I want to sleep with my wife's cousin

Kemi Ashefon, kashefon@punchng.com


I am 43, happily married with two children to a wonderful woman. But the problem is her cousin, who has been staying with us for five years, since we had our first child.






I find her very attractive and about four years ago, my wife innocently permitted her to go with me to an all-night party which we attended together. There, we kissed and romanced and since then, I have made three attempts to sleep with her but she refused, saying she does not want to hurt my wife. She does not like being alone with me anymore.

Though I let her be most times, I desperately want to sleep with her and I see this as a quest I must accomplish. This thought has eaten deep into me and I have lost my relationship with God. Our family prayer time has suffered over this issue and now we don't pray together again. I have tried to influence my wife to send her cousin away and even told the girl to leave but there is nowhere to send her.

I don't even have any concrete reasons for sending her away because we have been responsible for her education and she just finished from the university. She is 25 years old and I am thinking of forcing her so that I can get over this and get my life back. What do I do?

JK,

Lagos

http://odili.net/news/source/2011/may/8/801.html

Whom the gods want to kill, they first make mad. A constant reminder by yourself of your integrity and the consequences if you are caught and exposed will make you retrace your steps. Pls try and erase this thought from your mind. Abomination.

The gurl is MAD, she doesn't want to? But he should be able to control himself too. He should try a brothel.

ure just an idjit,u want to ruin ur marriage for a piece of a.sss,that ull get tired of after hitting it for a while, mugunu,msscchheeww

They both went out of line when they kissed at the party. But I'm glad the cousin has been refusing his lustful attempts thereon. He needs to control himself and keep his eyes on his wife.

Yield:

They both went out of line when they kissed at the party. But I'm glad the cousin has been refusing his lustful attempts thereon. He needs to control himself and keep his eyes on his wife.

Shouldn't it be his wife keeping her eyes on him because his eyes obviously cannot stand steady?.

aloy-emeka:

Shouldn't it be his wife keeping her eyes on him because his eyes obviously cannot stand steady?.

Why should the wife be keeping her eyes on him? Is he 5 years old that he cannot practice self-discipline? We're talking about a grown man here. She's not responsible for his actions.

Yield:

Why should the wife be keeping her eyes on him? Is he 5 years old that he cannot practice self-discipline? We're talking about a grown man here. She's not responsible for his actions.

Continue waiting for self discipline to monitor him and watch her bring home another baby. self discipline ko, grown man ni.

I think you will do the same. watch your back because you will definitely end up in jail someday.

OP.

I can grasp your condition and feelings . . . .The only option you have gotten is to get a seperate flat for her since you have been the only one responsible for her expenditure way long.Else what you have wanted to do will definitely happen that might ruin your life . . . . You guys have romanced and touched bosom,lick . . . . . .but you still have the chance to apply remedy to those error . . .the earlier the better. , . . .Make up your mind and discuss it with your wife to get her a seperate flat . . . .GET HER OUTA YOUR LIFE!

Yup, for people like you ^^^

Do you have a sister? or a mother at all? How could any sane being give this kind of advice to another being?? You know what, I'll conclude you are high on crack and so i can't hold you responsible for such an i.d.iotic and contemptible statement. so i'll let it pass.

When it comes to s-ex,I take no prisioners,but this guy beats me hands down.Your wifes cousin? Is'nt that In-cest?
Then I heard that in Northern Nigeria people marry cousins.
Besides people have been known to marry or inherit their late brothers wifes'
If it is any consolation,at least you are not attempting to sleep with your wifes sister .

Masturbate and get over it.

Your spiritual life is very important, you have a wonderful wife so why being attracted to ur wife's cousin, if u know u cannot control urself rent her an apartment elsewhere and remove ur mind from such negative act because u might regret it at last. And make sure you go back to family prayer

Is it nt d same thing btw ur wife's lap dt she has.na wa 4 yeye men sef.tk ur eyes off her as fast as u can b4 u ruin ur mariage.

not a good 1

some women no just get brain or cap-----this would never happen on my watch-----my young cousin come stay with me and my husband for 5 years----say wetin happen now, hahahahahahaha recipe for disaster, no be men and women wey i know, tufia
ive seen enof in my life to know---no one can be trusted

as a sharp guy--- i hope u dont allow ur young dashing male causin to come stay in your house for five years---cos if i be ur wife----we go don dey yansh tey tey---abbi how u see am

vivaladiva:

some women no just get brain or cap-----this would never happen on my watch-----my young cousin come stay with me and my husband for 5 years----say wetin happen now, hahahahahahaha recipe for disaster, no be men and women wey i know, tufia
ive seen enof in my life to know---no one can be trusted

Never say never.

i gave an answer,
i never forced any1 2 rape some1, mind u.

^^^ Well, no one said you forced anyone to ra-pe someone. You gave that advice and for giving that advice is what i got issues with dude. Please be sensible and don't protract this any further.

M M M:

i gave an answer,
i never forced any1 2 violation some1, mind u.

A not-so-smart answer for that matter. Keep quiet next time instead of yarning opata here.

boy
who dey yarning opata here?

vivaladiva:

some women no just get brain or cap-----this would never happen on my watch-----my young cousin come stay with me and my husband for 5 years----say wetin happen now, hahahahahahaha recipe for disaster, no be men and women wey i know, tufia
ive seen enof in my life to know---no one can be trusted

What about your younger sister? Can she stay with you and your husband?

aloy-emeka:

Shouldn't it be his wife keeping her eyes on him because his eyes obviously cannot stand steady?.

what a statement,

If your spouse intends to cheat, blame yourself for not keeping your eyes on her.

Go ahead

If you do it, remember that you will be disrespecting your wife and braking the marriage vows.
respect your family ok.