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Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by MaiSuya(m): 6:06pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Loveaflame: You should be flattered. . . |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by obowunmi(m): 6:12pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
@ OP, you should quit your job and sit home with her. You should enjoy the moment together, jobless, poor, and hungry. 1 Like |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by ronkebp(f): 6:12pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Poster, am sorry to say, but you are obviously cheating on your wife, it might not be with the said lady that got the 'hit' from your wife, but she (wife) knows you are definitely having an affair, all these guys are saying things that are not realistic as if they would pamper their wives if they had an ordinary idea, that their wives might be cheating on them. Same goes to the woman, why should she be quiet and suck it in, because she is a woman? her husband can cheat on her and walk?, if a man can have sex on his desk in his office without shame, why should he feel embarrassed if the wife embarrasses him in the same office? |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by tpia5: 6:14pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
tyler perry movie. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by andypash(m): 6:26pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Poster u are a big liar b4 ur wife can come to ur office to that she must have seen and heard some things Oga tell us the truth wetin u dey look for wey no dey ur wife body |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by Egbagirl(f): 6:28pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Na wa o!!!! I guess I am no longer surprised at the type of marriages we have today and the rate at which they are failing judging from the comments so far (most of them anyway). I don't see any reason for these "send her packing", "sleep w her close friend to teach her a lesson", use the opportunity to actually cheat on her" etc. type of advice. Jus cause someone does something wrong in a marriage does not mean the next thing to do is get a divorce. Ha ba! Its not a case of infedilty although its about respect which is a BIG DEAL for men BUT that doesn not warrant a divorce at all. Let her know the gravity of her mistake. Correct her in LOVE. Let her understand the value of respect. Remember, two wrongs don't make a right and it doesn't pay to repay evil w evil. There is no need for divorce in this case. It might take some time to heal but it will happen. Unless u don't really care about ur marriage. Sides, if she really doesn learn from this, she will prolly come apoloogize to your colleagues. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by Egbagirl(f): 6:29pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
By the way, this is assuming that u r innocent o!!! |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by MPEROR: 6:31pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
you are a wimp woman wrapper |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by ronkebp(f): 6:34pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Egba girl: Egba girl, i tire ooooo, it shows the type of mentality that 'Niger men ' have |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by dayokanu(m): 6:51pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Send her to her Papas house for 6months to learn some mannners So assuming you were fired from the job because of your wifes behaviour what would she be saying? "Its the devils work etc" and when you dont have a job she would be the first to complain? Whatever grievance she has cant she wait till you get home? |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by Nobody: 6:59pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
I understand her. Who doesnt know how promiscuous Nigerian men are? kai!! |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by Nobody: 7:00pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
tpia@: Loved his "Why did I get married?" movie |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by armyofone(m): 7:08pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
abi o. give dem a mile and they go the whole nine yard like God only gave them 3rd legs so stinky womanizers. OP, she is trying to tame the hawks be happy Ebony, how now and how summer going, ku ise ooo. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by WackyJ1(m): 7:09pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
ronkebp:When the wife of the man is not even sure that he's cheating on her you're the one that's so sure, How do you know? How is it obvious? ronkebp:Yes i see why you can jump to such erroneous conclusion that he's cheating, Because he's a man. Your argument reeks of feminism. Egba girl:Now here's a lady with sense. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by dayokanu(m): 7:19pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Anytime the man sees the wife talking to any man or even walking within 10meters of any man he should also disgrace and embarass her in public abi? |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by ronkebp(f): 7:26pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
WackyJ1: I don't have to be so sure, the wife knows that the hubby is cheating on her, that is why she had that effontery to go to his office and embarrass him, she wouldn't if she did not hear anything or see something. WackyJ1: |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by ronkebp(f): 7:29pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
WackyJ1: just so you know, am a feminist to the core, which one pain you pass, say i support the wife or the tone of my message 'reeks of feminism'? |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by WackyJ1(m): 7:40pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
ronkebp:Oh i'm Sorry i didn't know you were a feminist, i thought that you were a normal woman with a feministic point of view. The problem with you feminists is that you claim to want equality for woman but in this case you refuse to look at it with from a neutral angle or the two possibilities. You have immediately jumped to the conclusion that the man is cheating and the woman is justified. You refuse to consider the possibility that the man isn't cheating and that the woman just fooled herself and didn't act wisely. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by denzel2009: 7:48pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
