i was always against this but since i don't know it all and other people may be right, i'm seriously considering to go back to naija and marry a lady as a lot of people have advised after the end of my last relationship.

i believe one can find a good woman anywhere and i have been loved intensely by women where i live but was not ready to settle down so they left!
i had a very serious relationship the last time i went to naija and my cousin who was also there and was just devoiced got a girl and married her and they r together now with kids but after two years of telling how happy he was with new madam, he now telling me all women r the same that he was wrong for advising me to go to naija all this years and all his advice now is for me to marry a beautiful madam so that i can be able to bear the attitude when it comes! lolz

is there something i need to know about black women as mates??
any experiences good or bad from people in the West?
what about naija men who sabii these women well well, any advice?

i know for a fact that white women are different from black women but that does not mean one is better but just different period. am used to white women and understands them and i'm not afraid of devoice but don't wanna wast time and money and stress to go home and bring a girl who come to try to show me attitude later!

should i ask for a prenuptial??

i need help and opinions shap shap and if more info is needed about me pls feel free to ask and i will do my best to provide it to help y'all give me advice!

i was always against this and i must let u know that the people who know me say even if i get a naija woman who stays with me till the end of time, i might pay a great price of unhappiness for it becos all i have dated is white women and they r the opposite of black women and some of these men r married to black women themselves, !

but im a black man y can i not be happy with a black woman if i really really try??

make una help O! b4 i go complicate my life more and im older and dont have time to be marrying and devoicing all over the place O!!

white gurls are only for sex, yes u should go home and get married to a cultured naija baby.

I agree

@OP, you are in for some MASSIVE DRAMA

Poster i feel sorry for you sha it is going to be a real culture shock, better stick to what you are used to

I am not going to mince my words here since you want an honest opinion.

1. Colour is not human,it has no heart, no personality NOTHING! thts why women/men bleach but character remains the same!
2. Are you searching for colour or wife?? If I paint myself black/white,will u marry me? even though my character sucks??
3. Yes the environment influences our beliefs,culture and even the way we behave.
   Note: The nice cultured black gal may exhibit good traits cz shes not been exposed to the REAL WORLD. 3 things cud happen if u take her to the city.

@ continue being the villager she is( u cn take a man out of the village but nt take the village out of the man)
@ Out of shock she may want to ape the western culture since it looks very attractive. Sooner or later you dont matter anymore
@ She may balance the 2 with ur help and you will nt regret evr marrying her.

When ur cuz told u we are the same he knw wht he was tlking abt.
@ A white/green/blue woman can cook as well as a black
@ Awhite/grey/pink woman can carry baby 9 mnths and give birth just as the black
@ A short/slender/plump white woman can just be as unfaithful as the black short slender woman

My advice? Dont marry the cover,marry what is inside the cover.

It lasts longer.

bro, stick to ur white ladies cos nigerian girl would still want to socialize herself when getting abroad nd u might probably get d shock of ur life if she dump ur azz 4 a white boy to get d stay or his stash.

wow, i have not responded to anyone after i promised to do so, sorry guys, i was leaving home and since i have forgotten my password, i wanted to request a new one so that i can log on from my iphone but 8request later no link for a new password,

so here i am only now able to respond

Sir-fly:

white gurls are only for sex, yes u should go home and get married to a cultured naija baby.

really, how do u figure?? pls explain

iice:

Hmmm fishy.

Anyway. . .you marry you want to marry or in some cases who you're told to marry.

so, is this a standard response or is it sumthing that i said or did not say that made u say the whole thang sounds fishy??

how helpful in ur opinion was ur opinion

pls be a mirror n let me see what i said wrong that made my topic or request for advice fishy, aii, waiting to hear ur true opinion, assuming for a second that i am serious, aii

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op

u can buy luv anywere in d market.

Mr, Cork:

$tunna (m).  bro, 4get black women unless u want hypatension, trusss me.    been there done that!! 

you sound like some of my boys here who keep saying im just about to make the biggest mistake of my life,

i have had good love life always so, it makes me even more worried n family pressure is totally out of control now, ? not sure what to do at all, once any lady gets a visa to my country here, unlike europe, there is no way to take it back from her, and when i go to the gym, men whose heart have been crushed warn me not to even marry, just have one or two kids and pay child support. but i dont wanna be alone and have kids somewhere and just pay to care for them unless i have no choice but i do have a choice now

Mr, Cork:

$tunna.  bro if u like beautiful fat fully heavy loaded single women, try Mrs Chima!!

