Supremedrizzy:
I am in a very unpleasant situation right now, a situation I never envisaged I would find my self in. I met a girl early this year and things have been so fast paced between us that it seems we have known each other forever. She has spent every weekend since the day we met in my place.

I've a serious girlfriend of over four years but I'm scared this lady is pushing her into oblivion. She came around after one of the lady's visit and she noticed I wasnt feeling her like before, to be honest I was thinking of the other lady.

Some might say the sex got me hooked but its far from that, the sex was just average in fact I still enjoy sex with my main gf more. She just has this ability to make me happy, most times guys are tasked with the responsibility of making ladies smile but the reverse is the case here. Any time spent with her is simply glorious. I was suffering from depression before I met her but her presence makes me forget all my problems, we would play around like kids all day. We would make plans of her spending like two days with me and she would end up spending five days and that's cos I would eventually force her to go.

My issue is that this lady has a boyfriend that is bankrolling her expensive lifestyle, she claims not to love him and they argue all the time over the phone but she can't leave him. She's never asked me for anything, in fact she rejects anything I give her even transport fare.

I don't want to fall in love with this babe cos she seems to have a lot of baggage, I planned this to be a FWB just like I do with other side chicks but I'm here catching feelings which is so unlike me.

How do I cut off from her totally, I know this relationship won't lead to anything serious and will only complicate things for me. She clashed at my place last week with another babe that I have known for over 3 years and I surprisingly asked the older babe to leave. My guys were shocked.

She's making me weak and needy which is something I detest so much. I asked her to come over for the weekend and she declined because she has a serious appointment on Sunday. I felt bad, ladies are the ones that usually call to come over and I make my choice.

I once deleted her contacts but still had to go back to Facebook to get it from our chats. I know her kinda girl, she would eventually get tired of everything and probably dump me which is something that has never happened to me, I want to dump her first. She is in control of our relationship and I want to turn the tables. The spirit is willing but the heart is weak.

My fellow gees help me out please

Supremedrizzy:
I am in a very unpleasant situation right now, a situation I never envisaged I would find my self in. I met a girl early this year and things have been so fast paced between us that it seems we have known each other forever. She has spent every weekend since the day we met in my place.

I've a serious girlfriend of over four years but I'm scared this lady is pushing her into oblivion. She came around after one of the lady's visit and she noticed I wasnt feeling her like before, to be honest I was thinking of the other lady.

Some might say the sex got me hooked but its far from that, the sex was just average in fact I still enjoy sex with my main gf more. She just has this ability to make me happy, most times guys are tasked with the responsibility of making ladies smile but the reverse is the case here. Any time spent with her is simply glorious. I was suffering from depression before I met her but her presence makes me forget all my problems, we would play around like kids all day. We would make plans of her spending like two days with me and she would end up spending five days and that's cos I would eventually force her to go.

My issue is that this lady has a boyfriend that is bankrolling her expensive lifestyle, she claims not to love him and they argue all the time over the phone but she can't leave him. She's never asked me for anything, in fact she rejects anything I give her even transport fare.

I don't want to fall in love with this babe cos she seems to have a lot of baggage, I planned this to be a FWB just like I do with other side chicks but I'm here catching feelings which is so unlike me.

How do I cut off from her totally, I know this relationship won't lead to anything serious and will only complicate things for me. She clashed at my place last week with another babe that I have known for over 3 years and I surprisingly asked the older babe to leave. My guys were shocked.

She's making me weak and needy which is something I detest so much. I asked her to come over for the weekend and she declined because she has a serious appointment on Sunday. I felt bad, ladies are the ones that usually call to come over and I make my choice.

I once deleted her contacts but still had to go back to Facebook to get it from our chats. I know her kinda girl, she would eventually get tired of everything and probably dump me which is something that has never happened to me, I want to dump her first. She is in control of our relationship and I want to turn the tables. The spirit is willing but the heart is weak.

My fellow gees help me out please

so u sayin u pregnant a marrryed woman for 4year but u wanto marry yor girlfriend...correct?..brother r u ok sir?(no oofenese)

Supremedrizzy:
I am in a very unpleasant situation right now, a situation I never envisaged I would find my self in. I met a girl early this year and things have been so fast paced between us that it seems we have known each other forever. She has spent every weekend since the day we met in my place.

I've a serious girlfriend of over four years but I'm scared this lady is pushing her into oblivion. She came around after one of the lady's visit and she noticed I wasnt feeling her like before, to be honest I was thinking of the other lady.

