SeyiFargo:
20 yrs

Ha !
You've only just begun...

SeyiFargo:
The reason why I posted this is cause
1:- I'd be anonymous, cus am a shy type
2:- I believe in y'all for your outspokeness

Send me an email' that shit must go' it aint gon frustrate you no more

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

hmm

Bro get a job or get very busy and also get a girlfriend, you will forget masturbation in no time. To do it will seem like a task

SeyiFargo:
20 yrs

Just imagine at 20 years when your mates are building their career and investing in their future, Your own is pornography and masturbation.
Tomorrow when you become a useless man at 30,40,& 50 you say naa PDP and APC or your village people do you.

Experience they say is the best teacher

No addiction is small or should be overlooked.
Work on your addiction yourself. Think about the health implications.
Do you want to see free toto with big butty on your bed (your wife) and you're not able to satisfy her because the strength,power,stamina and ability that takes to satisfy a woman is what you're loosing now
It won't be funny bro.. when deep in your heart you know you're just caging your wife without able to sexually satisfy her.
Sometimes you will wish she cheat on you with a big gbola that has strength and stamina you can't offer once in a very long while.

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Give yourself time, you will outgrow it, eventually

nairabacks:


Ha !
You've only just begun...

Telegram234:

Lolz..
I laugh u.
I was a chronic mastubator, and before I dont need phone to watch porn,
I just visualize or remember any porn I have watched..
But now I am changed person..
It wasn't easy at all.

So how did you do it? Share some tips

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

1) Understand the reason why you masturbate

Your body reacts to hormones and those are the urges which prompts you to masturbate, having these urges are not bad but therefore they ought to be controlled. Therefore not controlling them is the wrong thing. By grace learning to control the urge by distracting your mind when such thoughts come in your mind.

2) Understand the triggers
Identify the triggers and avoid them, avoid pornographic contents, the thought is the trigger and it is influenced by what you have seen, heard etc, do away with them.

join masturbation qutting challenge thread on romance section of nairaland

Avoid anything porn. Zero your mind towards porn. Make up your mind. You can also contact any psychotherapist if you can it is thing of the mind. Bros,please,also pray over it.

SeyiFargo:
The reason why I posted this is cause

1:- I'd be anonymous, cus am a shy type

2:- I believe in y'all for your outspokeness

When you think of how dirty the act is in the sight of God (impurity), and because of it you cannot get any tangible blessings from God because you displease him by your actions, when you know it that people who engage in the act will end up in the hottest part of hell fire. When you realise that masturbation will soon start having adverse effects on your eye sight,
you will stop it.

Stay away from phonographic pictures because each time you watch it through your phone or any other means you must do it.
Channel your imagination to productive ventures.

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

You must be born again. Only Jesus Christ can save you so give your life to Him and make Him the Lord and Saviour of your soul. God bless you.

Avoid being alone...

Let's wait for the elders

tesseract:
There is a masturbation quitting thread on nairaland, find it. The support will help you. There are a lot of people running your race. I know you'll triumph eventually.

No need to find anything. He has been told here, what he needs to know. Before he go go jam worse situation while searching

Vinnie2000:



Too Many masturbation topics diz days!!

OP
*Sell your Android phone and use Torchlight phone..
*Don't watch Porn on TV or anywhere..
*Don't watch MTV Base, Sound city, etc where there is sexual explicit videos..
*Don't entertain sexual thoughts!!
*Lastly, Read your Bible Daily!!

If you Follow dis Advise Religiously, @Least within 2years, You will Quit masturbation Permanently!!
Don't Forget to thank me when you see Result!

he may do all those things but still can it control nature,the early morning rising of the dick will be invitable in such individual and thats when the urge will come,he cannot stop masturbating until he gets a sexy girlfriend that can drain the excess juice from his body,then he can reduce it but not stop,at his age he cannot stop masturbating,can be reduced but cannot stop entirely not possible,the distraction and images that trigger masturbation is now more than ever,even married men and old men still masturbates these days.

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Okay, keep masturbating.

1. You will look more than your age(like you will look older)

2. Feeling weak every time

3. Early discharge when you are about to have real sex

4. Low self-esteem

5. Later on nocturnal emissions (wet dreaming)

6. Frequent urination.


Just continue. This are your future gift.

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Hello dear, I have a very easy solution for you that is stress-free and won't wear you out. Pls read the below.

If you're born again, try this very simple thing.

Firstly, the Bible says without faith, it is impossible to please God. When Christians are sick, they have faith and quote the scripture "by His stripe I am healed". When Christians are in need of financial need, they have faith and quote "my God shall supply all my needs..." or "The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want...". But when they sin or are struggling with sin, they don't know how to use faith (not their faith but Christ's faith - believing that God is good and wants you made whole).

