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Re: Finding The Perfect One by Farfalla(f): 10:59am On Nov 25, 2021 |
jornwhite: So picking a beautiful youthful girl is stooping low? If these girls weren't beautiful (or even youthful) would these men really go for them? No. They saw what appealed to them and went for it. They went for what they desired like most men do, which is fine because it's well within your basic rights to pick what you find desirable. A woman fits your profile, you pick. A woman doesn't fit your profile, you pass. When women exercise this same right you "logical" ones start claiming she's choosy, threatening her with Shiloh and menopause because just like you and your ilk, she won't pick what doesn't fit her profile. Many women learn how to be picky from men. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Harddiskng(m): 11:43am On Nov 25, 2021 |
Lovalovaphunmz: I have no business with her life, like i said before if it were any other guy i would just tell him to follow his heart but a man like a brother came to me for advice. So I am supposed to tell him lies and shove a hook down his throat because its about my cousin? He heard the truth from me and made his decision, which i think is a good one. Nobody deserves someone that treats them with utter disregard, my cousin was most probably going to say Yes to him cause God’s current blessing upon his life. Would she have said yes to him 5/6 years ago - Hell no. Whether God forgives or not, people should always live a life considering the present and future consequences of their actions. You have changed is not a “get out of jail” free card you can play at your convenience. Be humble and treat others with respect. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Nonexisting: 11:48am On Nov 25, 2021 |
Harddiskng:You are the type I hold in high esteem as friend. I have two friends like you and three of us have literally taken bullets for each other. May you live long brotherly.
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Re: Finding The Perfect One by jornwhite: 12:07pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Farfalla: Here we go again ! a typical naija gurl believe once she is beautiful she deserves prince harry/kpokpogri. i believe the synonym for beautiful is handsome ... lets see dj cuppy or toke makinwa stoop low for a broke handsome guy tew, whats gud for the goose should also be gud for the gander, abi !! Men understand class, you rarely see a man go for women out of his league except for the gold diggers, while women don't even know there mate, lizzy wey her mama dey sell akara feels she deserves obi cubanas of this world, simply because she has a fine face, breast n yansh When you travel outside nigeria you will realize all this "i fine men owe me money" mentality you gurlz carry about ... does not fit outside nigeria,, for overseas fine gurlz even dey waste. We are not asking you ladies not to be picky, we are just reminding una say unrealistic expectations is why most of you are as single as nepa pole. you are waiting for prince charming buh you are looking out for range rover, keep ignoring all the horses that pass |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Magnoliaa(f): 12:29pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
pocohantas: Asinnn. Dem go try tire. siofra: Likee I knew. Only God knows the kind of yucky feelings and weird vibes I was getting from his comments to me. Na me quote am fess sha, thinking pe he get sense, a se the werey dey disguise ni. Dem no dey take long rara for the mask to fall off, lmao. folake4u: No other explanation for this. It can only be loneliness and they come online to seek relevance. I don't get how it always feel orgasmic to them to think they've got something on you. I don't understand. To be a legendary troll na achievement for life? Tufia! Omo. So Debbie too was trolled like crazy?? Ehen. I honestly had no idea about this. I can't imagine it. I've not seen bưkatynë being trolled as well o. Wawu. Things don happen o, that I don't even know about. Today you are an ashawo that collect money from men, tomorrow you're a man, next tomorrow, you're old and lonely and don't have a man. It's how they cannot even keep up with their tales for me. I've been following this thread closely since, didn't want to comment but now I'm forced to. Boya he should goan take a soakaway flavor. 4 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by folake4u(f): 12:49pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: It's their inconsistency for me. They like foaming from both sides of their mouth. If them never tag anybody ashewo, e never complete. Lmao. Mag, wetin be soakaway flavour again? Wahala ear and dear. 2 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Farfalla(f): 3:22pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
