Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

You really made a mistake by asking her that question, may be really wanted to know your reaction.
You would have also posted yours: Someone's daughter go accept you One Day.
No allow this babes to push you to a corner.

Besides, as far as say Una never marry, bros both of Una still dey Transit

Olam09:

Lol.. i don find her already before tiwa Savage even think of writing that song na.. she still dey look for somebody's son again �

Oga go n do the needful

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

It means she does not believe she has been found yet! you're just a placeholder

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

Lol! It’s a song na and she might be catching cruise with it! Don’t take it too much on your mind at all!

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

Lmao, this is a joke right?

Olam09:

Lol.. i don find her already before tiwa Savage even think of writing that song na.. she still dey look for somebody's son again �

She is just notifying you that she's ready. Why are you scare kwanu?

Olam09:

Well.. no behaviors or attitudes from her

That's good but her post is still a disrespect to what you guys have going on. You should let her know.

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

Kindly hold your brake, limits the number of visiting her underwear so that you won't go against your schedule.�‍♂️

You know quite well she is trying to tell you intensify your efforts and make her your wife this December or Atleast engage her this December but you are already mentally looking for a reason to bail out..if you love her, propose to her and see if she will ever post that song again.

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

Better red flag

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

So what? So fvcking what nigga, why you stressing over a broad you not going to marry. how old are you to be tripping over a woman that half of the dude lowkey in your area smashing on repeat.

Your mind is in a state of scarcity that's why you loosing sleep over a broad that don't give a fck about you.

At this stage, You should be concerned with creating wealth and not no lady. They are all consumers.

Don't ever forget that you are the prize. You marry who you want and she's going to marry who is ready.
You age like wine provided you are working in your 20's and 30's, while she ages like milk. From 27yrs she's already old and washed up with over 100BC, is that who you want to have BP for?

common on mehn.

Have sleepless night over escaping poverty and building wealth for your parent, siblings and offspring and watch how women will flock over you. like i said, they are consumers. she's waiting at the finish line to Bleep winners.

Fitness, Finance and Freedom. The 3 F's

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

I had a girlfriend who posted: I don't consider you my boyfriend if you don't call me twice a day.

I didn't call her twice a day truly. That was the end of it all.

Send her back to the street where she and other 200 million nigerian single girls goes to mountain each day to pray for that somebody son till they hit 40

Olam09:

Lol.. i don find her already before tiwa Savage even think of writing that song na.. she still dey look for somebody's son again �

You never put the ring on the finger na

She's been using you as her guardian angel. Lol OYO

It is well

AfroKnight:


Why are you trying to confuse the young man? If she believed he was the “somebody son” in her life, she wouldn’t have posted that. She just posted a vacancy with style.

Lol. Nah. One instance is not enough to judge for me. If she was advertising for vacancy, he'll see other signs. She just might want to tease him to respond, if they are in a free and trusting relationship. And no I don't believe things like that are actually hard to notice. People just choose to be foolishly blind.

Every one is selfish, dragging emotional baggage from previous relationships and believing in 'I can end up with anybody so I won't give my commitment and all to a person.'

Past experiences and mindset matter a great deal, so I laugh when I see people mocking me for being 'idealistic.' I'll find my kind. And I don't have to hardened my heart in order to prevent bad humans. I'll rather surround myself with good people, and then I'll be free to be myself. I do not see how idealism preclude common sense, but they are free to believe what they want.

(With all the sex and secularism and realism they tout, them no still dey chop breakfast?? Wo.)

I don't do such dating games. And guidance abounds. From the Holy Spirit to the Bible to wise counsel in different places... even here online. No matter how much people cruise or pretend, glimpses of their kind of person and mind frame will always slip through their comments.

And I don't need nobody to tell me how I should relate with them or how close I can get to them. And this is not to say non-Christians cannot be wise and sensible, though.

qtguru:
Trust me it's hard to tell these days, some women are just ahead of the curve when it comes to marriage, most want stability in marriage over love. And sometimes it's not anyone's fault, what if the the next person is actually better and both are interested. it happens,

Ehen? And what if you keep finding someone who is better than the last who is better than the last who is better than the last person? At what point would you finally settle down and be content? Or you would keep dating forever because you're searching for the best option ever?

Tadeknkeepcalm:
Well, if it was always easy to discern, I'm quite sure no one will fall for it. The point of the game is deceit.

Okay. Then keep playing it.

Bobxin:


It's difficult to tell

It's difficult to tell who loves you? Firstly, why are you in the relationship then if you weren't sure love was an ingredient?

Yusman316:

Most people keep getting it wrong with this "love thing". There is more to a relationship or marriage than this LOVE. Most people end up with the wrong partners because they were blinded by love what they think love is.

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

If you have been planning to break up with her,, this is the best opportunity...
..
Just tell her things like:
“babe, it's not everything that you put up on your status. It's not every song that you sing anywhere and everywhere you like. So, for you to sing this song on your status, you want to use it to send a message across to me that you're still waiting for another “somebody's son” which is not me.
I got your message loud and clear..
Continue singing the song, but then, whenever you're ready to be found, somebody's son is definitely going to find you”
..
End your message there.
Don't go too much explaining..
And then back off for real from the relationship

BluntCrazeMan:
If you have been planning to break up with her,, this is the best opportunity...
..
Just tell her things like:
“babe, it's not everything that you put up on your status. It's not every song that you sing anywhere and everywhere you like. So, for you to sing this song on your status, you want to use it to send a message across to me that you're still waiting for another “somebody's son” which is not me.
I got your message loud and clear..
Continue singing the song, but then, whenever you're ready to be found, somebody's son is definitely going to find you”
..
End your message there.
Don't go too much explaining..
And then back off for real from the relationship

Thanks bro, one of the best advice so far.

Magnoliaa:




Okay. Then keep playing it.

What part of my comment implied that I do such
I'm not even about all the boyfriend girlfriend lifestyle. Anyways, this comment isn't necessarily directed at you (I could not care less what you think). It was made for posterity sake. Please, do not quote or reply to this. Thank you.

Olam09:
What does it mean when your girlfriend update her WhatsApp status with Tiwa Savage's music "Somebody son go find me one day" i commented saying what about me and she said it's just a song.. this is a red flag for me oo.. is better somebody's daughter start finding me too.. i no chop breakfast.

Married women wey don born 3 pikin still dey find somebody son.na wa oh

Hmmm...
Wetin dey worry all these gurls na ..!

Even my babe too did the same tin ooo...

Don’t take everything personal bro, especially social media, sometimes we catch cruise and post memes just for fun. If you trust your babe you don’t have to fear lol