It is usually advisable to avoid your relationship ex

Just don't accept it. If you are a Christian you should understand better about what the Bible says about marriage and divorce.
Don't allow the devil to reign your peace. Dont look at your age. Pray and Look out for a God fearing man instead.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

Lemme hear word don't justify stupidity

He did it because, him done see ur family finish.

If at all u get sense , y would ur living sister husband proposed to you.

Soft Brain ........

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

That is abomination. Next to show interest in your mother.

He has no moral values.

Lol.....Sorry OP Friend. I think sometimes "matured advice" might come with statements the individual would want to hear for example the thought of considering such in this scenario is just funny. She should better go and make money and not continue to let the "stuffs" the man buys win her heart.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Keep the story to yourself..next time learn to address an issue maturely not spewing nonsense..or did you not read what you said..

Why say she's responsible for her sister's marriage failure?you spoke in a very immature way and you are here talking about me being immature..
Pls she needs mature advice not your kind who are too quick to conclude negatively..

Op, you don't have sense

emmeyen:
and by then mr "brother" has already gotten to your pants. How do you then face your family and your sister? You will now become sworn enemies right? Sister, men never finish for market. Send the buffalo home abeg.

With the way she's sounding, this may have happened already. @the bolded.

From what you said it's obvious the man has fallen out of love with your sister. But I hope you were not dating him while he was still married to her, please find out from her if it's okay for you to marry her ex husband so you people don't become enemies after now.

OwenJesse27:


Lemme hear word don't justify stupidity

I am not..

You're 30 without sense,it's obvious that you reasons through that dirty hole in between your legs.PRAY TO GOD TO GIVE YOU SENSE IN THIS 2022!

mayo47:
Lol.....Sorry OP Friend. I think sometimes "matured advice" might come with statements the individual would want to hear for example the thought of considering such in this scenario is just funny. She should better go and make money and not continue to let the "stuffs" the man buys win her heart.

Not insults..haba

U ar the cause of their saparation. do wat u want others to do to u.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Do what's great for you..if you are comfortable and know him and the reason for the separation good for you..

Follow your instincts..

Lol see pesin wey dey form mature!


You must an underage teenager.

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Please permit me to call you an idiot for asking the kind of question in the first place.
For ever creating a thread seeking approval marry your sister husband.
After sleeping with you and didn't marry you please don't come here and post that.

NO.

NovesaTillie, NO.

Don't fall for this.

First, they are not yet divorced. Second, you don't want your sister to become your lifelong enemy.

There is a reason this dude left your sister, LUST. Now he is spreading the same intentions to you, LUST AND ABOMINATION.

He is NOT an ANCESTOR. You and your sister are not meant to be nourished by the same man. This man is divisive and he will break the relationship between you and your sis.

DO NOT FALL for his tricks.

He is a HE-GOAT.

Yoruba people say "the cane used to flog the first wife is often kept for the second wife."

Don't allow him block better men from reaching you.

Stop entertaining him or his gifts.

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

I pity you.

Dasal

Nne no try am o. Which kain thing be this one you wan do now.
E be like you wan plant seed of discord way , until eternity you no fit resolve am.

Let him go and look for his wife and amend , if its beyond resolve, let him marry someone else. Do not be a reason for family hate.
Man don sample your sister finish, wan come sample you join. Umu nwoke.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

If I humiliate your head now you will start crying on the mods..did you not read where she said matured minds..?

Looks like you ain't ok huh? respect yourself and stop concluding in a brainless manner..

It's clear you are the one who lacks maturity and as such unable to see pass your nose....

tollyboy5:

Lol see pesin wey dey form mature!


You must an underage teenager.

Pls get out of my mention before you display your lack of intelligence..

Truelly the devil lives in you.. what on earth will bring u so close to ur sister's husband to d extent of catching feelings and thinking of marrying him...pray make dem no pour u acid..I fear who no fear women

I know for sure the man in question is not a broke man.if not madam for no even hesitate to consider sister about to be ex husband.if u don Gerrit den forget about it

Should I accept his proposal?


Accept now, but u should be expecting what the did to ur sister, and once the is done with ur families, the quite finanally that u are very chip in that family and have it in ur mind that u betrayed ur sister

WHITELIGHTER:


It's clear you are the one who lacks maturity and as such unable to see pass your nose....

I am against the insult simple..

What a shameless post this early morning. I can see some people are trying to justify it, among the men in the world you choose your sister's separated husband. Really the world is without shame anymore. To you all trying to make mature comments from this you too are product of shame. This gender will always shame you.

Young lady have peace of mind.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Why say she's responsible for her sister's marriage failure?you spoke in a very immature way and you are here talking about me being immature..
Pls she needs mature advice not your kind who are too quick to conclude negatively..

Incase you missed it he actually said "likely cause".

I can't believe this!
@ NovesaTillie Tell me this is a joke!

Don't accept, even if they separate finally and your sister is the one at fault.. If you marry him, he would never really value you, he would believe your family is cheap and your sister will hate you internally.

Moreover, you should be ashamed to entangled yourself in such union.. Your sister is involved here. Are you that desperate to marry, go find your own husband and leave your sister or friend's husband alone. Where is your conscience and common sense

NovesaTillie:
Please I need only matured minds on this.
It's a serious matter.

My elder sister and her husband were married for 5 years and separated November last year but not divorced yet, though the families have been trying to reconcile them to come back together but my sister's husband has been adamant about it.

I noticed that ever since his separation from my sister he started visiting my place and now it has become frequent. I allowed it because I see him as a brother but now I am starting to really enjoy his company. He has been helping me out with stuffs and still maintains his kindness towards my parents.

He proposed marriage to me yesterday and I have been confused. I will be 30 by February 2nd.
Should I accept his proposal?

Hin don climb your sister, you want him to climb you too ..........

You should not be asking such a question, loyalty should be your watchword.........

Even if they are divorced, you have no place in his love life ..... . The heart is indeed a very foolish place. .........

Tpharell:

Incase you missed it he actually said "likely cause".

Obviously was what he said..that's a very wrong word to say in this kind of situation..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Pls get out of my mention before you display your lack of intelligence..

Your ignorance is everywhere