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Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Logba: 4:39pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
I am sure there are still more things she had lied to you about. A lier is a lier and she will continue to lie even after getting married to you. I am sayng this based on my own experience. The woman i am married to lied to me about her age when we were courting.I did not get to know until after our marriage. She is my wife today and she still tell lies. I know your situation may not be exactly the same as mine since we are talking about diffrent individuals here. My advice is that you tell her how disappointed you are just to stop her from the habit and pray she repents. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by proffmanue(m): 4:40pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
she is a skilled liar. if u know u are comfortable with her lies occasionally, u can go on and marry her. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by pepperoni(f): 4:41pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
@OP, SO? kini big deal? get over it cos u r about to discover mur truth. Besides u also have told her sum lies too!!! |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by alexola20(m): 4:41pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by tellwisdom: 4:42pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
@OP, Just forgive her and make her understand you will never take such from her again, so simple |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Nobody: 4:46pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
delay the marriage and elicit the truth from her |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by 190: 4:47pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
mydreamz: 2 WEEKS AGO WHEN I TOLD YOU, I WOULD TRADE THAT AS[i]S[/i] FOR TWO BAGS OF GARRI YOU WERE ANGRY - NOW U HAVE EMBARASSED YOURSELF AND EVERYONE HAS SEEN HOW FLAT THAT A[i]S[/i]S IS MY ADVICE, WHEN NEXT YOU WANNA TAKE A PIC - STUFF YOUR AS[i]S[/i] WITH PILLOW -WEAR CLOTH ON TOP SO IT LOOKS VALUABLE - SO YOU CAN GET THE REQUIRED RESPECT NEEDED FOR A PADDED AS[i]S[/i] - NOW GO WORK ON THAT A[i]S[/i]S TAKE CARE |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Nobody: 4:55pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
REALITY101: kokoye: odiaero: alexola20: 190: [size=15pt]OH SHUT UP ALL YOU A[i]S[/i]S STARVED DI[i]CK[/i]S [/size] |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by amblors(m): 4:57pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
I see a couple posts calling lying about age a mistake, am an illiterate there, enlighten me guys how is that a mistake? The dude doesn't want to get married to a chic his age irrespective of "LOVE". Yea, you don't end up at the alter with anyone you love. He doesn't want to get married to someone that would lie to him about their age coz that mite just be a start. @ OP. Like someone advised, ask her if she does have anything to tell ya (baggage) before you hit the alter if the age thingy aint on her list, then, If you decide not to ask her, you'll probably not trust her which by me is not healthy for a relationship let alone marriage. choice is yours brother. don't go into a marriage you'll ENDURE. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by chextoni: 5:02pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
pls dont call it off since she didnt deny it, but make her realize the danger of telling you a lie |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Nobody: 5:05pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
190:
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Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by DaDoctor: 5:09pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
That issue is to important to be lied about, hope someday she wont lie as to who is the true father of achild with no clear resemblance?? Thank God for DNA Sha.[color=#990000][/color] Anyway, we all lie sometimes, But not in sensitive issues like age, blood group, genotype bla bla bla. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by 190: 5:12pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
mydreamz: During the time of our forefathers if you present that as[i]s[/i] as a woman - You would have been deported straight to ITALO /ITALY There's nothing there, are you a woman at all - No FAT, No MEAT there NOTHING AT ALL ewwww - grosss |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Nobody: 5:19pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
REALITY101: You reaaallllllllyyyy reallllllllllyyyyyyy wish you could abi!! Good thing you resolved to water and soapy, cos u know its a dream that cant come true for you. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Guyman02: 5:21pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Afterall Kanu Nwankwo who played for Iwuanyawu Nationale in 1985 just retired from football last week at the age of 32 and is now a special adviser in Imo State. @OP she doent want to loose you, please throw away your stereotypical upbringing (I have seen people who have sworn never to marry people from a particular area or religion but later end up with them). Look at other good qualities in her that you admire with a firm promise from her never to lie to you again. You might get a younger lady wey go show you pepper; better to settle with a matured lady wey don sabi wetin life dey talk. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
190: I know av got no fat like your obese girlfriends, so, get off my case and go on to your obese (but-in-190's-mind-are-curvy) women. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by dj187: 5:27pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
''Guys lie abt thier income, Girls lie abt thier age'' |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by dj187: 5:28pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