So Op, whenever you find yourself struggling with this sin or any other sin, confess out loud "I am the righteousness of God in Christ Jesus". Jesus Christ, who knew no sin became sin for you that you might be righteous in Him (2 Corinthians 5:21)...Even Romans 3:22 says the righteousness of God is by faith in Jesus Christ.

So again, confess that statement out loud every time you find yourself sinning. Right in the midst of your struggles, confess it. The devil doesn't want you to believe Jesus has made you righteous. He may whisper in your ear and say you're a hypocrite...that how can you be sinning and still call yourself righteous. Well how can a sick Christian still believe by faith that he/she is healed? Cos you have to go by the Word of God and not by your circumstance. For sin shall not have dominion over you, cos you're not under law but under grace (Romans 6:14).

You may not overcome this struggle immediately but gradually, they're falling off you. One day, you'll just realize that urge isn't there anymore. Cos faith is calling those things that are not as though they are. Confess you're righteous in Christ and see miracles happen in your life. And this confession goes for your every inheritance in Christ Jesus! Since you're righteous in Him, every blessings that belong to the righteous are yours!

Nairaland with mastubation, I don't understand dis era of careless gals ur still mastubating when sex is like handshake

SeyiFargo:
20 yrs

Just 5 years into masturbating and you're looking for solution to a problem that doesn't exist

I stopped worrying about masturbation and the addiction reduced drastically. I still masturbate for the record. No harm, no fear, just cum and sleep

It's healthy for me if you ask me, it's my own little vice as expected for every man. I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't fvck olosho, I only fvck myself and I love me for it.

Masturbation will be healthy once you stop worrying yourself about stopping it. I last long with my GF, she cums first, I'm healthy. Masturbation relieves me of stress and I feel more relaxed after climax.

God will bless the first day I masturbated, my life took a better turn from that day. I can't be sex starved anymore, I control sex and not the other way round.

I don't know when I started masturbating though, I just know I was in my junior secondary class and I'm 2years post nysc now so do the math. I'm very healthy.

My little advice. Please eat well, boost your immune system. Take blood capsules on a regular, eat well. Masturbation, just like sex, fvcks your immune system up. Supplement it with synthesised drugs for immune system buildup and eat very well too. And most importantly, worry less about it, you'll be fine.

Kantebets:
Wetin una gain for soapy?
What do u gain romancing your dick
Disgusting bro
Get a life

Spoken like a complete idiot who doesn't know how real life works.

When you are idle, the devil takes over your mind and hands. Your testosterone levels spikes higher-up with every episode of masturbating.
Ultimate advice I will give you is to become more responsible. Pick a job that will drain pleasure out of your system, stop pornography,stay away from unhealthy relationships (having a girlfriend or being married is not the solution to masturbation, I have met married men still battling with it), have a physical male mentor that can monitor your progress and not condemn you, finally and most importantly, GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST....do these and I promise you won't even have an erection in as long as you desire.

Repent, give your life to Christ and abstain from watching pornography. I was once like you. But now I'm free. My case started went I met a lady I so much admire and love, which I propose to her to marry her, which she accepted, but the marriage could not hold, because of her wayward life, I left her, But when ever I remember her I will start masturbating, even though I have not known woman, I remove my mind from her and also call a pastor that pray for me. That was how God delivered me.

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Get a fuvking girlfriend

No cure

Please watch this on YouTube and you will get help. Masturbation is a killer. This video will solve your problem


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-3Vdg7oIg4A

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless ..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

*Set achievable goals and be focused
*Stop being alone most often
*Be focused in life
*Stop pornography - this shit is demonic
*Ask God for grace all the time
*Watch Joseph Okechukwu videos on
pornography on you tube. Helpfully indeed. Your eyes will open. You will stop it.
I pray that God who saved me from it will as well save you too.
Finally, Incase you are a Catholic, say your Rosary daily. The Blessed Virgin Mary knows how to deal with such things. If you are not I advise that you respectfully acknowledge her and talk to her concerning pornography. She will help you.

BEAR IT IN MIND THAT MASTURBATION JUST LIKE ANYOTHER ADDICTION CAN BE STOPPED. MANY PEOPLE STOPPED THEIRS. I STOPPED MINE BY HIS GRACE. SO BEAR IN MIND THAT YIU CAN STOP IT TOO. THAT SHIT IS DEMONIC, I BECAME A CONSOLIDATED MILLIONAIRE WHEN I STOPPED IT.