I have a girlfriend, who happened to be my first love. We both finished our Ordinary National Diploma together and she was lucky to have her internship in a bank. She now feels on top of the world and I mean nothing to her. I have tried everything to make her change but she would not just change. I love her, what do I do?

Cuddled http://www.punchontheweb.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art2011060321183992

U sef try 2 get a job n further more

Go get that broke backside of yours a job

^^^LMAO, seconded!

An internship made her change really? I thought she got some super well paid job.
Nways, get urself a little something too & live ur life, I doubt she'll come bck bros. Btw I kinda did the same when I had my 1st job. Broke up with him for no reason. I just felt like I had better things to do: I stayed single, the job was my new boo. Silly as I think of it now but still cant tell what went thru my mind

@poster
bro, you were a ¨means to an end¨. now that she doesnt need you any longer, she is showing you her true colour. accept your fate!

@OP how about you getting a job? That's bad on her tho

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
bro, you were a ¨means to an end¨. now that she doesnt need you any longer, she is showing you her true colour. accept your fate!

true color?? Nah I just think the dude feels insecure cos his woman got independent. He is probably reading her new found confidence as arrogance. Some men just cant handle that, i mean he got used to her always being vulnerable, made him feel really important

iz2much:

I have a girlfriend, who happened to be my first love. We both finished our Ordinary National Diploma together and she was lucky to have her internship in a bank. She now feels on top of the world and I mean nothing to her. I have tried everything to make her change but she would not just change. I love her, what do I do?

[b]Cuddled [/b]http://www.punchontheweb.com/Articl.aspx?theartic=Art2011060321183992

culled

OP.

He should get a better job or shut the heck up

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
bro, you were a ¨means to an end¨. now that she doesnt need you any longer, she is showing you her true colour. accept your fate!

yeah!he has reached d end of his usefulness. . .level don change!women & their stupid brains!

Just let her be!hope u'll get someone better. . . . .yeparipa.

Dyt:

U sef try 2 get a job n further more

u sef give him job na. . .

@OP,forget about keeping a girlfriend,go on to continue your education,
stay blessed.

Mynd_44:

Go get that broke backside of yours a job

who says he doesn't have a fuckin job. .  .rich boy!

bhusayor:

^^^LMAO, seconded!

Seconded my NYANSH!

no1madman:

who says he doesn't have a fuckin job. .  .rich boy!

why take it personal, do you have a personal interest in this?

^^personal ke! says who?

Greencat:

true color?? Nah I just think the dude feels insecure cos his woman got independent. He is probably reading her new found confidence as arrogance. Some men just cant handle that, i mean he got used to her always being vulnerable, made him feel really important

if he meant the world to her BEFORE and now means NOTHING then i am safe to say that he was just a means to an end.
why would she suddenly change her attitude towards her man, simply because she got a new position?!

^^ nah, when did i do that?! anyway, you are ALWAYS in trouble, lol!

^^ do that because i dont understand anything you just wrote.

Its okay to love and lose love.

Be happy for her but keep your eye on the prize(your future career).

Don't be so focused on somebody that doesn't want you whereby you can miss out on the ones that do.

What did you expect? She worked hard, you work harder

just take heart. GODS time is the best.

just take heart

Play her low and move on

@op, there re a million galz out 'dere'. Y let diz lil', proud bitch use n dumb u? Move on bro!! (Abi her punnie neva tire u? Go 4 a new 1 joh)

abi u want to contest with bank manager?