dayokanu:

Cheating is not a punishable offence under law. Thank God your hand cant reach me even if you jump

Sagamite:

Hell yeah!

chika98:

Oprah's Mother comes to mind. She kept her adopted daughter a secret for 40+ years. And she would've died with it if the daughter didn't come looking for her.
A woman will even pass off other men's children as yours. Now who be bad guys?
Just saying that women can do it better just that some chose not to. Cheating is a choice.

Sagamite:

Research shows one in four men are unknowingly raising at least one child that is not theirs.

Women choose not to cheat as much as men because of (1) they have more to lose and (2) biology.

chika98:

LOL Sagamite biko leave me now jare. I don't have strength now to kon follow you yarn.
Whatever happened to strong morals? Whatever happened to those men who don't cheat because they simply choose not to?

Sagamite:

Na una like dem, init?

When una see gentle baby Jesus like us, una go say we dey boring and you need excitement.

chika98:

You boring? Mouthy and very defensive individual like yourself? Remember I ain't a newbie.
So lie softly softly

Sagamite:

I am a gentle and strong advocate of diplomacy and convivial interactions. My records on NL speaks for itself. [Straight Face like Wada Nas and Comical Ali]

WackyJ1:

I wonder[b] why women always act like the Victim when men cheat[/b].

Sagamite:

Research shows one in four men are unknowingly raising at least one child that is not theirs.

ajigglin:

which research? source, please.

ajigglin:

where did you get 1 in 4 when the title of the article is 1 in 25?
also, note the first line of the article say "up to."  that means 1 in 25 is the largest ratio, but there are smaller ratios as well.
finally, there is this:

"Experts have generally agreed that the rate is below 10%, with a 4% rate meaning that about one in 25 could be affected."

yes, there are many women who do the wrong things, but don't exaggerate the problem.

Sagamite:
What I know is that, women cheat a lot as well. Only amateur and gullible guys don't know that.

It is not about so-called women's "discipline" or "selflessness" or "morals" that prevents their all-out cheating. Women will cheat more if they had as little to lose as men do.

Even I am 100% sure women are more selfish than men, whilst men are more greedy than women.

Both sexes have their good and bad individuals. The bad are way more than the good people. You have to be careful who you choose.

Sagamite:


I will have to disagree on that.

Based on my experience with women (and admittedly, this is vast ), you tend to see that women tend to always want things their way and will use emotional blackmail to get it if they have to. They are more subjective than men and tend to give priority to their own (e.g. kids), that is why it is hard for a woman to agree for the same punishment she wishes on others for their own kid.

Furthermore, women know that women are more selfish. I think this is a major contributor to woman always having beef with each other and bitching on each other even without knowing each other. And as a guy, you are wondering "why". Men just get along with each other.

The amount of times I am in amazement how my female friends are beefing the person they are smiling with is shocking.

Women are not selfish in situations they know they risk public condemnation. Once you remove the threat of that, they are more likely to act selfishly without a shred of contrition. Absolutely zero contrition because . . . . ."they are the weaker sex" hence they are entitled to misbehave without consequence or responsibility.

That is not to say there are no selfish men.



Thanks. I just love the vanity of it.