Lets reflections on our ways and our end as we open, http://www.fishthe.net/hell.htm

wat a fantastically made up story,
wat a way2get noticed on almighty NL,
na so ha toto sweet rish?
if u like leave planet earth with ur40somtins years oldmamayoungie and start living in d moon,
ur strictly on ur own!

So the woman already has one marriage that possibly ended in divorce and she wants you to leave yoru wife so that you can be her second experiment. One thing that men do not understand is that if a woman wants you she will do every single thing she can to get you. Until she has you. you will realize then that she is a human being just like the other woman who you totally devastated when you walked away. The sad part is that you have children involved. I hope you get wise and snap out of it before it is too late

@ OP

HOW DARE YOU!!!

You rotten, low down scum! I order you OUT OF NL - DON'T YOU EVER RETURN!!!

Shy-One spits on the thread and walks out!

^^ Is that necessary?

Where the hell is the OP?

Do what makes you happy dude. Even with the best intentions, life happens, poo happens. A marriage shouldn't be a hostage situation. Walk.

J12:

Where the hell is the OP?

OP don Kawasaiki

I wonder the kind of spell this adultreous woman has cast on you but I heard that slaps expels spells. If i were close to the op, I'll definitely give him a DIRTY SLAP.

Zahnda:

Do what makes you happy dude. Even with the best intentions, life happens, poo happens. A marriage shouldn't be a hostage situation. Walk.

''A marriage shouldn't be a hostage situation, ,'' bla bla bla. Are u right in de head?? Was he in chains wen he took her to the altar before God? Now you want him to commit a great sin before God by abandoning his family-when his wife has not in any way been unfaithful to him?? It is statements like dis that make me question de sanity of some african countries where 'civilization' has eaten up every fibre of dignity!

EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER, TRY IT AND SEE HOW YOU WOULD END UP!!!!!!!!
U EVEN GET HAND TO POST, THEN U NO GO EVEN GET YOURSELF.
POSTING THIS SHOWS YOU ARE IN UR RIGHT SENSES AND NOT CHARMED, BUT YOU JUST WANT TO BE RANDY/

ABEG WOMAN DEY FINISH FOR LIFE, WEY U WANT END UR CAREER? ABEGI

you seems to be under a very serious spell, you need urgent deliverance, try MFM, it is a serious matter.

laoak2:

you seems to be under a very serious spell, you need urgent deliverance, try MFM, it is a serious matter.

Probabaly he is tied to the woman by LUST not he is under spell. He should redefine his life and stay with his wife and kids.

@Poster wake up you are in deep slumber. 

You want to go and be taking care of someone else children and leave your children to suffer.

@ Poster.
Pls, i hope you are kidding or what? I do not know what this new woman have that your wife do not have. She is good to you and have not disappointed you and you want to disappoint her just because you saw another sisi. Be ready to divorce her in less then four years, because the way you sound, she is so charming to you, sorry the charm will soon clear from both of your eyes and one will start smelling the other.
If you can run, run as much as you can, if you cannot, crawl away. Do not place your life on the butchers chop board for a piece of meal. Run, run, run.

@ Poster,

unfortunately you didn't say anything about you social and financial status. A married woman wit two kids is only interested in social and financial security of herself and her kids.

I strongly recommend that you be a MAN and confess to your wife. That is the only way to break the spell. If not, you will be deceiving yourself until she trap you with pregnancy.

Thanks for all the comments, and I did not run away, I am just keeping quiet and listening.
Also, can guys and ladies stop the insults, u can pass across ur comments without insulting, please.
To those suggesting I see a pastor/marriage counsellor, I think we all know that no pastor will ask me to divorce my wife no matter how bad the situation might seem, so that is no option. However, I think I will stay with my wife and allow my mistress to go.

poster
why marrying a 40 yrS old naughty woman at list there are so many pretty young girls plenty in nigeria looking for marriage.Are you okay 40 yrs old woman that one na old cargo your wife will go mad if you left her for old cargo not these young breeds she see everyday in the streets-looking fresh and all that see your head in igbo language they say( ALA DALAADA ADA GO) NA WAAOOO,

J12:

^^ Is that necessary?

yes - you're right - that's the native in me - sometimes I let her out of her cage to air her grievances. hahahahahahaha

sorry - I got a bit irritated reading this thread - my apologies to the OP

Guy - I don't know what to tell you - smh, smh, smh

You actually have me at a loss.