jornwhite: You're missing the point. These men saw who they desired, approached those women willingly and the women willingly said 'Yes' to them, for whatever reason (it could be financial stability, status, intelligence, gentleness, sense of humour, compatibility, responsibility, etc). If those broke men feel that they want DJ Cuppy and Toke, what's stopping them from approaching either of them? They can try their luck na. And they should bear in mind that rejection is a possible outcome just as you do not fancy every girl who fancies you. And here comes my disclaimer. I am not Nigerian (as can be presumed), but I worked in Lagos long enough to understand Nigeria and Nigerians. I don't recall meeting any fine Naija woman doing nothing, waiting for a man's money. Not where I lived anyway. Nigerian women work hard. Some are in top corporate positions sef, in advertising, the financial sector, manufacturing, medical field, insurance, media firms, oil and gas, law firms, etc. Others in businesses selling fashion and beauty accessories, food stuffs, shoes, clothes, etc. Only you know where you meet poverty-stricken girls that are waiting for Elon Musk. From what I know many of them marry into another poverty-stricken home and the cycle of poverty continues for the most part. For some however, they do what they can to get themselves out of their unfortunate situation by selling what they can or offering domestic services. Go to the market and see whether those women are waiting for Cubana. They work hard to provide for themselves and their families. They're not entitled to anyone's money. They are so used to depending on themselves, it has become second nature to them. That expectation you call "unrealistic" is what you yourself will use to dismiss certain women. It's pragmatic to most men but when women use that same criteria to dismiss them it's because they're unrealistic. Abegi!! If women want to have unrealistic expectations, let them. It should not be your headache. It is they who will live with the consequences of their choices. I'm just happy that this Shiloh thing is beginning to fall on deaf ears these days. 3 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by jornwhite: 5:54pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Farfalla: You've missed ur period, see when you are justing reply, however i am sure no one as commanded or instruct any gurl here to do things against her will, the essence of the topic/thread is to identify what the problem is nd the mature minds have done that base on valid experience. don't ask me to go the market, local gurlz no get problem, naa gurlz in the corporate world, woke geng get marital problem pass. ramota wey dey sell pepper no say she no fit marry pass kazeem mechanic whether you admit the truth or not, my dear it changes nothing besides reality go wake everybody. when treysong finally cum marry you pls no forget me, naija hard |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Gerrard59(m): 6:09pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
madridsta007: Thanks for this point of view. I never thought it to be so. Although, I factored in exterminating an ethnic group if the majority of her young men are slaughtered but not marriage. I'm pretty sure there is a high rate of single and marriage willing ladies in Southern Kaduna and Plateau state. 1 Like |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Farfalla(f): 7:19pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
jornwhite: Do you always wonder why this issue has been a discussion since 1972 and it is still being discussed in 2021? Because the dynamics of choosing and being chosen will never change. Men choose. Women choose. Men reject women they don't like. Women reject men they don't fancy. We live in a complex world where we're desired and rejected while we in turn desire and reject others. It's like a blockchain where A rejects C but wants B who wants K. K in turn wants X but X wants D. D likes T but since T isn't into him, he goes for C who was initially rejected by A. C decides to settle for D and boom! A new couple is released into the universe. The reality is that settling down for what you don't desire is stomach-churning and dare I add nauseating for most people, including men. That's the reality. Let's just make peace with it. I'll ignore that Trey Songz comment. 2 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by jornwhite: 9:15pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Farfalla: Oops !! i forgot you are not a nigerian gurl
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Re: Finding The Perfect One by yom2(m): 12:44am On Nov 26, 2021 |
Brightw278:some segment of Yoruba's go with that line of thinking the man aligns with. For most core northerners its a mandatory cultural ritual money or no money. Its just d urban, educated carrier oriented group who may reason along with u.. |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by LegalWolf: 10:53pm On Nov 27, 2021 |
Gerrard59: Loooooooool, beautiful English with zero substance! Your life is based off assumptions that are not founded on facts or reason. Quite unfortunately, your status reads 'Learn Mathematics....", but your are everything on earth but a student/learner/teacher of mathematics. I really want to have a debate with you on this question of extermination. Then again, you are incapable of either understanding or appreciating logic. What a shame! |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by emmaodet: 1:07am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Brightw278: Sure 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by ibechris(m): 11:20am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Blueelf: Guy,no body likes poverty and I must tell u the truth,poverty will strip of dignity and leave u with insanity. I have experienced poverty and I doggedly fought my way out,in fact,poverty is a curse. If u like become poor and marry,na ur body go tell u how far,u come join Buhari wahala,then u are a gunner. The choice is yours,poverty is a choice,being rich is also a choice but sincerely,just choose riches or u become a middle-class else,u will work like a giant and eat like an ant. |
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