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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by jantman(m): 1:19pm On Apr 03, 2021
@PERVENCHE
I am not sure you want advice or you just come here to share your story

But for me I feel that GRACE will make a fine wife for you and make you happy in future

There was a time in my life I would have slept with three sisters if not for my self control. Up till this day I regret not doing the did with them from one after another.

My advice to you is that continue with your marriage with Grace and let go of Abigail

See your cheating with Abigail as your dirty little secret that must never repeat itself

I choose Grace for you as your wife.

May God bless you and Grace
May God bless your marriage

Warning*###

Never confess to Grace
Never cheat again
Stay away from your wife sister

If you repeat this insanity, it might destroy you.

Be warn#
Beware#

Let Go of Abigail

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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Magnoliaa(f): 1:40pm On Apr 03, 2021
MejiLoyon:
For those that won't read
Chop highlights

He nack him wife to be sister.

That's all O.

God wee bless you.

See as he write novel gih people. Something am nur doing out of pleasure. Tchew.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Magnoliaa(f): 1:42pm On Apr 03, 2021
jantman:
@PERVENCHE
I am not sure you want advice or you just come here to share your story

But for me I feel that GRACE will make a fine wife for you and make you happy in future

There was a time in my life I would have slept with three sisters if not for my self control. Up till this day I regret not doing the did with them from one after another.

My advice to you is that continue with your marriage with Grace and let go of Abigail

See your cheating with Abigail as your dirty little secret that must never repeat itself

I choose Grace for you as your wife.

May God bless you and Grace
May God bless your marriage

Warning*###

Never confess to Grace
Never cheat again
Stay away from your wife sister

If you repeat this insanity, it might destroy you.

Be warn#
Beware#

Let Go of Abigail

And you na Christian too, abi? Hm.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Magnoliaa(f): 1:44pm On Apr 03, 2021
Ginaz:
Just pretend to forget , the truth will do nothing to help you at this point.

Stay away from your bride's sister ,that's all.

You mean it, wow?

I'd be willing to bet my last cash, though, that you'd hit harder if it was a lady who slept with her brother-in-law some weeks to her wedding.

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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by healthbing(f): 2:29pm On Apr 03, 2021
You just have to tell her and let go of the guilt.
Cancelling the wedding won't solve anything because the guilt is still there.
Guilt is very bad and dangerous and can lead to depression or sucide.
Just tell the truth and set yourself free because if you don't one-day the past will come calling and then it might be too bad.
If you love her you tell her the truth and ask her for forgiveness it will be more heartbreaking when she finds out the truth herself..

For me over time in my past relationships when you cheat on me and tell me I forgive easily than if I find out myself or from another source.

I pray God sees you through and I wish you success
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by bablononi(m): 3:01pm On Apr 03, 2021
This is a literal masterpiece. Your problem no even bother me at the moment, would come back to that but your words are just wawu.

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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by jantman(m): 5:54pm On Apr 03, 2021
Magnoliaa:


And you na Christian too, abi? Hm.

I am a veteran of the Man up there

Why do you asked?
grin
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by dangotesmummy: 9:58pm On Apr 03, 2021
MejiLoyon:
For those that won't read
Chop highlights

He nack him wife to be sister.

That's all O.
another nairaland pre wedding picture customers about to crash because someone cannot just keep it in his pants


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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by ceede2: 9:59pm On Apr 03, 2021
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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by NoFucksToGive: 10:00pm On Apr 03, 2021
[s]
PERVENCHE:
*NOTE
With all due respect, I have changed names and some too familiar details about myself out of respect for my wife to be. I know she likes to catch cruise on nairaland.

My name is Friday (of course not my real name) I am from the middle-belt. So please save your tribalism with all those una Igbo, Yoruba and Hausa insults. I met Grace(my wife to be) few years ago. It was love at 1st sight. She was everything and is still everything I had hoped a woman should be. There is this crass about her that makes her effortlessly better than any lady around her. My type in the true sense of the word. Tall, busty, curvy, sassy, elegant, personable and above all, she has a graceful soul. From the 1st date to this day, I still pinch my self like.. What in God's green earth is a beauty like her doing with a shrek like me.

But then, true perfection is always a utopia. Grace in all her graceful demeanour and aura, has a flaw; Indecision! More so, blind trust seems to be her albatross. (I swear she can even take Lai Muhammad's word to the bank) Though, I still love her; flaws and all. Her complete or should I say blind trust for me and Abigail became one of the reasons Abigail(her younger sister) has become an unending chapter in our relationship. Even though the blame of what happened squarely falls on me.

