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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Onliie(m): 2:32pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��
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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Lostchild(m): 2:35pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo

You have become possessed with demons that is pumping sexual urge into you; You can burn and drive those demonic spirit out of you with prayer

When you are at home, violently pray for 30 minutes against every sexual demon of lust in your life.

Violently pray for 30 minutes everyday for 3 months..

And Thank Jesus

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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by xproducer: 2:44pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

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First, thank GOD that you see the reality that such an act /acts are bad / sinful (not everyone does).

Second, and particularly during such times of temptation - keep in mind that "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." - Romans 6:23 and that every time you engage you are in effect - but for the grace of GOD - "treasuring up for yourself wrath in the day of wrath" - Romans 2:5

Third, at such times immediately "watch and pray" - in effect, start praying to the Lord GOD for the strength and grace to avoid it and read your holy Bible - there is power in the word of GOD (Hebrews 4:12-13). "Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” - Matthew 26:41. In fact, to the extent you can - "pray without ceasing" - 1 Thessalonians 5:17

"No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it." - 1 Corinthians 10:13

Look always to the Lord JESUS, the CHRIST in prayer - He graciously shows us how to live. "For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin." - Hebrews 4:15

It seems "easier said than done" but keep the faith and continue to persevere in all things good.... "And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart." - Galatians 6:9

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"Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body, that you should obey it in its lusts." - Romans 6:12

"For those who live according to the flesh set their minds on the things of the flesh, but those who live according to the Spirit, the things of the Spirit... For if you live according to the flesh you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live." -
Romans 8:5 & 13
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 12, 2021
I'm a very imaginative person if I want to reduce my sexual urge I imagine something disgusting about girls, when I I think of yansh I imagine her messing or shitting
When I think of puzzy I imagine her on her period with blood everywhere
Breasts don't turn me at all, the bigger the more disgusting

Learn to use your imaginations

SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Mystery9(m): 3:00pm On Sep 12, 2021
visit... eternityrace.com (click on masturbation section)... May God see you through.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Mystery9(m): 3:02pm On Sep 12, 2021
Lordgudline:
Bro, we are quite similar both in problem and age, masturbation has really affected my life negatively in so many ways. I've tried to stop countless, prayed about it, tried everything. But what I've come to find out that it takes major commitment and discipline to get over this shameful act.

i found this app online, it's free and well put together.

It's been over a week now since i started using it, as you can see it shows 7 days on the count down.

You can do it bro!
Visit...... eternityrace.com (May God see you through)
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by oncolor1: 3:20pm On Sep 12, 2021
Masturbation is perfectly normal! It is a safe and healthy way to relieve yourself! Don't list to people quoting Bible and using religious nonsense to condemn the act. As with anything in this world, it is when you overdo it (several times a day) that it becomes a problem.

Instead of typing on Nairaland and listening to religious zealots and people with no commonsense, please use the internet you are using to waste time on Nairaland and instead search on google for masturbation effects and you will see from reliable medical websites that it is very safe.

For example check this one : https://www.healthline.com/health/masturbation-side-effects

Also check this one: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/is-masturbating-every-day-bad-for-your-health

Also check this one: https://www.webmd.com/men/guide/male-masturbation-5-things-you-didnt-know

I started masturbating around 15/16 years and I am in my 40's, married with kids, and still masturbate when my wife travels or is not available and I even last longer (15 to 30 minutes) if I masturbate before sex because you have released excessive urge.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Nobody: 3:20pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Delete all d blue films from ur fone
If the urge come stop looking for sexual scene in movies or browsing sexual photos. When piss worry u, stand up go piss, stop turning urine to spam, stop thinking about sex
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Chno: 3:27pm On Sep 12, 2021
You have to delete anything that triggers the urge to masturbate. I had one girl on my WhatsApp, dat always post nudes and twerking videos of herself, immediately i deleted the useless Nigerian girl, i stopped dat masturbation shit smiley
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Nobody: 3:28pm On Sep 12, 2021
Lostchild:
SeyiFargo

You have become possessed with a demon that is pumping sexual urge in you.

You can burn and drive that demonic spirit with prayer

When you are at home, violently pray for 30 minuits against every sexual demon of lust in your life.

Violently pray for 30 minuits everyday for 3 months..