Just because YOU ARE FAT and OUT OF SHAPE doesn't mean MOI are.     Keep away from the fries and you will look almost good as me. 

If I wanted to I could take any woman that takes pity in you.   


By the way Stunna, Please do not take Mr. Fatco advice.  I wouldn't.  Good on your life with a white girl and may she bring you nails and pain.   

$tunna:

should i ask for a prenuptial??

pre kini??

with a naija woman . . .you funny o.  

The only reason she wants to marry you is because of your money in the first place plus the fact that ur coming from'overseeee'

without your money, your just like every other village guy she's been ignoring everyday.

My two cents: dont go home to find a wife . . you will just crucify yourself. Marry who you already know and you are comfortable with.

Mrs.Chima:

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hmmm, i know ur kind and im sure  alot of 'em populate youtube and although i have very strong opinions about ur type, i will keep it and save that for another day when i have more energy and in the mood for abstract feminist debates and the need for those discarded believes by white women that is now being used to control american, black women, college grads whose only goal in life is to destroy the black family, so
yes -some people do actually care, maybe not u, but people do!

you may think you have bull detector but like most coloured glasses and those who wear 'em, people who r full of bulls tend to see bulls everywhere

just saying. seen

Mr, Cork:

$tunna.  bro just pray u do not end up with a black women like Mrs Chima. You will go bald in 3 days   (true story)

You went bald in one hour not that you had any hair.     Bald spots are UNATTRACTIVE.  

kokoye:

pre kini??

with a naija woman . . .you funny o.  

The only reason she wants to marry you is because of your money in the first place plus the fact that your coming from'overseeee'

without your money, your just like every other village guy she's been ignoring everyday.

My two cents: dont go home to find a wife . . you will just crucify yourself. Marry who you already know and you are comfortable with.

You make it seems like they are money hungry.  Just like you wouldn't holler at a girl with no arse she don't want to holler at a dude with no money.  What is two broke people going to do together?

$tunna:

hmmm, i know your kind and im sure  alot of 'em populate youtube and although i have very strong opinions about your type, i will keep it and save that for another day when i have more energy and in the mood for abstract feminist debates and the need for those discarded believes by white women that is now being used to control american, black women, college grads whose only goal in life is to destroy the black family, so
yes -some people do actually care, maybe not u, but people do!

you may think you have bull detector but like most coloured glasses and those who wear 'em, people who r full of bulls tend to see bulls everywhere

just saying. seen

Yawns. You are the ONE online looking for A WIFE. BUAHAHHAHA

errm errm errm wats good bro? what's wrong with going with what you know/comfortable with?
Are you ready for a cultural/behavioural shock?
Why have you suddenly decided to go for Naija girls or do you think they had be willing to accept any used goods?
Just thinking aloud really

Mrs.Chima:

You make it seems like they are money hungry.

Just like you wouldn't holler at a girl with no arse she don't want to holler at a dude with no money.  What is two broke people going to do together?  

Yup, in a country where most people are poor in the midst of plenty, a lot will do anything to get out of poverty. . . including marrying a stranger.


And xcuse you! I never said I wouldnt holla @ a girl with no arse . . I simply said I wouldnt marry her!  

M M M:

op

u can buy luv anywere in d market.

I WISH THAT WHERE TRUE!!!
THE MOVIE STARS WOULD BE THE HAPPIEST AND MOST MARRIED IN DA WHOLE WIDE WORLD!! HAHAHA!

jay bee:

errm errm errm wats good bro? what's wrong with going with what you know/comfortable with?
Are you ready for a cultural/behavioural shock?
Why have you suddenly decided to go for Naija girls or do you think they had be willing to accept any used goods?
Just thinking aloud really

When are you up for a ban?

kokoye:

Yup, in a country where most people are poor in the midst of plenty, a lot will do anything to get out of poverty. . . including marrying a stranger.


And xcuse you! I never said I wouldnt holla @ a girl with no arse . . I simply said I wouldnt marry her!  

You a damn fool. There are people who live in poverty and are happy. You are the success story.

Mrs.Chima:

When are you up for a ban?

depends on the ban
what kinda r u talking abt Q

Mr, Cork:

$tunna.  bro just pray u do not end up with a black women like Mrs Chima. You will go bald in 3 days   (true story)

Hmmm, u r asking for real trouble talking like that, u know

i will just learn to start paying for her to do her hair as long as it is not every two weeks??

ive thought about all these, not enuff reason not to consider it