While moping and trying to hang on is usually your first reaction, what is the best course of action?

You back off! Y wud u wanna put urself thru da hurt?

nurabela:

While moping and trying to hang on is usually your first reaction, what is the best course of action?

and then it's so annoying wen sumone u don't love, loves u soooo much.

let it go and forget the person that doesnt love you or else, u'l only get hurt at the end of the day.

My dear since you are sure and you know that you love the person, keep on trying, teach the person to love you.
when you do that I know and am sure that the person will love you too.

saying this from experience, pls just try to take the pain and back off, or else you get hurt seriously. am sure you will find somebody better sooner that will love you more and you will too

yes backing off is d best option cos U might get really hurt if U stick on.

I dont know what will I do cause that never happens to me

If u'r a guy, i will advise u kip trying cos she might change her mind sooner or lera. BUT if u'r a female i put it to u to back off immediately or else d guy involved will concluded dat u are soooo CHEAP. Dats d mentality of some of our boys.

move on. Life is easy and yes, there is more than one guy for every woman

Not an option.
First off. . .you have to have something to love aboutcha. . . not just your weave or moustache.
I never go where I am not loved.
I delete you from my memory ASAP!

If you cannot be with the one you love. . .love the one you are with!

Amen? Amen!

Sorry, I don't give anyone that kind of satisfaction from my standpoint!

He or she is free to take a hike or drown in the nearest lake. Love should be like a light switch. On for those who wanno see you and call PCHN to disconnect the electricity. . .without a back up generator. . .for those who dun wanno see ya!

They will not be missed for sure. Na who get t-e-e-t to take chop rotten meat?

To the 'curbside' I say!

Blazay I wan chop you, make you sef chop me, God no go vex

It has happened to me twice, I tell u IT HURTS SO BAD! (sobs). U'll be left thinkn abt how u are not gud enough. However, d best tin is to let him/her go (if u luv smth u let it go, if it's urs it'll return to u) cos if u fight for his luv how long wil u fight to keep it? I've learnt : never settle for second best! It hurts so badly.

[color=#990000][/color]u re better off being by urselve than with sumone who doesn't feel the way you feel, He/She would just play with ur emotions.theirs sumone sumwhere to whom u ll be a dream come true and treat u as such, can be irritating when sumone u have no feelings for is tripping for you!!!

kill the person, cause you gave your love and he/she not only refused it, but broke your heart, which makes u dead inside, so since you can't kill the other person inside cause they could care less about you, the next course of action is to kill the person physically, and slowly, while killing the person slowly, he/she might be forced to fall in love with you, please don't try this at home!

Dextra:

It has happened to me twice, I tell u IT HURTS SO BAD! (sobs). U'll be left thinkn abt how u are not gud enough. However, d best tin is to let him/her go (if u luv smth u let it go, if it's urs it'll return to u) cos if u fight for his luv how long wil u fight to keep it? I've learnt : never settle for second best! It hurts so badly.

Just know when to move on. Dextra is right, If u try to get the person to love u back and its not working, lick your wound and let go,

Why would i be with someone that doesn't feel me? Never! There was this ex of mine that love me die but i wasnt feeling same towards her. Nothing she wouldnt do 4 me bt i just cant develop/reciprocal d love. I felt bad n she likewise, so we just have 2 break up on mutual term. We are still frnds.

thats cool

Do you know dat patience was among d attribute of luv and I think dat's al you need if you really lov d person. If U're a guy, just show her ur lov in ur own little way and if U're a lady, jst find means of been nice to him and wit ur patience things wil work out as U wish.

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goshhhh! hang ur self na, have u not heard the saying that you should never make people a priority when they only make u an option?

u keep disturbing d person till u get what u want.(SEX)

as far as love is concerned loff ya sef and deal with issues of NEEDINESS

it is a terrible place 2 be,but letting go is d best option n it is easier said than done. Just got me another NO again today after hang in on for so long. Will make u wonda y u held on so long n make u realise it's not just worth d pain.
Stil lickin my wounds as i type this response but pls just let go or end up in pain with a lot of i told u so.

Hmmm.  Unrequited Love Crush. 

Better to accept it wasn't really love in the first place.  But, more like a CRUSH.  That way, you'll rebound in no time.  Anyway, that's what I've been told by people who went through similar issues. 

sexylogan:

never?

Yes, never. I dont fall for people easily unless if Im playing around

You move on, or you ask someone to slap you into reality.

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I have been in ds situation b4 n i tel u it wasn't palatable at all,it ws realy a bitter xperience.neva try to mk a girl luv u cos it won't work,so d best option is to move on.

OP if a lady does not love you and you love her the only way to buy her love is entice her with money and hence she will claim her love for you from morning till the set of dawn or posibbly just buy her a black berry