Akan A1:
It surprises me how all the ladies on this forum r saying that he shud go ahead  with the marriage. My friend has been telling me 4 years that all ladies r liars and I found it hard 2 believe him, but 2day I confirm it 4 myself. Ladies supporting their partner in crime. So this is what desperation has turned the average naija lady in2. Pathetic I must say.

Akan A1:
Believe me ladies tell more lies in a relationship. Guys lie only when its necessary just 2 keep the lady happy. Like that my friend i talked about earlier said "Many guys will go 2 hell 4 telling a lady that she is beautiful" Girls lie about big and delicate issues and after they r caught feel no remorse. All they do is say "so what's the big deal?" We shud stop using the line "Let he who is without sin cast the 1st stone" 2 cover up 4 our low moral standards and the low depths ladies r willing 2 delve just 2 get what they want,

tom28:

Guente02 that one na simple matter
Just do a HIV test with your gf b4 you pound her yams

Akan A1:

Believe me ladies tell more lies in a relationship. Guys lie only when its necessary just 2 keep the lady happy. Like that my friend i talked about earlier said "Many guys will go 2 hell 4 telling a lady that she is beautiful" Girls lie about big and delicate issues and after they r caught feel no remorse. All they do is say "so what's the big deal?" We shud stop using the line "Let he who is without sin cast the 1st stone" 2 cover up 4 our low moral standards and the low depths ladies r willing 2 delve just 2 get what they want,

9jafetish:

akan sounds like a ghanaian boy

9jafetish:

i think you are the coolest Tom28
lol you have some real issue , you need to calm the bleep down, i feel sad for any girl that goes near you.

9jafetish:

akan sounds like a ghanaian boy

kings33:

Next time you look before you leap, stocking is not only a girl thing or expression of doubt. dont trust girls anymore with their fabricated age', recently I found out that my girl friend was actually [b]33 months older than [/b]I against the one year younger she had claimed.

Your fiancee is using her football age.so kini big deal

jonced:

@poster

Let me be honest with u. she was wrong to lie about her age, no doubt. But the question is: Do u love her? If your answer is yes, then go ahead with the marriage. The truth is that nobody is perfect. Can pple on NL forum say they never lied to their partner ever?

C'mon let's be real, even u - poster must have told a lie or two, its not as if the issue is such a big deal, whats 3 years age difference when we are talking about love and marriage/lifetime commitment. I dont know about u, but i think its not so easy to meet someone who u love enough to consider marrying not to talk of having done the introduction etc.

I will advice that u go ahead with the wedding plans, dont make a mountain out of a molehill.

Good Luck

dayokanu:

1. That is a grave lie. Assuming you are 24 and would prefer a guy 25-30 If the guy you were interested in is 21 but told you he was 30 whch fits your likes for you to only know after introduction.

2. Why cant you forgive have you not lied before

3. How old are you and post your picture.

4 I searched that name and nothing came out. You better get in touch with me privately or else. . .

ronkebp:

1. that is not a grave lie to me, i do my researches brfore playing along, definitley, i gat to know from the onset, fine you tell me your age and i do my own research, not wait, till it is few weeks to my wedding.

2. i don't lie in my relationships, i let you know the plain truth, so you know what you are getting your self into from the onset,if you like it, take it if not, scram, moreover, i hate looking silly, having to apologise for my mistakes, so not to apologise, i avoid making costly mistakes.

3.why do u want to know my age? who will post their age on nairaland?

4. seriously?,

D_BestDoc:

@poster,ure looking for an excuse 2 break up with her why not go ahead and breakup with her instead of coming to nairaland 2 deceive urself.If u were d one dat told d lie,i'm sure breaking up with u will be d last thing on her mind.
It's not as if she is oloder than u re. mtcheew

Breaking up cos a trivial issue as dis

Akan A1:

I was almost taking u serious b4 i remembered that your the kid with multiple disorders. Fetish naija girl,

dayokanu:

1. What happened to people being simply honest, You mean every thing you tell me I must verify, Now i have doubt if your name is really Ronke. Why should I do my research when I believed and trusted you to tell the truth. Assuming you did your research and only found out he is younger after the introduction that he is 4yrs younger than you.

2. So why are you not offering the OP the same advice?

3. I want to know if you fall within my age range before we proceed so we wont have this kind of issue after introduction. Pictures? and Quickly too

4. Yes seriously, So you better contact me now or elsee. , ,

dayokanu:

1. What happened to people being simply honest, You mean every thing you tell me I must verify, Now i have doubt if your name is really Ronke. Why should I do my research when I believed and trusted you to tell the truth. Assuming you did your research and only found out he is younger after the introduction that he is 4yrs younger than you.

2. So why are you not offering the OP the same advice?

3. I want to know if you fall within my age range before we proceed so we wont have this kind of issue after introduction. Pictures? and Quickly too

4. Yes seriously, So you better contact me now or elsee. , ,

9jafetish:


me and you will one day become best frds i know that. i will tell you when i am in nigeria.

ronkebp:

1. Dayo, this thread no go end today, oooo, that is just me, i will always do my research, for sure, if am dating anybody, that person is in the middle of my fingers oooo, and i am watching, maybe becos am very sensitive shaa. And if i really love the guy i will marry him irrespective of his age. I like older guys, but am always attracted to my age group or few years older than me. so that is just me.

2. i don't have to offer the advice to the poster, his own situation is too late for that type of advice, especially after the intromimo, all i have to tell him is not leave her because of her age.

3. how old are you? or what is your age range?Am not showing you my picture, so just rest on that one, you covered your face in your picture, so no picture for you, moreover my name is really not Ronke, so let me help you stop searching for my name, and am trully 'settled',

Akan A1:

Small girl. Let's b honest here, we both know fully well that all your activities on NL have been full of lies just like the lady in question here in the topic being discussed. U earlier said that u pity any girl that comes close 2 me, y do u wanna put urself in those shoes. All girls r liars. All liars r thieves. I hate liars. I hate thieves,

star*:

She lied to get her man!! That is Committed!! Instead of thinking oh my God how can she lie to me and what else can she lie about, Think this girl has guts and what will she not do to keep her man!!!

Get over the age thing already! If y'all never had hangs ups about it!?! Girl would never had lied!!!