Abigail just shy off 20, is too savvy for her age. Not the outright outstanding beauty like my Grace. What ever little she lacks in beauty, she more than makes up for it in her mentality. For she is truly a smart and an intelligent girl. Just five years younger than Grace. One who expect them at least to be close and be like Asaba and Onisha but then...they are the direct opposite of each other. While Grace is the introverted shy person, Abigail is quite the extrovert and likes to make friends for Africa. It is only fair to believe their formative time in secondary school played a part in their output towards life. Grace likes to conform like most day school students. Abigail on the other hand, is the boarding school nightmare all parents hope not to experience: the deviant.

Through the 1st years we dated, Abigail was in secondary school and was never in the picture. For some odd or strange reason, Grace was not ready to fully commit. Not that I blame her or something. At 23, Most girls her age are like Alice in wonderland; they crush on celebrities and Chase childhood dreams and fantasies. The vile ones, if truth be told...tend to live out their hoė phase. At 28, I was already grounded to know what I wanted and it was Grace and marriage. Sometimes, you do all you can do but then life has a way of throwing in a curveball. More over, "No be say because I wan chop egg I go begin dey worship chicken." Sensing her shakara, I pulled the hand brakes on us and walked out of the relationship.

***2 years later***
Fortunately or unfortunately after letting go, Grace became incensed and started to want me back. I hardly do any social media at this point. Pride won't let her call me, so there was no way to send coded messages on whatsapp status to me. Being the introvert that she is and the all trusting graceful Grace, she started to send Abigil over to my place to bridge the gap. In just over two years, Abigail had changed and developed into a sexy hippie bohemian. Not that I fancy her in any erotic way or something. It's just that in our contemporary naija society where mostly everyone conforms, it is hard not to notice a bohemian.

Knowing I would do no better than Grace even with a million dollars and in a hundred years of searching, I mended fences with Grace and our relationship became stronger than ever. Over time, Abigail became a bridge between us. At first, Grace would send her over to run errands for her. After a while, it became a second nature for her to come over and fidget with my electronics. Courtesy demands you be nice to your in-laws to be and so I was nice to Abigail.

Abigail's posturing over time made it difficult for me to say no to her especially during them Nengi and Laycon days in the house. She was a fan of big brother lockdown. And would always ask for my keys to watch the silly show for she was equally as silly to be gushing over that vanity fair. Grace seems not have any issues with her coming over and I also did not for I was hardly home and God knows the sub was kinda wasting away.

There are some things in life that are not planned. They just happen! My boss at work then tested positive for Covid and we were all asked to quarantine at home. Grace still had to go to work while Abigail was always free because of the ASSU strike. Suddenly, I started to be alone with Abigail. She would come over "for big brother" around 9am and leave around 7pm in time to beat her curfew at home. It was awkward staying all day with Abigail. Grace too predictable, only comes over on Sunday. For some strange reasons, on Sundays, Abigail will never show up.

There were times, and I am sure it could just be my imagination, that she enjoyed teasing me. She would come dressed like a sister Mary Amaka from home but after a while, she would take her bath and transform into a Kardashian. Wearing skimpy cloths and heavy make-up. I tried to give her her space. I was in quarantine and therefore, had practically no where to go. I am basically the type that don't flock with co-workers and I hardly keep any friends except for Grace. I am not one to be neighbourly with my neighbours so I was stuck with Abigail all day. Humans are social animals and we tend to gravitate towards each other especially when we are alone with someone. Gradually, she won me over and I started to watch the big brother show with her. While she was rooting for Nengi after her Erica left, I was simply for Neo for he had my height. And the bond between us grew. God knows I had no vile motives and evil intentions. It is hard not to enjoy Abigail's company for she is a smart, gleeful and witty girl. While I do all the talking with Grace, Abigail on the other hand does all the talking with me and it was a welcome change.

*** D Day ***
It became obvious Abigail was not telling the truth at home. She would pick their calls and tell them she was in her female friend's house. And in the spirit of our new found big brother bond. We kept the secret. On this faithful day, it had rained all day and Nepa had struck and the plug in my generator was no good. The rain had brought with it a cool breeze and some magical thunder. Seemingly, we could not watch our show so I took a blanket because of the cold and buried my attention on my PC (laptop) re-watching season 5 of the game of thrones.

Naively, Abigail joined me and entered the blanket with me. I use the word 'naive' because I honestly do not want to qualify her as a minx. And I know she does not see me as a Justine Bieber of a crystal ball for her to be drooling at. While in that warm blanket watching the movies in such compromising position, One thing led to another and alot of that one thing opened up her Pandora's box and I... I ate the most forbidden fruit there ever was. There is no telling how wonderful making love to her was at the heat of the moment and there's no shame in the world that equates to the shame that immediately dwell and still dwells in my soul shortly after even to this day. There's a lot to blame our mistake and betrayal on. Could it just be the moment? the weather? the chemistry? the devil? (laughs) my opportunistic habit? Her feminine warmth in such close proximity? my placing a hand on her thigh and meeting no resistance? My foggy mind and grown erection? Her racing and panting heart? Her feisty zeal and deviant nature? My libido? Hers? My morals? Buhari? Herdsmen? IPOB? Sunday Igbahor? Dstv and big brother? NEPA? Game of thrones? Was she after all really a minx? In all fairness, she is just a little naive girl that does not deserve to be pilloried for my betrayal. As the adult, I should have known better and acted a lot better.

