Good day everyone, and happy Sunday!
I will try my best to be short in other not to bore ya’ll with my problem.
I’ve been a member of this street since 2012 with too many deactivated accounts so I already know how we can be mad around here sometimes.

So it happened that I was dating this girl for over a year now, and we just broke up. I’ve had countless unprotected sex with her which she instigated though. In her words “I don’t like contraceptives”. So we broke up because things are beginning to go south in the relationship. This is a girl I’ve never shouted at, touched (beat), insulted and the rest. She shouts at me on the phone in the presence of her family or friends. The last one she did was shouting at me in the presence of her friend that I just met, because of something she heard outside from some stupid kid. Her anger issues are anger pro-max 100% (Thought I fixed her sef) she gets angry easily which is the main cause of the breakup. She is a girl that likes attention, sometimes she will post something on whatsapp that when someone reads you would think she’s having issues with her man, whereas we are good. There was this time, she keeps posting.. “This heart break will reach everybody” and I replied her with “God will answer your prayers one day” and God finally did. Warned her countless times, take this relationship off social media, if there is problem come to me, that’s why am you best friend.
I had already fallen out of love with her, but I held on to see if I could change her and shit, but I couldn’t. She also, noticed the breakdown in the relationship. The night I broke up with her, she called me back and told me that she got pregnant and she had an abortion for me without letting me know. I was shocked to hear that, she even sent me a text that read…

“ I know I did not tell you, and am sorry, I know I did wrong but I don’t have any other choice. I knew we are not going to do this forever, I know we won’t be together. I’ve thought about this and have seen this coming for a long time; I even removed another one yesterday. You don’t deserve me and I don’t deserve you, good night.” 06/05/2021 09:43 PM

I cried the night I saw that message, because I had promised never to be a part of an abortion, and she knows. In my same exact words “If a girl should get pregnant for me, she is so keeping it. Everyone deserves a chance to live.” I even posted a topic about abortion sometime ago, and now, I am a part of something I preached against. https://www.nairaland.com/4215521/letter-aborted-baby
Yesterday she called me with a friend’s number because I blocked hers, that she was pregnant and the pregnancy was mine. Right now I don’t know what to believe. When we were together, she never told me that she was pregnant, so why in the world would she say she’s pregnant now that we’re no longer together? I really don’t know what to believe, that’s why I’ve brought my problem to the gods of Nairaland. Is the baby even mine? The last time we had sex was on the 29th of April. Is it possible that the fetus I mine? I Need an advice guys.

This girl want to ruin your life, she is not pregnant, tell her to send the pregnancy test for u, I know the girl can actually fake pregnancy test, so just watch her reaction, this kind of relationship, is the one that you should run away from as fast as possible from. This girl want to trap u.

Congrats!

Start buying below items.

Lots of bibs.
Burp cloths.
Breast pump.
Milk storage containers
Baby cosmetics
Nursing pillow.
Nursing bras
Breast pads (disposable or washable)
Diapers
Crib
Rocking chair
Baby nail clippers or file
Baby thermometer
Petroleum jelly and sterile gauze (for circumcision care)
First aid kit
Cradle cap brush
4-6 pacifiers

I will send you more as I remember.

Hahahahha... That girl no carry any belle. I have been in that shoes once bruv. She is saying these things because you broke up with her.


But the thing is, she will hate you so much you will regret ever knowing her so my advise for you is to make peace with her

Please act like a man
First of all, the relationship is over and you made the best decision ever
Second, visit her and tell her to her face, if her parents are there.. wonderful...state it clearly that this relationship is over and if she is pregnant, the both of you wiLl go to a clinic and confirm it before u will take responsibility
Three, since I know she is lying and the type to do an abortion. Keep your distance from her
Four, never in your long life on earth do u engage in fornication, it's foolishness to want a woman never to have an abortion but u are engaging in unprotected sex, how old are u?
U have been warned

Goldbw122:
This girl want to ruin your life, she is not pregnant, tell her to send the pregnancy test for u, I know the girl can actually fake pregnancy test, so just watch her reaction, this kind of relationship, is the one that you should run away from as fast as possible from. This girl want to trap u.

Exactly!
Thank you for this one

Euouae:
Congrats!

Start buying below items.

Lots of bibs.
Burp cloths.
Breast pump.
Milk storage containers
Baby cosmetics
Nursing pillow.
Nursing bras
Breast pads (disposable or washable)
Diapers
Crib
Rocking chair
Baby nail clippers or file
Baby thermometer
Petroleum jelly and sterile gauze (for circumcision care)
First aid kit
Cradle cap brush
4-6 pacifiers

I will send you more as I remember.