Some might say the sex got me hooked but its far from that, the sex was just average in fact I still enjoy sex with my main gf more. She just has this ability to make me happy, most times guys are tasked with the responsibility of making ladies smile but the reverse is the case here. Any time spent with her is simply glorious. I was suffering from depression before I met her but her presence makes me forget all my problems, we would play around like kids all day. We would make plans of her spending like two days with me and she would end up spending five days and that's cos I would eventually force her to go.

My issue is that this lady has a boyfriend that is bankrolling her expensive lifestyle, she claims not to love him and they argue all the time over the phone but she can't leave him. She's never asked me for anything, in fact she rejects anything I give her even transport fare.

I don't want to fall in love with this babe cos she seems to have a lot of baggage, I planned this to be a FWB just like I do with other side chicks but I'm here catching feelings which is so unlike me.

How do I cut off from her totally, I know this relationship won't lead to anything serious and will only complicate things for me. She clashed at my place last week with another babe that I have known for over 3 years and I surprisingly asked the older babe to leave. My guys were shocked.

She's making me weak and needy which is something I detest so much. I asked her to come over for the weekend and she declined because she has a serious appointment on Sunday. I felt bad, ladies are the ones that usually call to come over and I make my choice.

I once deleted her contacts but still had to go back to Facebook to get it from our chats. I know her kinda girl, she would eventually get tired of everything and probably dump me which is something that has never happened to me, I want to dump her first. She is in control of our relationship and I want to turn the tables. The spirit is willing but the heart is weak.

My fellow gees help me out please

MrCork:


so u sayin u pregnant a marrryed woman for 4year but u wanto marry yor girlfriend...correct?..brother r u ok sir?(no oofenese)

dawnomike:
Eeeya... Kayamata at work here. I am just joking

Supremedrizzy:
I am in a very unpleasant situation right now, a situation I never envisaged I would find my self in. I met a girl early this year and things have been so fast paced between us that it seems we have known each other forever. She has spent every weekend since the day we met in my place.

I've a serious girlfriend of over four years but I'm scared this lady is pushing her into oblivion. She came around after one of the lady's visit and she noticed I wasnt feeling her like before, to be honest I was thinking of the other lady.

Some might say the sex got me hooked but its far from that, the sex was just average in fact I still enjoy sex with my main gf more. She just has this ability to make me happy, most times guys are tasked with the responsibility of making ladies smile but the reverse is the case here. Any time spent with her is simply glorious. I was suffering from depression before I met her but her presence makes me forget all my problems, we would play around like kids all day. We would make plans of her spending like two days with me and she would end up spending five days and that's cos I would eventually force her to go. Even when she leaves we still talk on phone every four hours, we spend almost 3 hours gisting on whatsapp call late into the night before we sleep on daily basis.

My issue is that this lady has a boyfriend that is bankrolling her expensive lifestyle, she claims not to love him and they argue all the time over the phone but she can't leave him. She's never asked me for anything, in fact she rejects anything I give her even transport fare.

I don't want to fall in love with this babe cos she seems to have a lot of baggage, I planned this to be a FWB just like I do with other side chicks but I'm here catching feelings which is so unlike me. I am enjoying the moment but I have a feeling this wont end well.

How do I cut off from her totally, I know this relationship won't lead to anything serious and will only complicate things for me. She clashed at my place last week with another babe that I have known for over 3 years and I surprisingly asked the older babe to leave. My guys were shocked.

She's making me weak and needy which is something I detest so much. I asked her to come over for the weekend and she declined because she has a serious appointment on Sunday. I felt bad, ladies are the ones that usually call to come over and I make my choice.

I once deleted her contacts but still had to go back to Facebook to get it from our chats. I know her kinda girl, she would eventually get tired of everything and probably dump me which is something that has never happened to me, I want to dump her first. She is in control of our relationship and I want to turn the tables. The spirit is willing but the heart is weak.

My fellow gees help me out please

zed7:
derstand how you feel, there is so much excitement right now but it wouldn't end well.
The best form of relationships are those that are mild and natural.
All those fast heartbeat, butterfly in your tummy feeling, I can't live without you vibe are all temporary and are short lived.

Jeon:



GOD FORBID BAD THING...

OP YOU AND YOUR STORY IRRITATE ME..

