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Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by cooldood(m): 8:15am On Jun 19, 2017 |
soberdrunk: Oga there's nothing like certainty in this or that when it comes with dealings with human and particularly marriage. Simply cos people could change in future due to many reasons e.g new knowledge, etc. And you mentioned emotionally,physically and all the other..lly, but is that not the essence of trying to understand the potential suitor through some checklist as stated in people's responses,before taking the decision. Let me give you a practical example: If you married someone who used to profess a certain religion and later in life changes religion,does it mean"your so called certainty" goes into the air? Mohammed Ali changed religion,Mike Tyson, etc. For me,marriage is forever a work in progress for both guy n babe who must not sit tight and believe once married it's over,your spouse is going nowhere,biggest fallacy. Work has just started for both man n woman in regularly watering"the flower" forever, if not yawa fi gaz o in future. |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by emiarire(f): 8:17am On Jun 19, 2017 |
KillerBeauty:I think we dont really knw wat true love is dt y we usually say love is nt enough. Understanding , committment, friendship etc are all found in love. When u love someone, understanding him/her, been commited to d person, friendship etc all comes naturally. (n i think dats way soberdrunk is, tryin to say) Most divorces that come from ppl dt claim to 'love' starts when one party begin to think more of himself than the partner n selflessness is only found in love. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by cooldood(m): 8:21am On Jun 19, 2017 |
folakemigeh: Gbam.lol. |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by cooldood(m): 8:22am On Jun 19, 2017 |
gawk: So are you saying finance is not key or what? The poster actually makes sense. |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by emiarire(f): 8:24am On Jun 19, 2017 |
KillerBeauty:I think we dont really knw wat true love is dt y we usually say love is nt enough. Understanding , committment, friendship etc are all found in love. When u love someone, understanding him/her, been commited to d person, friendship etc all comes naturally. (n i think dats way soberdrunk is tryin to say) Most divorces that come from ppl dt claim to 'love' starts when one party begin to think more of himself than the partner n selflessness is only found in love. |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by KillerBeauty(f): 8:27am On Jun 19, 2017 |
emiarire:Okay. But I really do not believe in that true love thing. If you spend your time looking for true love in a relationship you will die old and lonely. Just be friends with your partner, be committed to the relationship and try to understand the person. That's the recipe for long lasting relationship |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by cooldood(m): 8:33am On Jun 19, 2017 |
KillerBeauty: Absolutely. People just think about love as some magic wand, you're on your own with that. Love is actually a 'doing word', an action word, see once you're not able 'to do' that which your partner needs or desire, that your 'love' begins to erode. God's love is not human's love o. |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by teevodaprinz(m): 8:37am On Jun 19, 2017 |
Discussing things like financial aspect and any other things in courtship does not really count to me. The one and only that count is your "sex life" And that's if u guys have decided to abstain till after wedding. 99.9999999999999999% of partners in relationship/ Courtship will never tell you their weak areas. So how do you expect to know the truth in the so called "to be discussed" thing. The best way to know all that is needed is to be vigilant in courtship. A partner who repeat a particular habit you don't like many times but always apologise and say "it's a mistake" hello in quote, it's not a mistake. That's one part of him/her such person is trying to hide. Ofcus such can change, but never hope it will get better in marriage instead expect less. If you can cope with such habit then go ahead. I've heard a lady who says her boyfriend can't control her since she's not married to him yet. You can imagine that, how do you expect such lady to be submissive after marriage? One fact remains... There's nothing new in marriage, it's just the upgraded version of relationships/courtship Only few things will be added in marriage. But the big question is : - Will the "few added" be a good one or the other one? Answer : - IF YOU ARE VIGILANT ENOUGH DURING COURTSHIP, YOU WILL KNOW THE KIND OF FRUIT HE/SHE WILL BEAR Thank you Tioluwa: 2 Likes |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by cooldood(m): 8:45am On Jun 19, 2017 |
emiarire: Let me ask you this - if your spouse develops a medical illness and he's not able to deliver in bed, how will you react, if he develops stroke or arthritis for example. Another example if your spouse loses his investments,business,etc,and he's not able to meet basic needs for many years due to hypertension,how will you react? Ok, if your Christian partner changes to Islam or traditional form of religion, how will you react? It's easier said than done, love is not enough. Life happens and things change. Marriage for me though is over exaggerated. |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by Flintstone06(m): 8:48am On Jun 19, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: Weyrey! |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by Flintstone06(m): 8:55am On Jun 19, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: Haaa! Savage!!! |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by olowobaba10: 9:23am On Jun 19, 2017 |
soberdrunk:COMMENTERS LIKE YOU ARE WHAT STILL KEPT ME ON NAIRA LAND |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by jerrywill(m): 9:58am On Jun 19, 2017 |
folakemigeh:Beautiful 1 Like |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by aamstih: 9:59am On Jun 19, 2017 |
The touching once in a week would be feasible at the abinitio but when career/ kids induced pressure sets in you would surely not have this as a priority, trust me. folakemigeh: |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by d33types: 9:59am On Jun 19, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: Wow,this is astonishing.Something good can come out of NwaAmaikpe? |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by chimexview: 11:10am On Jun 19, 2017 |
folakemigeh: Folake give me love ❤️....nicely said |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by chimexview: 11:14am On Jun 19, 2017 |
victorious001:m You are highly mouthed , Tell him again |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by 2016v2017: 11:16am On Jun 19, 2017 |
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Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by 2016v2017: 11:17am On Jun 19, 2017 |
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Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by 2016v2017: 11:21am On Jun 19, 2017 |
soberdrunk:Thumbs up for you |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by Nobody: 11:25am On Jun 19, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: LWKMD....that guy is DEMENTED!!!! |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by deeone10: 12:56pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
NwaAmaikpe: Kilode...u just spoil somebody's day kai |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by CarterIkonAllah(m): 3:40pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Your strength and weaknesses,as well as your direction and focus |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by SHOOPSYN(m): 4:01pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
Relationship... marriage IS ALL ABOUT MEETING NEEDS...(Spiritual needs, physical needs Psychological needs, Emotional needs etc)...@Op, asking questions is very vital but note this, marriage is more like an android phone application that requires upgrade... till Jesus comes. Try and get Myles Munroe's message: Single but not alone. Is very good. Meeting Needs!!!! |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by icequeen0424: 5:28pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
tydi: Have you accepted him. Mumu wife beater 1 Like |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by tydi(m): 11:41pm On Jun 19, 2017 |
icequeen0424: lol... I guess u r a literate buh uneducated.. u don't need to ask me how I know.. pls accept him now cus heaven go play ur tape of Bleep wen you get there then you go tell jesus where der do that kind thing for bible Shift make I faint near ur atrocities |
Re: What Are Some Of The Issues To Be Discussed During Courtship ? by icequeen0424: 6:57am On Jun 20, 2017 |
tydi: See who is talking about not being educated. Look at your post. Filled with errors. Nitwit. Igbo smoking wife beater is preaching Christ. I am sure your pastor is Suleiman. I pray your wife wakes up, and takes the right decision so that you can destroy yourself. Let me describe your future for you. You will end up homeless in a gutter somewhere. Your teeth rotten begging for money to buy igbo. Then people will be saying does this man not have children. Your wife is a beautiful girl. She will move on and raise her son, to be a good man. Shame will not let you come close, by then your parents will be dead, all relatives would have abandoned you. You will end up dead in the gutter with gutter rats feasting on you. 15 Likes |
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