big bro i don't do flings I am going to marry her''.

Lollittaa:
as an average person, I'll say use wisdom. But as a Christian, I'll tell you point-blank, homosexuality is a perversion. I know you love your sister, but that ship is totally out of God's will for our sexuality. I pray God reveals Himself to her, and as she beholds His glory, every sexual perversion will melt off.

Lollittaa:
as an average person, I'll say use wisdom. But as a Christian, I'll tell you point-blank, homosexuality is a perversion. I know you love your sister, but that ship is totally out of God's will for our sexuality. I pray God reveals Himself to her, and as she beholds His glory, every sexual perversion will melt off.

lilvicky68:

Omo.. I'm impressed

Yankee0071:
Dear big bruh, you've tried your best i guess. (time to take a few steps back) the gal is pretty determined & her mind is made already. She grew up in a free world where anything goes. (she can get married legally if she so chooses).
As for ur parents it ain't up to them, she shouldn't even carry them along coz they'll never understand.... HML to her in addy! (her happiness is all that matters!)

Lollittaa:

Don't be.

shogsman:

We are not religious so in reality we could'nt care less about this

shogsman:
My little sister is 26 years old,this is a very articulate, beautiful,eloquent masters degree holder who was born and raised up in naija at least for the most part.for the sake of privacy I aiint going to get into too much details, just enough to show why I am suspecting her.
I watched this girl grow up in a normal typical yoruba household with 3 Male siblings and to my best of knowledge she's always got boys at her heels yearning for her attention as early as 17years of age which was about the time she was preparing to go to college.
What I've always known about her relationship is that she was never really committed to them,it was always a matter of convenience for her,but I just thought she was just different and biding her time.
This is a girl that has never seen any man as attractive no matter how much we or I pry,but like I said we never thought anything of it.
She went to Shreveport,USA for her bsc and ultimately her msc for almost 8years.
Like a responsible big brother I look her up time to time to check up on her and try to see what is going on with her life,because we happen to be the closest in the family, what I notice is that there is always a particular caucasian girl in the background whenever I Skype her which was once in a month at least .
At first I thought it was just a friend crashing at her place because I know she doesn't have a roommate she doesn't live in a frat house or even in school ,but this two seems particularly close cos they post pictures and pretty much everything together.
To burst the bubble, a couple of weeks ago she came back here for a wellness check or an holiday so we really connected, I haven't seen her in like 2 years so we had a lot to talk about which most definitely include relationship talks.but of course she just got back and I have to let her breathe first because my sister loves her space, she's not really the talkative kind.
A couple of days went by she came to my house to spend the night,she wanted to pay for a delivery online, poor girl thought her accounts will work here seamlessly but unfortunately the payment didn't go through so I took her phone to find a way around it.
Curiosity had me so I strolled into her gallery to find pictures of a sexy tall blonde replicating all over the phone, this pictures were personal pictures if I might add,I felt guilty for denying them their privacy but I was curious still so i checked messages, emails etc and yeah my suspicions were true.
This particular girl calls her like 3 times a day,they pretty much talk all the time really, it was during one of this calls I asked my sister who she was, she answered that it's just someone close to her back in the states, I slipped up and told her about the pictures so she got angry and left which was understandable.
What I deduced from their chats and all is that they've been dating for 5 years now and their relationship is pretty much open because my sister is in contact with both of the girl's parent.
Eventually I reached out to my sister again and apologized for going through her emails and I pretty much pressed her until she confirmed everything.
I was taken back a bit so I said to her,it is just a fling right,to which she replied ''big bro i don't do flings I am going to marry her''.
The problem now is that our parents are traditional especially our mother there is no way they will accept she is gay,and I know for a fact that this will definitely not stop my sister because she is a very resolute girl and she and the girl appears to be madly in love with each other ,the girl even had her name tattooed visibly on her neck.
I don't know what my next course of action should be now because I want to try and avoid creating any rift between her and our parents.

Lazycyndy:
If you know the number of lesbian women that are married to men and the number of gay men that are married to women, you go shock.

We should stop telling ourselves lies, getting attracted to the same sex is completely natural and the earlier we accept that the better.

bigpicture001:
Send ur child to America at ur own peril..... Only adult children, know left from right when they get there.....

culf:
Pray for her and let her know that she risk losing her family here, if she says OK, let her be.

[/b]I don't discriminate but I won't relate or be close to any relative that decides to be gay [b]