My view? bye bye!

Following my heart in this circumstance, I think would be disastrous in the long run.
So I think I will follow my brain instead. To those that said it's actually Lust and Infatuation, i agree 100%

There is this thing women now rob on there cunt; the result is that the he goat would keep following them, it's possible you are now a victim. It also has a cure, the girl told me that if you mix milk and something like that, the spirit will leave you. I may ask for you if you are interested because, I was not interested to know then

i believe the poster is under a strong influence. i will advice he meet his pastor for deliverance. i pity you sooooooooooooooooooo much if you refuse to see your pastor cos you will live to regret it.

mecussey:

There is this thing women now rob on there womanliness; the result is that the he goat would keep following them, it's possible you are now a victim. It also has a cure, the girl told me that if you mix milk and something like that, the spirit will leave you. I may ask for you if you are interested because, I was not interested to know then

Funny,

Think this is just a cooked story. Too fake to be real.

@kemisuga,
This is not a cooked up story, u you need to be there to know how it is.
This is the shit that i am in at the moment. Things happen that u just cannot explain how.
Few months ago I would have said this cannot happen to me, but here I am.
If u believe it fine but if u don't, well its up to u.

[size=8pt][size=8pt]LET ME ADVISE YOU MARRY THE BOTH OF THEM. DONT MIND PEOPLE ON HERE SAYING ALL KIND OF RUBBISH. WE ARE ALL HUMAN AND OUR FEELING AND EMOTION CAN FLY. NEVER YOU LEAVE YOUR WIFE FOR ANYTHING FOR THE INTEREST OF YOUR CHILDREN. MARRY THE WOMAN AS SECOND WIFE. NOTHING IS WRONG WITH POLYGAMY . [/size][/size]

Yes, humanly speaking, our emotions can fly to any extent but add more problems to your problem. You can simply tell your original wife about this and she may wisely help you seek for God's help, but if she is stupid; I am sorry for you.

Never you tell your wife. dont keep the woman outside marry her and make her your second wife if you have the financial power to so

Gr8est:

Thanks for all the comments, and I did not run away, I am just keeping quiet and listening.
Also, can guys and ladies stop the insults, u can pass across your comments without insulting, please.
To those suggesting I see a pastor/marriage counsellor, I think we all know that no pastor will ask me to divorce my wife no matter how bad the situation might seem, so that is no option. However, I think I will stay with my wife and allow my mistress to go.

The question is "Can You?"

Gbam!

The thing wen go kill Dog, go first of all comot the Dog sense of smell. dats the way you are heading, you are not even ashamed of publicly saying you have been cheating on your wife,Infact you derive joy in doing it. how do you expect your kids to react to this, if they ever read it? marriage na wa ohhhhhh. if you were from my village, 40 hot strokes on your penis is enough to get you back to your senses.

Had it been a single younger woman, my words could have been different but with a forty+ divorced woman. Man! wake up! This is a devil's trap. Woman that age has nothing to offer except liabilities and what can you get out of such relationship, nada. Though in reality marriage is not a smooth ride atmost times but a used car with serious maintenance issues. The partners keep pushing and patching and panel beating till they reach their destinations. So, my guy wake up and mend your marriage.

my candid advice is that u forget taking such decision because you might regret it for the rest of your life.
There is an adage that says "the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know. Most of this ladies are pretenders. i mean,Real pretenders. They just want to lure you into marriage then bring there true person to bear.
Guy, i am speaking from experience though i stand to be corrected but am telling you the sincere truth. Remember when you first met your wife(before marriage) and her character,attitude and behaviour, then compare it with when you eventually got married. I mean, the changes aftermath.
Although, it is natural to experience such change(s) due to so many factors but one must be prepared to tackle and overcome such challenge(s) which i believe you are doing.
My advice is that you forget about this lady and move on with your life at least for the sake of the future of your children and GOD. Besides, it is a sin.I wish you the best of decision making