''Guys lie abt thier income, Girls lie abt thier age'' |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by donmj(m): 5:31pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
To rap up the lies, she told me her genotype is AA only for us to go for a blood test and she is AS. I didn't really care coz I'm AA but when confronted with "why the lie?" she claimed the lab scientist must have made a mistake, that she is she's AA, she even presented a test report she did 2 yrs back that shows AA (from God knows where). Guy really need to be careful with these girls. All they want is get married at all cost, despite what. Please beware |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by dayokanu(m): 5:32pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Lie about her age? Omo discharge am sharp sharp Only God knows what other things she wanted to tell you but kept forgetting Maybe the guy is 35 and the girl too is 35 |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by chxe: 5:34pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
i think she probably did it becos she did not want to lose u to someone else youger than she is, secondly, did she lie bout something else? if the ansa is yes, i think u shud talk and ask her questions, this is marriage, it has only and entrance door, but if thats the only problem, then thats not a problem becos nowadays we men marry our elder sister's mate becos women most times reduce their age to get what they want. and some of us dont find out until death, girls lying bout age na normal thin, its no big deal, |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by ChefMike(m): 5:42pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Thank God you now know what her real age is.This is your first test.Although is morally wrong for her to tell you lies.But if you can take a step and forgive her that it if you have a genuine love for her.God will forgive you all you trespasses because you save a soul from, |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Sunofgod(m): 5:44pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Marry her - but invest in a lie detector machine. Other questions you may need to revisit include: Are you a virgin? Have you ever been pregnant? Are you family members also liars? Do you love me? Do you think I'm handsome? Make sure she is connected to the machine before asking these questions - |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by amosoreva(m): 5:59pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
What can you do to get the one you love? In Titanic, Leonardo died for kate, Romeo died for Juliet, your fiancee lied about her age to get you, lol. Like you said, you've already made a decision. Are you sure that's the best decision? Her lie compared to her qualities and every other virtues, which out weighs which? Guy think, |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Amjustme: 5:59pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Someone earlier said you ask her if there is anyother thing thing she is hiding from you. This is because you need to weigh d things that matter most to the ones that dont. If she okay all round safe for this lie then i guess u should forgive and by the way results of genotypes keep changing from lab to lab as i also had this experience. Unless if you had other issues to question your girl. Also beware some people here are so much younger than you are, probably teenagers and would not be rational in making decisions. Finally do not forget to pray, pray, pray and pray cos your whole life depends on it. Wish you well. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by donugapi(m): 6:21pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Once a liar always a liar, I can be sure that your first 2 kids won't be from your sperm!! |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by obowunmi(m): 6:26pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
@ OP, if you feel uncomfortable dump her a.ss. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by MPEROR: 6:39pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
At the time of her birth there was no birth registration in her village and the mother forgot to file ,when the birth registration people came. That is her story and she should stick with it |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by ronkebp(f): 6:41pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Poster, this is going to be your problem in the long run, go and marry a 5yr old girl, and make sure she has never lied to you before. You have made up your mind about the whole thing, i wonder why you are disturbing us. mmmthewwww. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by Sike(m): 6:45pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
Sun of god:Funny but TRUE! |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by dinggle: 6:49pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
My advice is simple, if u can trust a liar, I'd say carry-go! Her excuse is just too lame!, how many other lies has she told or will she tell in the future? is she from the state she claims or is it just the state she's been using from her sch days. I would say press the "reset" button and drill her from the beginning, if u have a good memory use every thing she said at the start of the relationship to drill her and find out how many more lies she told. I'm sure she covered a lot of bumps in carving her self as suitor, if u find another red flag drop her before it gets messier. Remember to be calm and smile to make her feel at ease while drilling that way she would fart unexpectedly and you would be able to see how much mess u have on your hand and make the tough decision. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied About Her Age by dayokanu(m): 6:52pm On Jun 15, 2011 |
ronkebp: Your BF "forgot" to tell you that he was impotent or he once had a STD. I guess we should forgive and assume that everyone has lied before |
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