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| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by donhils: 11:14am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Why do we see posts about masturbation every week? Can't you people just search other pervious posts and leave us alone with your masturbation problems? |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Aondoteryila: 11:15am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Xenry:bathroom is the worst place to go, i had been there and am still there,i can't control the urge in the bathroom, see soap see water, am even afraid of weeding my private part |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Loverboi2cute(m): 11:17am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Betboss:I swear...we wey no con get girl wey fit give us nko... wetin we go do na?? |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:17am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Op what do u do with your time? Do u have anything or person u are responsible for? Are u currently engaged in productive activities? |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Champneys: 11:20am On Sep 12, 2021 |
zaxbash: Married folks masturbate, you dumbo! |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Ubongikouwem: 11:23am On Sep 12, 2021 |
zaxbash: Never the solution |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by johngreatogah: 11:25am On Sep 12, 2021 |
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| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Vintage94(m): 11:25am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Give your life to CHRIST. Only in Him can you find deliverance from any kind of sin. |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by yemmit90: 11:26am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: The only thing that cure masturbation is maturity and experience. There will be a certain level in your life that you will completely stop and see it as a stupid disgusting practice. There is nothing on earth that can cure you but these two facts. Experience- when you can have sex anytime you want it. Maturity- when you come of age with alot of responsibilities and life time goals ahead. 4 Likes |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Awoleesu(m): 11:30am On Sep 12, 2021 |
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| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by horlanrewaju11(m): 11:31am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo:very easy to stop sir...... (Never stay Alone) that's it |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Ahasco(m): 11:31am On Sep 12, 2021 |
There's nothing wrong with you masturbating, if the urge comes and you can get it off easily why cheat nature? that's if you can't get a woman, just don't worry yourself over what your body desires. It's natural 3 Likes |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by dhope: 11:33am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo:I congratulate you for speaking out on time. I was in this boundage for more than 12yrs before I got deliverance. Even after stopping it, I thought it was all over and began to do some things that I stopped like chatting with ladies on love/relationship sites and before I know it, I started doing it again for like a year before it finally stopped. This is my advice for you: 1. Masturbation is an act that is controlled by spirit/demon. I used to masturbate like 5-6 times a day at times and feel sorry for myself after doing it but was helpless. 2. I developed this habit after secondary school education when I was trying to have girlfriends like my friends, and began to read love magazine and watch porns. 3. I searched for solutions to it online but was told it's good because u won't contact STD especially if u don't have girlfriend and it's good for your health BUT it's a lie from the pit of hell (if ur body is full of sperm like they used to say, God has programmed nocturnal discharge usually encountered at night to ease a man of sexual tension) 4. What usually empowers masturbation is worldly activities that has occupied our soul, hence that soul needs deliverance first and nourishment by the Godly spiritual things. 5. I encourage you to seek deliverance in a church that does it. Don't be surprised that some pastors and bishops also masturbate because they didn't cast out the spirit in them. Then forsake those worldly/love music, porn movie or Nollywood that is unGodly, and begin to study and meditate on the word of God always till ur mind will be free totally (remember you didn't become masturbation expert also in a day). 6. That thing called masturbation is a great weapon the enemy uses to destroy the destiny of man and thank God uve realized this early. Please and please don't allow enemy to play fast game on you. How I wish I have addressed my own long time ago when I believed na normal thing. 6 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by frozen70(f): 11:39am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: It's now a habit in you Get a girl friend that will always keep you warm when you need it You are about destroying the nerves in your groin and those that surrounds your private part Once you succeeds in destroying them, another man will help you service your wife 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by kindlyheart: 11:39am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: enjoy your life. don't let guilt make your life miserable 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Athemisia: 11:41am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:You see that's the problem. Now you have told him what not to do what about the shiiit is going to do? You can't stop a behavioral pattern successfully unless you replace it with something else... 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Athemisia: 11:43am On Sep 12, 2021 |
frozen70:Masturbation doesn't destroy one's diivk. Stop filling his mind with fear. It's a common behavior among teenage male.. |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by frozen70(f): 11:49am On Sep 12, 2021 |
Athemisia: Who told you that it doesn't? It does so badly because your dick will be use to the palms you are using to jerk it out By the time he gets to a pussy, it will not get attention quickly there by creating tension on him because she will be expecting a turgid dick Secondly, the session will be too short and that means he is yet to bring her to orgasm, what does that means It means he is a two minutes man, even Indomie is not cooked in two minutes A man's dick already knows what he will get when it gets to a woman's body and not using finger's to replace it and cause more harm If you feel it has no effect, go on with yours and find out the difference 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Athemisia: 11:50am On Sep 12, 2021 |
dhope:Stop all this fear induction please... Masturbation has nothing to do with demons... There times after sleeping with a lady one still find it difficult to cum because your dvck is hard as fvck. So you have to fap your Lil genie to get it out... |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by yvesboss(m): 11:51am On Sep 12, 2021 |
May be old school but I advise devoting your self more to God in prayers, study and praying in tongues Slowly but gradually it becomes abhorrent to you till it stops completely |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by nokspos: 11:55am On Sep 12, 2021 |
