he is planning to settle down with the lady but when he consulted a pastor for prayer, they told him not to marry the lady because she can never be fruitful, which means the marriage will not produce any seed.

omolola100:
Dear Nairalanders,
Please i need your advice concerning the issue of my brother, there is this lady he has been dating for the past three years, he is planning to settle down with the lady but when he consulted a pastor for prayer, they told him not to marry the lady because she can never be fruitful, which means the marriage will not produce any seed.
over three prophet he consulted is against the marriage.
i told my brother not to listen to them because only God gives children but he is insisting he can't marry a barren woman.
They had fix a date for their introduction, but my brother's conclusion is that unless she gets pregnant the wedding will not hold.
this lady is closer to me and has been pleading to me and my mum to talk to my brother not to change his mind.
i am really confuse and dont know what to do again on this issue, my brother is very stubborn and wouldnt listen to anyone...

omolola100:
Dear Nairalanders,
Please i need your advice concerning the issue of my brother, there is this lady he has been dating for the past three years, he is planning to settle down with the lady but when he consulted a pastor for prayer, they told him not to marry the lady because she can never be fruitful, which means the marriage will not produce any seed.
over three prophet he consulted is against the marriage.
i told my brother not to listen to them because only God gives children but he is insisting he can't marry a barren woman.
They had fix a date for their introduction, but my brother's conclusion is that unless she gets pregnant the wedding will not hold.
this lady is closer to me and has been pleading to me and my mum to talk to my brother not to change his mind.
i am really confuse and dont know what to do again on this issue, my brother is very stubborn and wouldnt listen to anyone...

Charleys:
You this OP omolola100 don't you want your brother to have children?

answer this question, then you'll understand which side you are on.

Bigdik70inch2:


Yo brother his right.......not because of what the prophets said.........

Let the girl get pregnant first b4 the marriage........and stop getting manipulated by a girl.........

Ahmed0336:
Your brother is right.

Make she born for am first. If DNA confirm am say Na him own, then make she born another one before marriage.


I come in peace

moriss33:
Omo like this u should kuku talk to her, since she is closer to you...while una dey plead with ur bro... make she try see if she go fit take-in b4 the wedding...cuz e fit get why baba dey reason that way ooo... no easy to fire puna for 3yrs make one no try enter.
Is he shooting blanks...ask ur bro too.

Kings999:
Tell your brother to go to the hospital with her for check up, if what the pastors said is true.
Let him end the marriage but if the doctor didn't see anything wrong on her. Let him marry her..

omolola100:

They have gone for medical check up, they are both medically fit, i dont know why it is taking too long to take in, i just suspect something is wrong.

Tookool:
Did the doctors carry out a fertility test on her or they saw a prophesy? I’m just asking so I know how to advice you

omolola100:

they have gone for test..

Ebonygeek:
Why can't he just take her for a fertility test?

The level of backwardness in this country is really appalling. Basing your marriage on the ideas of pastors that might be fake.

I would never think of marrying such a man.

omolola100:

it has become the usual habit of my brother to always consult prophet before taking any step, i could remember when he wanted to start a business when he graduated from school, the prophet told him to use the money and sow a seed into the church, he told him he is going to get a visa to travel out, without hesitation he gave out the money for church instrument.up till now he has never gotten any visa.

Tookool:
What did test results say?

omolola100:

The doctrine of her church won't allow her to get pregnant before wedding, she attends CAC.

omolola100:

They have gone for medical check up, they are both medically fit, i dont know why it is taking too long to take in, i just suspect something is wrong.

omolola100:

It is not as if i dont want my brother to have children, but you know i just have human sympathy, they have been together for long.