wan wey ya husband do.

Peace!

All of us dey on our own

You come dey tell us say pesin dey show you prick

Mind your business next time

cyndylove64:
did u even calm down to read her comment or u just felt she should bear the burnt of your anger.have gone through all the thread u created,and if at all some one insulted you on the road then is your fault,u don't need to tell the whole world your hubby is HIV or not.u can advise people without stating your hubby health.and pls don't even think of insulting me or claiming level with me.

How on earth will i insult you when clearly I can smell your level of ignorance from afar. When some one tell a story the make it real and authentic. I careful thought it through when I shared my husband status and I never mentioned his name or put his picture here for a second.

Why is it a problem that some trying to tell a story becomes a problem when that person makes it authentic?? I will not even take offense I can clearly see you are not bright. You are dismiss bye

Godada:




This is one of the ills of a faceless forum where you bare your face. I hope you find a way to mend your home

believe this story, at ur own peril.

cyndylove64:
did u even calm down to read her comment or u just felt she should bear the burnt of your anger.have gone through all the thread u created,and if at all some one insulted you on the road then is your fault,u don't need to tell the whole world your hubby is HIV or not.u can advise people without stating your hubby health.and pls don't even think of insulting me or claiming level with me.

See babe, just leave her oh.. She never know where she dey yet, by the time I'm done with that coconut head of hers that she's covering with weavon no be person go tell am.

She is just frustrated and seeking for who to dump her problem on, she came to the wrong forum.

Casalindal:



How on earth will i insult you when clearly I can smell your level of ignorance from afar. When some one tell a story the make it real and authentic. I careful thought it through when I shared my husband status and I never mentioned his name or put his picture here for a second.

Why is it a problem that some trying to tell a story becomes a problem when that person makes it authentic?? I will not even take offense I can clearly see you are not bright. You are dismiss bye

if u were careful then did u ever bother to tell ur hubby,did u ask ur hubby for his opinion or feelings.are u the one bearing the shame or pains or the survivor with a story to tell.
Let's call a spade a spade.if u have told your hubby about your plan to turn to a preacher or motivational speaker on NF,he won't be mad.if u were bright u would have weighted your options.mrs brightness, rubbish

Michelle55:

LOL, which place did you say you fought for?
You have forgotten that Nairaland is like a barrack shey? .. Soldier go Soldier come, barracks still remains! Get that into your thick skull. To even think you're married makes it more appalling, what are men getting married to these days?
It seems your brain is made of silicon and no matter what advice they give you here, it just wouldn't fit in.
Oh please don't play that nonsense female victim's card with me, it doesn't have any effect. I stand for what I believe is right no matter the gender involved so don't make it all about you
What business do we have with what happens in your private life if not that you're seeking for useless fame here? Take a look around you young woman and you will see that no one really cares if you slipped while walking, just face your marriage wahala that you brought upon yourself no be me send you message.
PS: before you reply again with insults, go through my posts and you go know say khaki no be leather.. I go wash, dry and spread you like clothes. I'm not a guy after your cookie so aboobi calm down make God use you today oh if you no wan make your heart no shatter finish aside the wan wey ya husband do.

Peace!

I am shaking my heaven!!! I am scare... do you listen to your self lady I see the pressure trying to sound bright and educated. Okay honey smell toe for it the last you will have the chance to.

Now listen and just may be you will learn something new. What ever your name is and don’t care much none your existence. I shared my story for people like you who have never be fortunate to have a man to learn and see how it is out here. I can feel your loneliness every night and my prayers are with you honey. You are sad that I was able to get hold of a man right?? You don’t have to be bitter honey that I was able to get man for myself, something I believe you still crying for. Sorry honey

Back at it, sharing my story was never to put myself out here but tell my story and trust Nigeria to leave the major key point and bash the teller...

If you don’t like my method then go write your own. You want drag girl bring it on I am here for all of it, there is nothing I have not been call yet you guys keep coming begging for money and crying under my giveaway. Like really!!!! Honey you are dismiss come back when you married just maybe I will give you my two cent. Byeeeee

Casalindal:


Are you okay?? Honey I have never bash anyone here on this forum before. Go through my thread I hardly insult anyone here I don’t even have the strength for that. If you go through my previous thread I only was telling my story which I believe there are no templates for that, how dare you come for me when I clearly didn’t send for you??

I keep saying this I’m not just famous on this platform I fought for my place. Where were you when people will creat thread to call me all form of name. Raging from that I’m a guy, that I’m into voodoo and that I’m a prostitute? Where were you? To even think you are a female make it more sad that you will sit there and say all this things.

I will keep saying this and will never stop. I fought for my place here and just like everyone I can share my story just how I want it, and if you don’t like or it doesn’t sit well with you then that is totally your problem not mine honey.... when next you want to drop those unsolicited advice remember that I fought for my place here. Now check that

so cos she is female, u don't want her to tell u the truth..the truth is so bitter and hurtful, but obviously she stated it the way it actually is...take heed to her advise, u need more ppl like her so u can change..

I thought the guy dat approached you from nairaland will beat you to stupor


Oloshi wey never wan get sense ,

Don't mind this didirin ooo she doesn't have sense at all


Eleribuu OP

Casalindal:



How on earth will i insult you when clearly I can smell your level of ignorance from afar. When some one tell a story the make it real and authentic. I careful thought it through when I shared my husband status and I never mentioned his name or put his picture here for a second.

Why is it a problem that some trying to tell a story becomes a problem when that person makes it authentic?? I will not even take offense I can clearly see you are not bright. You are dismiss bye

you misbehave too much. You need 100years ban