And Thank Jesus

Violently pray.
There is nothing wrong in masturbating except u are doin it in excess just like doin excess of every other thing.
We too dey spiritualize everything in this part of the world
Masturbation can save u from deadly sexual diseases, unwanted pregnancy, help to ease ur tension. It will help u last long if u wan even sex.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Lostchild(m): 3:31pm On Sep 12, 2021
ANDREW91:


Violently pray.
There is nothing wrong in masturbating except u are doin it in excess just like doin excess of every other thing.
We too dey spiritualize everything in this part of the world
Masturbation can save u from deadly sexual diseases, unwanted pregnancy, help to ease ur tension. It will help u last long if u wan even sex.

grin cheesy
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 3:32pm On Sep 12, 2021
chigator2:
I will give you tips that you should reflect on to guide you to self recovery

... You have to decide how serious you are about breaking the habit.

Think about your situation, you are literally a slave to an unproductive addiction. Think about what masturbation has cost you ( dignity, social life, free conscience ). Think about how useful you can become without something useless occupying your time and mind.

... Open up to someone not a close friend but someone who is like a authority over you like your parents, pastor, teacher, the whole family. Tell them you are a chronic masturbator willing to repent. I am sure they will be willing to help you heal yourself.

This is hard, I admit but it is shame that emanates from you exposing yourself that breaks you free. Then if you still have some conscience you would sincerely almost magically strive to redeem your public image in their eyes.
Ironically, It is the secrecy and guilt of this act that leads the victims back to it. You can testify to it.

... Starve the Beast.

Delete social media. Forgo music videos and provocative websites.
Don't buy data ( if you can ), delete all suggestive movies, books, pictures and off course pornography from your devices.
Switch off your phone immediately you are done with a task.
Avoid staying alone any where.

There is a lot more you know that triggers you. If you mean it you have to play the part of a man fighting a lion barehanded. Be brutal and cut throat in approach. Because if you dare give room to any slight stimulus, your autonomic nervous system takes over, logic leaves you and you are back in the pit.


... Replace the habit.

As soon as you have decided to break free, pick up something to occupy your mind and brain. Strenous and tasking activities not entertainment.

Physical Exercise,
Books,
New skills and knowledge
Volunteer work,
Church / Mosque

In the end, breaking free from your addiction might make you a potential candidate for financial, academic etc Success.


... Don't dare relapse

If you dare backslide, the guilt will verbally speak to you and say " You just had a round, what's the big deal, you are as dirty as you were before, you strained yourself for nothing, go ahead and please yourself once more".

Then you go on in the show of shame.

Help yourself bro, don't be a slave.
When u tell the new generation, they won't listen to u. Now look at the repercussions

They will instead say that we are old school, they say that they have to be in tune with modernization.

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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by pasimo(m): 3:33pm On Sep 12, 2021
zaxbash:
Get married
��� Like marriage is the solution...
You never see married couples complaining, my husband doesn't satisfy me in bed . Coz the Fapping and real sex no be age mate again ...
FOCUS is the key...

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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by pasimo(m): 3:37pm On Sep 12, 2021
oncolor1:
Masturbation is perfectly normal! It is a safe and healthy way to relieve yourself! Don't list to people quoting Bible and using religious nonsense to condemn the act. As with anything in this world, it is when you overdo it (several times a day) that it becomes a problem.

Instead of typing on Nairaland and listening to religious zealots and people with no commonsense, please use the internet you are using to waste time on Nairaland and instead search on google for masturbation effects and you will see from reliable medical websites that it is very safe.

For example check this one : https://www.healthline.com/health/masturbation-side-effects

Also check this one: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/teens/ask-experts/is-masturbating-every-day-bad-for-your-health

Also check this one: https://www.webmd.com/men/guide/male-masturbation-5-things-you-didnt-know

I started masturbating around 15/16 years and I am in my 40's, married with kids, and still masturbate when my wife travels or is not available and I even last longer (15 to 30 minutes) if I masturbate before sex because you have released excessive urge.
OMG.. another blockbuster...
Mafo
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Lostchild(m): 3:44pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo

If you dont stop masturbation, it will destroy.

There is a demon that is giving you the extreme hornyness and urge to masturbate. Anytime you mastubate you become free from the urge be cos it has become spiritual.

I have not have sex or masturbate for 10 years because I pray a lot and focus on the future.

You have to pray
You have to violently pray.

I give to you this prayer point.

Every demon of lust in my life: Receive fire x5) in the name of Jesus

Every marine spirit in my life: Receive fire x5) in the name of Jesus

Every snakes- spirit of cobra in my life: Receive fire x5) in the name of Jesus

Every ancestral demon in my life: Receive fire x5) in the name of Jesus

Every pervert demo. in my life: catch fire x5) in the name of Jesus.