Lol, i want to see how you intend making heaven with this one you just did now.

Cutehector:
Hahahahha... That girl no carry any belle. I have been in that shoes once bruv. She is saying these things because you broke up with her.


But the thing is, she will hate you so much you will regret ever knowing her so my advise for you is to make peace with her

She’s the only one fighting if there is war.

Euouae:
Congrats!

Start buying below items.

Lots of bibs.
Burp cloths.
Breast pump.
Milk storage containers
Baby cosmetics
Nursing pillow.
Nursing bras
Breast pads (disposable or washable)
Diapers
Crib
Rocking chair
Baby nail clippers or file
Baby thermometer
Petroleum jelly and sterile gauze (for circumcision care)
First aid kit
Cradle cap brush
4-6 pacifiers

I will send you more as I remember.

Please do I need them

SanctifiedSista:
Please act like a man
First of all, the relationship is over and you made the best decision ever
Second, visit her and tell her to her face, if her parents are there.. wonderful...state it clearly that this relationship is over and if she is pregnant, the both of you wiLl go to a clinic and confirm it before u will take responsibility
Three, since I know she is lying and the type to do an abortion. Keep your distance from her
Four, never in your long life on earth do u engage in fornication, it's foolishness to want a woman never to have an abortion but u are engaging in unprotected sex, how old are u?
U have been warned

I was born at night but not last night my dear. Thank you so much for your advise.

I wish you happy unplanned marriage.

When men date kids .... mtcheew

psycho1:





Please do I need them

Definitely!

Dont you want the best for your unborn child.

5ine:
When men date kids .... mtcheew

Henceforth no under 23�

You have to take accountability op.

You knew ger faults, why didn't you cut her off since.

Why did you have unprotected sex.

Two of you are equally silly.

Being young is not an excuse to be stupid

Boss all these testosterone hormones you may have pumped into her body in the countless copulatory congresses are now beginning to get triggered and manifest as aggression.

U can't expect a woman body to remain the same again because "alot of water has gone under the bridge"

Pls talk to her to tone down on her aggression and short temper and take the relationship to the next level. Don't leave her now. Except she don't want to do again.

You already explained the type of girl she is

anonymousthug:
Good day everyone, and happy Sunday!
I will try my best to be short in other not to bore ya’ll with my problem.
I’ve been a member of this street since 2012 with too many deactivated accounts so I already know how we can be mad around here sometimes.

So it happened that I was dating this girl for over a year now, and we just broke up. I’ve had countless unprotected sex with her which she instigated though. In her words “I don’t like contraceptives”. So we broke up because things are beginning to go south in the relationship. This is a girl I’ve never shouted at, touched (beat), insulted and the rest. She shouts at me on the phone in the presence of her family or friends. The last one she did was shouting at me in the presence of her friend that I just met, because of something she heard outside from some stupid kid. Her anger issues are anger pro-max 100% (Thought I fixed her sef) she gets angry easily which is the main cause of the breakup. She is a girl that likes attention, sometimes she will post something on whatsapp that when someone reads you would think she’s having issues with her man, whereas we are good. There was this time, she keeps posting.. “This heart break will reach everybody” and I replied her with “God will answer your prayers one day” and God finally did. Warned her countless times, take this relationship off social media, if there is problem come to me, that’s why am you best friend.
I had already fallen out of love with her, but I held on to see if I could change her and shit, but I couldn’t. She also, noticed the breakdown in the relationship. The night I broke up with her, she called me back and told me that she got pregnant and she had an abortion for me without letting me know. I was shocked to hear that, she even sent me a text that read…

“ I know I did not tell you, and am sorry, I know I did wrong but I don’t have any other choice. I knew we are not going to do this forever, I know we won’t be together. I’ve thought about this and have seen this coming for a long time; I even removed another one yesterday. You don’t deserve me and I don’t deserve you, good night.” 06/05/2021 09:43 PM

I cried the night I saw that message, because I had promised never to be a part of an abortion, and she knows. In my same exact words “If a girl should get pregnant for me, she is so keeping it. Everyone deserves a chance to live.” I even posted a topic about abortion sometime ago, and now, I am a part of something I preached against. https://www.nairaland.com/4215521/letter-aborted-baby
Yesterday she called me with a friend’s number because I blocked hers, that she was pregnant and the pregnancy was mine. Right now I don’t know what to believe. When we were together, she never told me that she was pregnant, so why in the world would she say she’s pregnant now that we’re no longer together? I really don’t know what to believe, that’s why I’ve brought my problem to the gods of Nairaland. Is the baby even mine? The last time we had sex was on the 29th of April. Is it possible that the fetus I mine? I Need an advice guys.