unfortunately the only solution is to get married, but this generation doesn't encourage early marriage, you can't marry if you are broke at 20, but if you are still broke at 35 then you should get marriage maybe God will use the marriage to bring you money, that's what they say. Unfurtunately this generation doesn't address the fact that a man can marry early and do family planning for 5 years till he and the wife are financially capable to raise kids. But when all the lady's have lost their virginity before 25 you keep wondering how. Try to work out, it will reduce it, but keeping sperm in your body can course prostate cancer so masturbation is not that bad since you can't get married, but too much of it is bad. SeyiFargo: 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Eberex(m): 11:58am On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: You need the holy spirit |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by omimigaius(m): 12:01pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: Listen to the veteran who survived the war!! Very nice that you began your solution journey early. I don't need to tutor you on the physical and emotional effect of masturbation. The enslavement is suicidal, It is a war that only the stubborn and hardens minds survives. Before you embark on this journey, you have to do a 6am to 6pm fasting and prayer. The reason is to determine if you will have the ability to stand the pains of self denial. If you can deny yourself food up to 12 hours knowing fully well that its your decision not to eat and not that the food is not available, then you are strong enough to win this war. The war is between your body and that personality in your body who dislikes the act ( your spirit man). When this spiritman is not happy, all manner of emotional setbacks such as inferiority complex, worthlessness, low self esteem, suicidal thoughts creeps in. These remedies MUST be followed every time the urge becomes overwhelming. The first stage of the war starts from endurance and casting out or rebuking the thoughts, do not harbor any fantasy. The final stage is a prompt action when endurance is becoming weak. Pleeease!! Get some very cold water( not too chilled), drink up to two sachets, then use one sachet of chilled water to wash your private part, starting from the pubic region to the scrotum, then to the restless snake. Before everything, pls always cast out sexual imagination whenever it props up. May the lord give you the strength. Happy Sunday to you! 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by princewarri1985: 12:06pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Bros there is absolutely nothing wrong with masturbation it's normal and almost everybody does it including myself, and am very bold and confident and it has never affected me in any way because i have never suffered from any form of low self esteem and i dont have problem with women because i have alot of sex, but excess indulgement is a problem because too much of anything is bad! So bro go grab a very cold bottle of beer and relaxe with it coz it's weekend and there is absolutely nothing wrong with you |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by femiasaolu2014: 12:09pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo: There is really little to nothing you can do wrt using pure willpower to stop the act. You may go a week or two then boom!!! you will find yourself indulging in the hedonistic act. Reasons? 1. Your hormones are in overdrive as this is the peak of your Testosterone levels. The chemicals in your bloodstream will determine your behavior, you will notice if you don't even masturbate, you will start having wet dreams. Solution: 1. Don't listen to people who will advise you from their sanctimonious high horses, claiming the act is a sin and that you are hell-bound. The only drawback of constant masturbation is that your brain is being rewired to ejaculate quickly to avoid being "caught in the act". This might cause premature ejaculation when you finally start having sex. 2. In my own opinion, just start having sex (safely) so you can get used to the female form and realize how overrated the act of sexual intercourse is and you will see your urge to masturbate will naturally leave. Don't watch porn, they paint an unrealistic depiction of sexual activities which isn't naturally possible. May the winds be in your favor. |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Whats: 12:12pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Mgreat:some are over 12 years masturbators and still waxing stronger |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Coldie(m): 12:17pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Get a gf u know likes sex like u 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by vickydevoka(m): 12:21pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
francis5051:Frying pan to fire 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by WarriAproko: 12:31pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo:u just start. People dey for 18yrs and still going. U nor go fit change except your babe dey give u steady gbenshing 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Crackow12: 12:34pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
First, you I must tell you that masturbation is a very strong addiction. It will take your personal will and the grace of God to overcome this. Masturbation comes along with some triggers. It may be your past experience, pornography, depression, sadness, and your brain is conditioned to get a relief via this means which is deceitful. It's major aim is to cause destruction (John 10:10) and if not careful you start some unthinkable habits you never imagined happens to you. I have been in that trap before and I thank God for His Sufficient Grace for delivering me from that nasty habit. I don't want to speak fear into your mind. I must tell you, a lot of people even Christians are into this bad habit. You must understand that it is force, which must be conquered with a more powerful force. • Everything starts with the mind or thought: Your mind is wired at this point to think of these lustful thoughts. It is quite difficult to overcome such especially in this era of technology disruption were sex is the appealing product. SEX SELLS!!! From adverts, skits and easy access to porn, the lustful desire is in a beastful operation. To prevent this, you must be mindful of all the things that might gain access to the gates of your mind (your eyes, ears). Renew your mind by reading relevant books, spiritual books and be mindful of the kind of songs you listen to or movies you watch (Romans 12:2) • You mustn't stay idle or lonely: Make sure you are occupied with something relevant to your personal development, career, or place of work. You can as well learn skills online. Your mind has to be shifted with some other activities or challenges. Masturbation will be difficult to leave if you continue to stay idle. It thrives on secrecy and idleness. GET BUSY!!! • Prayer and Fasting: Continue to believe in the finished works of Christ by prayer and fasting. • Be patient with yourself: Masturbation didn't gain access into your life in a day. It took some minutes, hours, days, months and even years to find a full grasp of your soul. You have already given it access into your life, with it's full steam. You must be patient. I must tell you that it will trick you into believing that you can never overcome such habits. Never give up when it fights the hardest. There will be days of relapse but don't give up. Roger on!!! All of these points depends on your will to overcome. I'm glad you're are tired and asking for ways to overcome of this habit, which is a major step.. MASTUBATION IS NOT YOU, FIGHT IT SeyiFargo: |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Pharmjossy(m): 12:34pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
Quitam:Baba 1 Like |
| Re: Help Me Please This Masturbation Is Changing My Life by Pharmjossy(m): 12:37pm On Sep 12, 2021 |
SeyiFargo:We will be glad to welcome u to the thread u have severally been referred to. You are quite young but should u not be serious u will age in this practice of masturbation. Not even marriage can save u. I have already spent 28 yrs in the practice but have been liberated via the thread. Now close to 7months without fapping and indecency. Cc quitam. 1 Like |
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