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How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by bri: 9:18pm On Jul 11, 2007 |
I NEED To KNOW |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by CrazyMan(m): 9:40pm On Jul 11, 2007 |
The way he looks at you, The way he talks to you How he react towards you when he's angry How easily he confides in you. ie tells you hidden things about his past. The way he treats you in the presence of his friends. The way he responds to you when you need him most. Those are the basic things a girl needs to know when she claims to be in love with a guy. |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by bri: 10:04am On Jul 12, 2007 |
thanks crazy kid for that but don´t u think this can also happen when someone is lusting(pretence)? |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by Bolarge(m): 10:33am On Jul 12, 2007 |
How soon after meeting him he starts wanting to grope n' grab ur anatomical assets. |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by 2dye4(m): 10:34am On Jul 12, 2007 |
@crazykid: well drafted. bri: good question. its possible but the little things will give him away in time if the guy aint 4real. |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by 2dye4(m): 10:36am On Jul 12, 2007 |
Bolarge: av ever heard of guys they call "slow poison" ? |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by PHEESAYOUR(m): 10:46am On Jul 12, 2007 |
Only your heart will tell you when you listen to it my dear! |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by bri: 10:53am On Jul 12, 2007 |
PHEESAYOUR:nice one pheesayor. |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by bri: 10:55am On Jul 12, 2007 |
2dye4:whats slow poison? vn´t heard of that lol may be u can say it without riddles. |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by uchetobi(f): 10:57am On Jul 12, 2007 |
Only time can tell |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by mishoo(m): 10:57am On Jul 12, 2007 |
Believe me apart from your heart, TIME will tell too. Lust does not last long. Time will reveal the truth. Just be patient. |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by 2dye4(m): 11:06am On Jul 12, 2007 |
@bri: Course-Deception 401 Topic: slow poison Definition: a person who patiently waits, allowing his prey to be fooled and relaxed about how noble his intentions are and then strikes when the prey becomes vunerable. i think that pretty sums it up. |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by Bolarge(m): 11:18am On Jul 12, 2007 |
@2dye4 I agree with u. There indeed are peeps u can describe as "slow poison" but they are very few u have to admit. One of the primary xteristics of lust is impatience; the drive for instant gratification. If after a few weeks a typical playa hasn't as much as done some good touching he'll just run along to more willing potential victims. @bri The down side to the slow poison guy is that while he's biding his time with u, he's shagging some other chick by the side. It's not in their nature to have a vacuum. If u're smart enough u'll soon discover his philanderings n' drop his sorry ass. 1 Like |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by sillyboy(m): 11:24am On Jul 12, 2007 |
* wondering why guys are revealing our secrets that gives us advantage over women to the ladies * |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by mishoo(m): 11:28am On Jul 12, 2007 |
Bolarge: WORDS Hear him! Hear him!! |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by 2dye4(m): 11:32am On Jul 12, 2007 |
@bolarge: good point on the impatience thing, but slow poison guys usually aint playas as it make them obvious. a slow poison kinda guy would strike u as probably the most decent and caring person on earth, but like u said, he's got to be shaggin some other conquest on the side while waiting for the one in d pipeline. |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by bri: 11:42am On Jul 12, 2007 |
2dye4:nice definition 2dey4 cos i seen lots of them now i know what that is! MRS lecturer. lol thanks |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by bri: 7:14pm On Jul 12, 2007 |
lol |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by CrazyMan(m): 7:17pm On Jul 12, 2007 |
bri:It can't happen. Lust is different from love. It doesn't last that long and the guy would be more intrested in making love with you than confinding in you on delicate issues. |
Re: How Do U Know Someone Is Truely In Love With U And Not Lusting After U? by bri: 8:11pm On Jul 13, 2007 |
that is true |
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