BlackXabbath:
Finance.


How una dey do am, my married niggas dem?

House rent, school fees for the kids, food stuffs, come give wife allawee join?

sihamey:


You are afraid of that because you are involved in lashing other girls

Meedon:


Yes! Straight up.

ShyBabe:

I have efritin

Guzx:
The fear of women

Meedon:
I have none. But never will I marry.

Iyaebe:
The thought of cooking daily and cleaning my future baby's poo ewwwww.

Opeyemiextra:

One who emotionally and psychologically exploits another but I'm sure you know this already. So, what exactly?

abobote:
Going broke after. As a single man you can manage your brokness in peace, but with wife and children, don't even pray for it

Maxvasia:
Lmaooo. So i should now go and marry cos of posts and appointments and positions that won't go with me and will mean NOTHING at physical death? Crazy

I am 36 and i can happily tell you that marriage is not even on my list of priorities. Lol. It is useless. Aside that, na weyrey full igboro. Igboro ti daaru

Ugandatales:
OP, me I have one question for you...Was there really need for all the big big grammar?

BigBashiru:


Most of them are like that these days oh....

Meedon:




That guy no try ooo I didn't see the part he made mention of positions (governor and president) before I made my comment earlier. Like say na everybody want such position. If money deh plenty wetin you wan use position for?


All these Nairaland boys self.

Fiscus105:



When partners start seeing marriage as step-up in stage of life, a stage of higher responsibilities, If you prepare ur mind ready before such task, you won't see it as a cage as some people assumed.


When a guy of 23 with all luxury of freedom, thinking he would continue leaving such life going to 30 and 40s, such person planning to leave a life of total irresponsible and not freedom.

Responsibilities not to spend all ur income bcoz of wife and kids, not to hang out with friends till late night, not to drink and smoke to stupor, are not cage but showing level of responsibility.

Iyaebe:
Joy ke?anyways there'll be housemaids to take care of that aspect.

greatiyk4u:
This question goes to the married and the single pro-life individuals who believe in marriage but have had some fears due to their current experiences (for the married) or what we see, read and hear outside about challenges in marriage courtesy of socio moral implications of globalisation on Africans.

Looking at the society in general today with reference to Nigeria, the general euphoria and enthusiasm attached to marriage is gradually going into extinction by miasma of wrong narratives from those against marriage...I guess.

I still hold on to this believe that any functional and healthy adult who cannot manage both marriage and family is irresponsible and just as my culture and religion accord such respect of been responsible to the married.
There are certain cultural engagements, responsibilities, benefits that are made only for the married persons,
You can't be coronated a traditional ruler without a wife and so do I think of swearing in of Governors and Presidents

Why shy away with the proliferation of religious bodies and their core mandate of teaching LOVE
Let love lead because LOVE Is a beautiful thing especially when you found the right companion.

Share your opinion

Codes151:
my baby shit one kind shit. Came in, it was acidic. I don't know how, but I remember I left the house for them that day

Flower1198:
The fear I have is sexual denial... Or refusal to have intimacy with Me for several months

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:


And your wife stayed oh its not fair oh