lol she's trying to tie u down,don't mind her she is not pregnant nd if she is my dear u are not responsible for it,

We ladies are very cunning, she knw ur weak points,don't mind her just play along nd if u are right with what u said,no matter what avoid her at all cost pls I once in a toxic relationship,,this guy is terrible, he get angry over everything nd start calling me names I cry almost every time,this is a guy I have Neva cheated on or disrespect o neither have ask him for 5 naira before..if I don't call he will talk if I do he will complain,,there was a day he asked me to be coming to his place everyweekend I jokly told him I don't want to get pregnant cos I can't risk the stress,,since that day he was avoiding me,,he avoided me for 2 months nd we stay in the same town,,we actuall broke up, I told my friend, she said thank God u are out of this toxic relationship..


After a month of the break up I went to his mom store nd dropped rose nd a frame..that was the last time I used my line ...so shes trying to play you I'm a lady too

Personally buy a pregnancy test and test it right in front of her. If it turns out positive just accept it but don’t forget DNA test too

anonymousthug:


I was born at night but not last night my dear. Thank you so much for your advise.

Stop trying to sound smart and be serious with what the lady you quoted said.

"Mr I hate abortion but i still have unprotected sex"

HOW OLD ARE YOU?

anonymousthug:
Good day everyone, and happy Sunday!
I will try my best to be short in other not to bore ya’ll with my problem.
I’ve been a member of this street since 2012 with too many deactivated accounts so I already know how we can be mad around here sometimes.

So it happened that I was dating this girl for over a year now, and we just broke up. I’ve had countless unprotected sex with her which she instigated though. In her words “I don’t like contraceptives”. So we broke up because things are beginning to go south in the relationship. This is a girl I’ve never shouted at, touched (beat), insulted and the rest. She shouts at me on the phone in the presence of her family or friends. The last one she did was shouting at me in the presence of her friend that I just met, because of something she heard outside from some stupid kid. Her anger issues are anger pro-max 100% (Thought I fixed her sef) she gets angry easily which is the main cause of the breakup. She is a girl that likes attention, sometimes she will post something on whatsapp that when someone reads you would think she’s having issues with her man, whereas we are good. There was this time, she keeps posting.. “This heart break will reach everybody” and I replied her with “God will answer your prayers one day” and God finally did. Warned her countless times, take this relationship off social media, if there is problem come to me, that’s why am you best friend.
I had already fallen out of love with her, but I held on to see if I could change her and shit, but I couldn’t. She also, noticed the breakdown in the relationship. The night I broke up with her, she called me back and told me that she got pregnant and she had an abortion for me without letting me know. I was shocked to hear that, she even sent me a text that read…

“ I know I did not tell you, and am sorry, I know I did wrong but I don’t have any other choice. I knew we are not going to do this forever, I know we won’t be together. I’ve thought about this and have seen this coming for a long time; I even removed another one yesterday. You don’t deserve me and I don’t deserve you, good night.” 06/05/2021 09:43 PM

I cried the night I saw that message, because I had promised never to be a part of an abortion, and she knows. In my same exact words “If a girl should get pregnant for me, she is so keeping it. Everyone deserves a chance to live.” I even posted a topic about abortion sometime ago, and now, I am a part of something I preached against. https://www.nairaland.com/4215521/letter-aborted-baby
Yesterday she called me with a friend’s number because I blocked hers, that she was pregnant and the pregnancy was mine. Right now I don’t know what to believe. When we were together, she never told me that she was pregnant, so why in the world would she say she’s pregnant now that we’re no longer together? I really don’t know what to believe, that’s why I’ve brought my problem to the gods of Nairaland. Is the baby even mine? The last time we had sex was on the 29th of April. Is it possible that the fetus I mine? I Need an advice guys.

ur ex gf is a chronic,manipulative liar

anonymousthug:
Good day everyone, and happy Sunday!
I will try my best to be short in other not to bore ya’ll with my problem.
I’ve been a member of this street since 2012 with too many deactivated accounts so I already know how we can be mad around here sometimes.