I PRAY THAT THE LORD SHALL BLESS EVERY GENUINE LADY WITH AN RESPONSIBLE AND STRAIGHTFORWARD MAN THAT RESPECT HIMSELF

MrCork:


so u sayin u pregnant a marrryed woman for 4year but u wanto marry yor girlfriend...correct?..brother r u ok sir?(no oofenese)

Supremedrizzy:

Oga what gibberish are you saying? you high?

Jeon:



GOD FORBID BAD THING...

OP YOU AND YOUR STORY IRRITATE ME..

I PRAY THAT THE LORD SHALL BLESS EVERY GENUINE LADY WITH AN RESPONSIBLE AND STRAIGHTFORWARD MAN THAT RESPECT HIMSELF

GoodHardDick:
See the long epistle wey you type because of girl all these guys wey do relationships una dey try shaa.

Real niggas like us don't give a flying f*ck about relationship, whether you're in a relationship or not, e no concern us! our job is to bang you and move on.

Kingpin1000:
If your story is true, then I must tell you this.
There is nothing like love, it just about interests, the way that lady is treating you is how she treated that her BF she is cheating on, when they first met. Right now she is no longer interested in him because she met you and will leave for the next guy if your interests doesn't match.
Do not be deceived by she not demanding or collecting money from you. Bro na format be that, very soon you will start paying from your nose and you won't even know you've turned maga until nairaland redpillers association will talk sense into you when you will come and post another lamentation episode.
She has successfully made you want her more than she wants you, it's a psychological game. Now you will soon start doing her bidding whenever she comes calling.
Bro get sense there is nothing like love, when interests don't match, problems start coming in the relationship. The sooner you know the better man you become.

Animegirl:


The girl is very smart though. What she's doing is pure psychology and I like the fact you know "she would eventually get tired of everything and dump you".

She has successful made you want her more than she needs you. To be honest what you feel for her now, is temporary. Just give yourself time, don't even try to stop the way you feel about her, with time you will get over her probably because of your main chic, work or new friends in your life.

Love and feelings is just temporary

But you men are wicked,without no conscience sha.... Why cheat on your girlfriend of four years? In fact I hope that new girl really render you lifeless and weak, you deserve it.

Kingpin1000:
If your story is true, then I must tell you this.
There is nothing like love, it just about interests, the way that lady is treating you is how she treated that her BF she is cheating on, when they first met. Right now she is no longer interested in him because she met you and will leave for the next guy if your interests doesn't match.
Do not be deceived by she not demanding or collecting money from you. Bro na format be that, very soon you will start paying from your nose and you won't even know you've turned maga until nairaland redpillers association will talk sense into you when you will come and post another lamentation episode.
She has successfully made you want her more than she wants you, it's a psychological game. Now you will soon start doing her bidding whenever she comes calling.
Bro get sense there is nothing like love, when interests don't match, problems start coming in the relationship. The sooner you know the better man you become.

Supremedrizzy:

What is God forbidding?? You're praying that God should bless ladies with responsible men,

you're indirectly calling me irresponsible

which I have no problems with. What of the lady involved that is cheating on a nice guy?? Will God still bless her with a responsible man huhh?

Abeg getat!!!

MufasaLion:


Responsible men like me are not up to 5.

Preciousppearl:
I think it's better he learns this lesson himself, so because she argues with her main guy on phone he has already concluded they have issues. In all of this I pity ur main gf, that one will be thinking she has a serious man in her life.

Supremedrizzy:

You were making sense till your last paragraph, must every blame be shifted to the men, what about her isn't she cheating also

Animegirl:


The girl is very smart though. What she's doing is pure psychology and I like the fact you know "she would eventually get tired of everything and dump you".

She has successful made you want her more than she needs you. To be honest what you feel for her now, is temporary. Just give yourself time, don't even try to stop the way you feel about her, with time you will get over her probably because of your main chic, work or new friends in your life.

Love and feelings is just temporary

But you men are wicked,without no conscience sha.... Why cheat on your girlfriend of four years? In fact I hope that new girl really render you lifeless and weak, you deserve it.

Nonexisting:
When a cup of tea is too sweet then artificial sugar is in it. You have a girlfriend of 4yrs and for you to have stayed with her all those times means she is good for you. This other vaginarian you just met is too good to be true. You think her presence saved you from depression but the reality is that you saved yourself by yourself. I don't subscribe to relationships but if you have stayed with a vaginarian for good 4years with no major issue, chances are that she is domestic so value her before you lose her and end up putting leash on a street dog.