BRATISLAVA:


He's a church person who is discussing sex with the intent to commit fornication.

All these stories sound fake.

Why is it that there's no woman who comes out to say she's dating a guy who was part of group sex and rubbed substances on his penis? Or the guys who do that don't encounter any woman who knows that they are equally as used?

Emola12:
before u go enjoy dat kind girl eehn forget say she fine or whatever i hope u get long penis? becoz dem don dig in toetoe well well oo my brother

yemi1504:


It doesn't, case seen is Nigeria, because we are a lawless society where people can get away with crime, that is why the country is a shithole. Even countries like Norway still believe in the prison system even if it has been shown to be rehabilitation-based! There are consequences for actions as should be!

tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?

VeeVeeMyLuv:
No it is not ignorance. She was fully aware of what she did in her past.

It was a matter of CHOICE! Any person in higher institution is not a kid.

Let her go and look for and marry her yahooman and his groupies.

tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?

yemi1504:


Exactly! Abi o! Stop mentioning that guy, who knows maybe he is doing this to pander to such females or to rationalize taking such kind of decision too?

Kayceenaz:

I beg to differ. There are still marriageable ladies out there, although very few, without a "dark past." A good number of this handful of women are even virgins, no exaggeration. It takes God's grace for a man to find them and have a mutual affection outcome.

OP, based on the information you've provided about the lady, I advise you don't marry her. The past matters! A generally disciplined, although imperfect, lady is best had as a wife. Look out for your self and future. Lean on reason, not emotions!

Humanoid01:

What would you do if the lady was your sister or daughter? I think you have a lot to learn about love.

yemi1504:


I don't have such kind of sister but if I did, I will not support her on this! Thank you!

debbydams:
if she's olosho she won't leave the relationship or drop out because of that..u guys are the reason why most ladies hide their past..most ladies have ugly past but choose to hide it,the fact that she open up means alot.

DubaiLandLord:
I don't pray I meet such woman, cause if I later find out... I go almost beat her faint for scamming me.

debbydams:
so u can beat woman niyen oo...woman beater spoted

Jashub:
My brother, if you're looking for a soulmate without a dark past then I'm sorry to say that you'll never find that person (at least not in this generation of evildoers ). And as it stands now, that young lady loves you and for her to tell you about her past means she's willing to build a trusting future with you. What if she didn't tell you...wouldn't you have still continued? Guy, forget about her past and try and build a future with her. After all, you don't know if God wants to bless you through this woman

Peace

GboyegaD:


Since the story sounds strange, shouldn't one refer him to where he can get a solution?

tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?

tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?

tgmservice:
Hi Nairalanders
There is this girl I meet in my church very beautiful and well-behaved.

We got to know each other better and developed a likeness for each other and along the line.

As our feeling where growing, she told me an ugly truth about her self how she used to date a Yahoo boy back in school.

She said the yahoo boy gave her all the luxury she needed in life, including the latest gadgets and fashion wears.

She was one of the big girls on campus but deep down the yahoo guy did not have any regard for her as he only used her as a sex tool.
She said sometimes before he sleeps with he robs some strange ointment on his penis and she felt it was fetish.

She also told me that her boyfriend and his yahoo friends usually have group sex with her, it began to impact on her life and physical health negatively that she finally had to take the bold step and leave the relationship and even dropped out from school.

Though now she is doing well and self-employed as she is into hair business.

She said she told me this not to hide anything from me and she really likes me, I really like the girl and thinking of marrying her.
But after revealing her life story is it advisable I still go ahead with the relation?

FatherCHRISTMAS:
How do they Harvest destiny

Femeto:
Group sex nko?

Jashub:
My brother, if you're looking for a soulmate without a dark past then I'm sorry to say that you'll never find that person (at least not in this generation of evildoers ). And as it stands now, that young lady loves you and for her to tell you about her past means she's willing to build a trusting future with you. What if she didn't tell you...wouldn't you have still continued? Guy, forget about her past and try and build a future with her. After all, you don't know if God wants to bless you through this woman

Peace

UndauntedYOCA:
This thread reeks of severe hypocrisy. Many threads are created weekly about how women are just to be used as sex tools, many men here talk about their sexcapades and some even have over 100 body counts and they're all overlooked.
The judgement some of you pass on women is insane. You're the ones getting intimate with these women, some of you have different sex partners yet you're so blind to your own faults.
Yes, she has her faults for having done that but some of you calling her a names aren't any different, some are even worse sef and some of you even practice religious hypocrisy.

Oga, don't let Nairanders be the the main deciders of what to do. Pick the sensible ones and work with them.
I'd suggest that lady goes for serious deliverance in a Bible believing church like MFM because that's their specialty and it's a do it yourself stuff, prayer points are called and you pray them like your life depends on the prayers. No laying of hands, nothing like that.
Secondly, she should grow her spiritual life by devouring the word of God, listening to sermons and praying without ceasing.
Thirdly, she should ensure she makes fasting a pray of her, not necessarily everyday.
Lastly, you both shouldn't get married just because you love yourselves but because it is also the will of God so as Christians that you both are, seek the face of the Lord with regards this, ask Him to order your steps, to speak to you on what to do.
God is not an author of confusion and won't ask you both to settle down with each other if you aren't meant for yourselves.
I'm sure He'll tell you what to do. God saves me from relationships that aren't meant for me via dreams, He could show me how the person will behave in the future etc.
There is no one God can't deliver, there is no one He can't save. If He says you both aren't meant for each other then don't force it but rather stay as friends.

criuze:
If she's a born again then she's a new creature


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