I set my body on fire of God spirit - in the name of Jesus

Shout as many fire as possible to burn every angent of darkness assign against your life

Do this every 30 minutes a day for just 1 months
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by IJEYdiamond(f): 3:59pm On Sep 12, 2021
zaxbash:
Get married

Married masturbate... theirs is worst... that is not a solution either..!!
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Jacksparrow7(m): 4:00pm On Sep 12, 2021
Buy small phone without internet.
Go campus and use public internet

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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by IJEYdiamond(f): 4:02pm On Sep 12, 2021
Hmmm..

Solution... every is in the mind try u best...

to Stop.. So that u dont damage u d... and become more miserable, depressed and age quickly........!!...

Dont mind those telling u to go ahead... when time reach... the *P*.. will not stand tall to play with... time go reach!!

*Excessive masturbation will leads to the damage of nerves supplying to the penis..which in future leads to weak erection or erectile dysfunction,shrinkage of penis, low sexual stamina etc....*
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by news9inja: 4:11pm On Sep 12, 2021
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..

All comments are welcomed
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Shawl001(m): 4:24pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

You see,
That thing called Masturbation can eat into your very core, its very destructive, yet fragile.
My advice is this:
Sell your phone, or any gadgets that you view it with.
You must steer clear from everything that provokes that act. Delete the videos, songs, make sure you're always in the midst of people. If you stay alone in school, get a room mate. Just make sure you block every avalible loop hole that can make your mind move towards it again.

And very importantly,
You need to receive the life of Jesus into your life. Let Him come and help do all those things I listed above, cos I know you may not be able to do those things all by yourself.
Let Him help you.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by NSK4U(m): 5:04pm On Sep 12, 2021
Soapy masters!
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by KangaIye: 5:06pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Yes you can if you can follow through the thread on my signature religiously

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by KangaIye: 5:13pm On Sep 12, 2021
Lordgudline:
Bro, we are quite similar both in problem and age, masturbation has really affected my life negatively in so many ways. I've tried to stop countless, prayed about it, tried everything. But what I've come to find out that it takes major commitment and discipline to get over this shameful act.

i found this app online, it's free and well put together.

It's been over a week now since i started using it, as you can see it shows 7 days on the count down.

You can do it bro!


You can find solace among your brothers here

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by tweakdude1: 5:33pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

Avoid negative taughts and go into compulsory prayers and fasting ( do not stop until your prayers are answered)
Read your Bible.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by BonPatrick(m): 5:40pm On Sep 12, 2021
Mine is 6 years
Mgreat:

Damn!
5years of soapy?
You need to see Pastor righteousnes who has steadfastly served as the resident pastor of Nairaland.
Or you visit you local pastor for deliverance

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Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Akuruoulo(m): 5:43pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��


GOD IS THE SURE WAY.
RUN TO HIM
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Truthsoldier(m): 5:45pm On Sep 12, 2021
kissTruth be told...
You need to know that once you are always in touch with any medium that can trigger such it would be impossible to stop,the world these days is full of sexual explicit contents everywhere,even your thoughts can trigger it due to long uploaded pictures in your mind...

Boredom,wrong company and loneliness are fertile grounds where it grows,I will advise you to;
1.Know that this is a mind thing,it is normal to have sex urges,after all if you don't you won't feel complete as a person but when you base on contemplating on how you can go about it to satisfy it that's when you will fall into it,so engage your mind on reading and watching healthy articles

2.You can't stop it overnight,it has been a habit,but your decision and hatred for it is good enough to show that your redemption is near,so seek not to be discouraged

3.Submit to the Holyspirit and pray,you need not to go all by self will,study God's word, pray and meditate on the words of God

4.Avoid any thing that can bring you close to any sexual material and don't base your mind on the thought that you are trying to conquer the act,just do the three listed above,get busy and soon enough you will be surprised that you have conquered

Hope this helped
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Nobody: 6:01pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��
you are still living by the flesh that is why you have not stopped it, Gal 5:17.
Give your life to Christ, tell him to give you the grace to overcome sexual immorality, wake up every midnight and pray till that demonic bondage is broken, then begin to live by the holyghost Romans 8:12. May the Lord strengthen you in Jesus name. Amen. You are more than a conqueror.
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Ceufinish: 6:04pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

My friend, Jesus can deliver you. Jesus will deliver you. The truth is He is the only way to total freedom
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by PyroDavid: 6:05pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread
Open the link up here, and do your best
Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Ugandatales: 7:05pm On Sep 12, 2021
SeyiFargo:
I started masturbating while I was 15yrs old, hence I have been trying on how to stop it.. All has been fruitless embarassed embarassed..
Anyone with a solid way of stopping this shiit, am tired of it..
All comments are welcomed
Let's push this to the fp so every Nl monikers can help me out ��

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