kpolli: |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by ronkebp(f): 7:50pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
WackyJ1: So with all these your write-up, what will you define yourself to be?, a chauvinist that hates the guts of a woman? you keep saying, 'jump into conclusion', you must be a brother to the husband, since you know the whole truth abouth the incident. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
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Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by dayokanu(m): 8:07pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
chaircover: As much as i dont like agreeing with you, You left me with no choice here So can we have a truce and you give me the babes phone number |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by WackyJ1(m): 8:09pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
ronkebp: ronkebp:The fact that i didn't agree with you doesn't make me a chauvinist. Didn't you read the Part where i said you refuse to consider this case from a "neutral point of view"? Or consider the "two possibilities"? I also never said that i knew the whole truth about the situation that's why i never concluded that the man was cheating like you did. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by Blazay(m): 8:13pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
She is kinda insecure. Poor you. Even if you were caught on top of my matrimonial bed with another woman. . .I would not even blink. For this sweeeeeeeeeet life? Mba nuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!! My husband has threatened a few of my male 'admirers' over the phone too. No telling what he would do if he actually caught me in 'the act'! [size=20pt]She has become aggressive threatening to break any female's head she sees talking with me after closing hours. What should I do?[/size] Well? What other advice do you nee?. To be fore-warned is to be fore-armed! Next time marry a woman like me who will give you the utmost freedom to chop and clean both mouth and nyansh. . . plus fringe benefits. Mu he he he he he he I would do no such thing. Some women get time sha! Kai! |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by ronkebp(f): 8:25pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
WackyJ1: Na you sabi Wacky J1, i don tire to the reply to your post abeg, no be my hubby, my point of view from what i read from the poster was as if he was saying he never cheated on his wife ( which was embedded) and out of the blues, the wife came to his office and embarrassed him, which i still don't agree with. I am not saying what the wife did was right, all i meant was that the man was cheating one way or the other, and that is not jumping into conlusion. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by dayokanu(m): 8:26pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Blazay: How far, Another weekend comes Should we go to the parade together in Downtown? So we can branch my house on our way back so I can phock that poohsieee MU HE HEE HEEEE |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by tpia5: 8:26pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
sorry, poster. probably someone showed your wife your nl threads such as these: https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=515298.msg6772083#msg6772083 https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=504821.msg6655473#msg6655473 https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?topic=519102.msg6810530#msg6810530 1 Like |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by djcrucifix(m): 8:44pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
i don't believe you re married. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by Loveaflame(m): 9:32pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Thanks for all your good and bad advises.I appreciate all.I just wanted to share the story for the benefit of those who might have similar problems. Yes, I am expert in love relationship does not exempt me from the trials of marital challenges.You must be tested for what you believe to prove that you are real otherwise you become a fake. I have learn t a great lesson about patience and living at peace with myself not minding the external turmoil.I don't believe any woman is a devil it depends on understanding and spiritual enlightenment. The devil is the real destroyer of homes and we should be aware of that.It takes a little bit of spiritual power,grace and God's mercy to have a relative peace in the home. I challenge those of you who leave your wives for concubine due to conflict to have a rethink and go into deep consecration and prayers to repair the broken alters of marriage and stop acting like cowards who fear real issues and hide in darkness wishing it's only a dream. All you men on this forum should look at life from a godly point of value and stop acting like saints.You need to change your mindset and believe the best about females.No one is without a weakness.We should all work on our weaknesses and encourage the other party to do the same. I believe in the sanctity of the marriage institution.I hold it in High Honour. I challenge all to do the same for the sake of POSTERITY. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by MeGaStReEt: 9:39pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Women! Women!! Women!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by tpia5: 9:43pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Loveaflame: are you sure about that. Loveaflame: glad to see you changed your tune after remembering those previous threads i posted. good luck. |
Re: My Spouse Came To Embarrass Me At My Working Place by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
This is the height of it. You must have been going thru hell in the house. Right thing to do is take a break from marriage and let her feel what it is to lose a husband. She will change, if she doesnt, call off the marriage. |
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