So it happened that I was dating this girl for over a year now, and we just broke up. I’ve had countless unprotected sex with her which she instigated though. In her words “I don’t like contraceptives”. So we broke up because things are beginning to go south in the relationship. This is a girl I’ve never shouted at, touched (beat), insulted and the rest. She shouts at me on the phone in the presence of her family or friends. The last one she did was shouting at me in the presence of her friend that I just met, because of something she heard outside from some stupid kid. Her anger issues are anger pro-max 100% (Thought I fixed her sef) she gets angry easily which is the main cause of the breakup. She is a girl that likes attention, sometimes she will post something on whatsapp that when someone reads you would think she’s having issues with her man, whereas we are good. There was this time, she keeps posting.. “This heart break will reach everybody” and I replied her with “God will answer your prayers one day” and God finally did. Warned her countless times, take this relationship off social media, if there is problem come to me, that’s why am you best friend.
I had already fallen out of love with her, but I held on to see if I could change her and shit, but I couldn’t. She also, noticed the breakdown in the relationship. The night I broke up with her, she called me back and told me that she got pregnant and she had an abortion for me without letting me know. I was shocked to hear that, she even sent me a text that read…

“ I know I did not tell you, and am sorry, I know I did wrong but I don’t have any other choice. I knew we are not going to do this forever, I know we won’t be together. I’ve thought about this and have seen this coming for a long time; I even removed another one yesterday. You don’t deserve me and I don’t deserve you, good night.” 06/05/2021 09:43 PM

I cried the night I saw that message, because I had promised never to be a part of an abortion, and she knows. In my same exact words “If a girl should get pregnant for me, she is so keeping it. Everyone deserves a chance to live.” I even posted a topic about abortion sometime ago, and now, I am a part of something I preached against. https://www.nairaland.com/4215521/letter-aborted-baby
Yesterday she called me with a friend’s number because I blocked hers, that she was pregnant and the pregnancy was mine. Right now I don’t know what to believe. When we were together, she never told me that she was pregnant, so why in the world would she say she’s pregnant now that we’re no longer together? I really don’t know what to believe, that’s why I’ve brought my problem to the gods of Nairaland. Is the baby even mine? The last time we had sex was on the 29th of April. Is it possible that the fetus I mine? I Need an advice guys.

No need to confirm if the pregnancy is true or not.



Tell her ok and you will save up for DNA test when the baby is born.


Then sit and watch

Edited
She will either unsay what she said or get ready to be baby mama.

Don’t be afraid. Those days are gone.

DrFunmisticGlow:
You have to take accountability op.

You knew ger faults, why didn't you cut her off since.

Why did you have unprotected sex.

Two of you are equally silly.

Being young is not an excuse to be stupid

Everyone has a purpose in each others life

Some make you
Some break you
Some fix you

I held on for that long to see if she would change, but i was wrong.

tolugar:


No need to confirm if the pregnancy is true or not.


Tell her ok and you will save up for DNA test when the baby is born.


Then sit and watch

op just tell her dis ...she thinks she is wise

Youthful exuberance

Start saving money for baby things and DNA test... congratulations!

Goldbw122:
This girl want to ruin your life, she is not pregnant, tell her to send the pregnancy test for u, I know the girl can actually fake pregnancy test, so just watch her reaction, this kind of relationship, is the one that you should run away from as fast as possible from. This girl want to trap u.

My thoughts too.... The op is in a toxic relationship and the faster he gets out the Better for him.
I just find it funny that she suddenly became pregnant immediately after he broke up with her and used the tale that she has done abortions for him without telling him...
Op should just move on with his life and forget about the girl, since she can do abortions for him without telling him let her still get rid of this present one too.

debbydams:
lol she's trying to tie u down,don't mind her she is not pregnant nd if she is my dear u are not responsible for it,

We ladies are very cunning, she knw ur weak points,don't mind her just play along nd if u are right with what u said,no matter what avoid her at all cost pls I once in a toxic relationship,,this guy is terrible, he get angry over everything nd start calling me names I cry almost every time,this is a guy I have Neva cheated on or disrespect o neither have ask him for 5 naira before..if I don't call he will talk if I do he will complain,,there was a day he asked me to be coming to his place everyweekend I jokly told him I don't want to get pregnant cos I can't risk the stress,,since that day he was avoiding me,,he avoided me for 2 months nd we stay in the same town,,we actuall broke up, I told my friend, she said thank God u are out of this toxic relationship..


After a month of the break up I went to his mom store nd dropped rose nd a frame..that was the last time I used my line ...so shes trying to play you I'm a lady too

Dear OP
You have heard it from the horse's mouth, that's another woman being honest about how manipulative women are?
Look at the part I bolded and you'll understand that your ex is just trying to emotionally guilt trip you .
I hope you have the sense to ditch such a girl.

Even if God is a woman he cannot manipulate me

Why would she even think of aborting pregnancy if she knows that you do preach about abrotion?

She would have gathered enough courage to tell you about the pregnancy, because she knows you won't tell her to go for an abortion.

She should just move ahead to abort the pregnancy because she has been aborting pregnancies without telling you.

Mumu girl.