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Re: Finding The Perfect One by Aksnoopy: 12:20pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
pocohantas:I understand your frustration, but you are too beautiful not to be able to find and keep a man. Maybe it has a lot to do with your character. 19 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Olavenza(m): 12:21pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Brightw278: Some of them are " where did you get my number?" 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Fiscus105(m): 12:21pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Brightw278: The biggest reason that I think (75%) is because of men, only few guys ready to go into marriage and mainly cos of economy situation, also, few who are ready financially are not ready to carry responsibilities that attached to marriage, and for few guys who entered it, when they see the huge responsibility that attached to it , they ran away and that results to single motherhood. If you are not man enough you will see marriage as a complete prison, cos thre is wide gap BTW be single and married. 14 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by IMASTEX: 12:21pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Brightw278:Abi oh! Dem say na student wey nor know book dey say las las school na scam. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Timekeeper: 12:22pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
pocohantas: Pocoha on the beat 1 Like |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Yoighaman(m): 12:23pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: Men (women) are sometimes masters of their own destinies, architects of their own fate. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Pharaoh4rin(m): 12:23pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Beebah2000: What else can you offer? 1 Like |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by yinkeys(m): 12:23pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Perfection doesn’t exist Love with your head & not with emotions Select certain standards you cannot compromise and pick a partner based on that. A little attraction at the initial stage isn’t bad, but this eventually fades with time. *But if the other person in question is just too charismatic or too attractive: it’s best you run because evil is sexy. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Nobody: 12:23pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Very soon every woman go dey marry themselves... no time for stress |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by suffering: 12:23pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
As a fellow foolish Nairalander I am disappointed that you men engaged in something other than political news or soccer. What rubbish! As for your thread nothing concern me. It makes front page every other week with different titles. There’s nothing people will type here which we haven’t seen thousands of times. |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Dshocker(m): 12:24pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Come to think of it, girls suffer in the hands of guys, because 99% of guys that approach a girl just wants to bed her,of Which they come with marriage promises that will make the girl open her legs for him 8 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by SmartGadgetz: 12:25pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
pocohantas: Realistically, ladies flex during their prime time then expect the same best of men during their older time to marry them. Who does that? Best is to use that their young, attractive and beautiful times to settle down when men are lurking around them. It's their nature, that's why there is a saying that women are hypergamy generally. As for men, their power and charms never fade provided that there is constant inflow of money, different kind of women will always come for them because of their well to do essence. Women don't want to suffer a bit so they chose an advantageous man over and over again without thinking twice bout their decision. Sadly, Love in relationships is fast fading away. Much less in percentage compared to the older times of our parents. everyone is calculating to give themselves the best of what life have to offer for them - both man-woman relationships and otherwise. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by AFvckingAlpha(m): 12:25pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Men are the fvcking prize I said what I said 4 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by LikeAking: 12:25pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Men have married mpkumiri or wetin b dat drug name. 5 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by ecomalchemist(m): 12:26pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Afriqan: Na wetin sure pass. You can have a fantastic job and all that, the moment you loose your source of income she turns into a devil and that's where the problem starts. Nigerian women are something else to be honest. I can't even think about marriage now, I'd just wallow in perpetual poverty. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by pocohantas(f): 12:26pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Aksnoopy: And who told you I am trying to “KEEP” a man? Always forcing yourselves into the picture. For people who do not care about marriage, it is quite surprising. KEEP your fckeen selves. 4 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by AutoChick4U(f): 12:26pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Yoighaman:You'd be surprised 1 Like |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Edusouls(m): 12:27pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Most Nigerian girls (90%) girls suffer from a very bad disease called ( doupi) meaning dreams of an unreal perfect individual. They choose, and choose till they start getting near their menopausal age then reality sets in, this disease I have researched to be the cause of so many single women out there getting old. Nigerian women should put hands together to fight this devastating disease.. 14 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by pocohantas(f): 12:28pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
SmartGadgetz: In which country is this realistic? In this same Nigeria that you guys said women rush into marriage immediately after NYSC? Y’all would speak from every hole in your body to defend whatever agenda you want. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by AutoChick4U(f): 12:28pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Dshocker:Wickedness in low places 1 Like |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by DentistRola: 12:28pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Marriage is a blessing |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by iCauseTrouble: 12:29pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
I concur tihamu: 1 Like |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Olayetan(m): 12:29pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Only struggling guys wants to settle while the made ones just wanna flex all girls that comes their way, and, that's why ladies say they don't see the responsible ones. If you are ready to committing yourself with a man struggling to better his welfarism, go for him and build up with him, but sadly, many of the ladies just want to enjoy life without contributing anything... I see baby mama and papa becomes the norm in 30yrs.. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by BigBashiru: 12:30pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
joyandfaith: I hate when marriage is called an "institution"....its a nightmare in which guys have to cope with greedy selfish women 3 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by mmsen: 12:30pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Brightw278: What community would that be? The same one in which thievery and dishonesty are the norm? The one in which security, electricity and safe drinking water are luxuries? Tell me more about these building blocks.... |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by AutoChick4U(f): 12:30pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Edusouls:So people should marry even if not compatible? |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by walesoflyf(m): 12:30pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
siofra: Hmmm... For the first time, I'm reading something quite intelligible from you... You try... 1 Like |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by tonyson010(m): 12:32pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
siofra: The sentence in bold is the issue, it should be a happy one, not necessarily expecting to live in Disney land. 4 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Pharaoh4rin(m): 12:32pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
As old as I am, each time I remembered that someday I will marry, I usually feel weight on my chest, even though all my younger ones are married with children. I don't know why 14 Likes |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by juniorstar(m): 12:33pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Brightw278:I noticed these days females are open to referred relationship where a female tells her fellow female/Male friends that they are open for relationship so those friends become the scout when they travel to other states and see another person of the opposite sex who is willing they give that person their friends contact and I ask myself wats going on..someone you dont know and have never met..all they are concerned about is does he have money. Today's women are desperate.. 1 Like |
Re: Finding The Perfect One by Niiade(m): 12:33pm On Nov 24, 2021 |
Brightw278: Hell no to enduring, The main fact is there are three things involved for people like your sister. 1. She is avoiding or friend-zoned alot of the men that could or be suitable for her (he is short, doesnt have money, he doesnt have a matching executive job, etc etc all those classes we place good men into and seek them wrong men with non important factors) 2. She is attracting those wrong men, so she is a relection of what she is getting and cant blame those men for approaching as thats what she is giving off. 3. She is relaxed and waiting, Women esp those that we tag as loose are ready and are out there looking for men, good men to settle with and will go to place where they can be to get them. how much time does she spending socalizing or being in gathering of where responsible young men will be, or she is at home or working and expect to meet her suppose wonderful suitor there, she needs to get out there, be available, approachable and in some cases ask the guy out for a date or drinks, abi we are now modern no more green light, go for the man you like no time o. you think side chick get the men from working and sitting at home after work na they are out there. 7 Likes |
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