Climbing down from our lustful climax, we both knew immediately what we had done, the gravity and the implications it could have on not just us, but grace and the whole family. In the most contrite way possible, we apologized to ourselves and vowed never to repeat it again. We felt it would be better not to tell Grace or anyone and we agreed Abigail would stop coming over. I started to avoid Abigail at all cost. I did not just release cum after my despicable act with Abigail, I released every thing good in me and every form of happiness. I felt much less of a man and wished I had died as a child or better still was aborted.

I hardly could face Grace after. The more I try to ghost her, the more she held on tightly. It became awkward visiting their family house for I was not comfortable around them trusting and accepting me. Not for the fear that they would find out...just my conscience eating me up. I stayed away and made peace with my gross mistake. For over six to seven months. I did my penance and nothing happened with Abigail. I know I am in a better place now to make sane decisions about cheating. To give something back to Grace, I have vowed never to sleep with anyone till die. We know how cheating amongst married men is common these days. I no call Adekule Gold name oh!

Me and Grace are set to marry on the 17th of this April. The thing is...Abigail is her chief bridesmaid and preparation demands I see her most times. She still has a look in her eyes...dunno what to make of it. A look of blackmail? Of you could still hit it if you want? We have unfinished business kinda look? You should be paying a bride price for two look? I die inside every time I see Grace happy she again got us back to talking terms because of the wedding. Ignorance is truly bliss.

I have doubts going through with this wedding. Folks may laugh and say I chickened out because of the inflation and money, others might blame Grace. It may ruin Grace for ever. How do I do this knowing Abigail will always be family?






[/s]

Fake made up story

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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Nobody: 10:01pm On Apr 03, 2021
1.The only other topic on OP's profile has him boasting about 'doing' his own best friend's fiancee

2.OP is a serial cheat.

For OP, all I have to say to you is...either you repent, or go on doing what you do best...cheating...till you wake up one day and find out your kids won't speak or talk to you because of how you have betrayed their mother.

I am no femminist, but to be honest, you read stories like this, and then you understand why femminisim thrives...in all its glory.

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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Blackdisciple(m): 10:02pm On Apr 03, 2021
Someone should help and summarise pls.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by strum84: 10:02pm On Apr 03, 2021
Vhai
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by strum84: 10:03pm On Apr 03, 2021
Oga o
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by strum84: 10:03pm On Apr 03, 2021
Super story
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by paddyDIGITAL(m): 10:03pm On Apr 03, 2021
So unfortunate
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by godoluwa(m): 10:04pm On Apr 03, 2021
MejiLoyon:
For those that won't read Chop highlights
He nack him wife to be sister.
That's all O.
that guy love to post rubbish
https://www.nairaland.com/4405227/shocking-one-week-wedding-still
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Karleb(m): 10:04pm On Apr 03, 2021
MejiLoyon:
For those that won't read
Chop highlights

He nack him wife to be sister.

That's all O.

The guy wan kill person with Shakespeare's English untop wetin? undecided
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by tivity101: 10:04pm On Apr 03, 2021
Guy how many pages be PhD texts books wey make you write this Genesis to revels make we read because of sex wey only you dey enjoy. Stupid boy
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by bukatyne(f): 10:05pm On Apr 03, 2021
bablononi:
This is a literal masterpiece. Your problem no even bother me at the moment, would come back to that but your words are just wawu.

As in,

I legit read the whole piece.

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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by HacheNoire: 10:05pm On Apr 03, 2021
Epistle is too long!

Someone should please summarize
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Futureukstudent: 10:06pm On Apr 03, 2021
etrange:


And he started by telling us her wife's flaws (one of which is that she trusts him o). Meanwhile, he's the bad egg here.

Wonderful.
this is a fictional story. I bet the writer is just showing off his writing skills and story telling. Believe it at Ur peril

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Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by GboyegaD(m): 10:06pm On Apr 03, 2021
Hmmm
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by zinodizt: 10:07pm On Apr 03, 2021
like 100 people way like your post no read the thread including me grin
MejiLoyon:
For those that won't read
Chop highlights

He nack him wife to be sister.

That's all O.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Nobody: 10:07pm On Apr 03, 2021
You be Real MVP OP...I wish to dey your situation right now... Abigail go collect well well.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Mummyfour(f): 10:07pm On Apr 03, 2021
Good write up.
Re: 3 Weeks To Our Wedding, I Feel Like Calling It Off by Kasiye: 10:07pm On Apr 03, 2021
Lies to get to front page

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