2dice01:
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Would have been better The aunty serve him appetizer before the main menu

FERNANDEZISBACK:

She might be an emotional lady.. relationship is all about patience and understanding aiit..don't rush things..you guys are still learning just as we all do in life..

Do as I said call and meet her physically..make her feel loved ..tell her how you really feel and things might work out for you guys..

MarquisKelvin:
Thanks bro... The girl loves me a lot... I'm even feeling bad for asking her such question; She might have given me such reply because she feels that I was doubting her honesty then probably she might just say let her give me something to worry about, in order to get back at me..
However, she told me that let me see it this way, if she had replied no... Then I see her later with the guy nko.... In her words, did I do bad thing to tell you this?

MarquisKelvin:
Best encouraging advice... I guess she feels sorry and indebted to that other guy for doing her such a big favour...

She has even declined an offer of one guy that offered to date her by giving her 200k every month,. She declined because of me.... The guy later threatened me sef, but it's all in the past... She loves me and I can still sense that regardless

Haakeem:
ur English they give me headache fah.

it's like your banny fine die, see as mens they offer her money upandawn.

ladies wey men they pursue like this are nt to be trusted.

my guy enjoy... its just ur turn.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Good now you can see what I am saying..
Enjoy and thanks for understanding..

MarquisKelvin:
You're a wonderful being

FERNANDEZISBACK:

We all are..

Nicepoker:
As usual the father is left out.

MarquisKelvin:
I'm really grateful

SarutobiEky:



Lol. That was an honest mistake sir.
I love my Dad and there's nothing I cannot do for him if I have the financial might. But we share a frosty relationship.

Stuffs that happened in the past is to blame for it. Perhaps subconsciously the shit is playing on my mind.

Nicepoker:
Try and work things out.

Dreytonisback:
From your chat

1. You're not in charge in this blind relationship

2. You love her most

3. You love her , she likes you for backup

4. Any woman who takes a gift from a guy whilst she's in a relationship , gifts that involves phones and accessories, that lady is a hoe I'm sorry .

You deserve better man.

Lights up my kpoli in peace

22o62021:
You operate on mode 2 and I’m seeing you becoming a misogynist very soon.

Take the words of a Nigerian girl as nothing

MarquisKelvin:
she received the gift before I met her

Dreytonisback:


Move on guy
It's not easy bc I'm very sure youove her deeply and would give her a second chance if she admits that she isn't into the other guy no more

Listen son : any woman who puts you in a position of having to fight over her or in a confused state of mind whether she's yours fully or not
That lady isn't worth having except for flings
Babes are too many out there to be worried over someone who doesn't respect your emotions.


Lights up my kpoli in peace

Maxxim:
Simp, see too much shalaye
You don turn to her emotional tampon

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Look if a guy got her a phone nothing wrong with that..
The first paragraph where you said she was gonna cheat anyways is what kills a relationship very fast..how did you come to that judgement?

As for the messages why not arrange a meeting so both of you can have a conversation physically..
Tell her how you really feel..the chance of she opening up to you is higher..

kals4luv990:
yu said it all

MarquisKelvin:
She told me about a guy who got her an Iphone sometime ago (before I met her). The guy asked her to be his girlfriend, she didn't give a reply yet, but she was gonna say yes anyway

The guy stopped calling and texting her... She tried reaching him, wasn't possible...

After some months she was told that the guy was robbed and all that...

Then I asked her if the guy calls her and gives her a genuine and justifiable explanation of his reason for not being available, then requests to get her back, what will be your reply? Then she replied to me "I don't know"... Asked again yet she gave the same reply

I walked out angrily... Never answered her calls since then...

And she's my girlfriend.... Infact I need advice

Below are the messages i sent to her... So that she will explain things to me

HenryDion:
If I'm the girl I'll ignore you. Look at the epistle you dumped on her. Even my final exams wasn't this complicated.

MarquisKelvin:
that was before I met her... And she said she was gonna say yes to the guy then

Mjanee:
Is she ur gf
I dont get that line

See the pile of message u sent her
This love dey shark una sha

Mjanee:
Is she ur gf
I dont get that line

See the pile of message u sent her
This love dey shark una sha

jaxxy:


When u are not married or engaged to a gal she has every right to see anybody else she likes if she wants to and same as u.

A new relationship can not become exclusive just like that because u asked her out unless u want to deceive urself.

A relationship becomes exclusive over time and mutual understanding. Anything else ur are just forcing the relationship and that how pretense and cheating begins.