Lucasmuyiwaa:


Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused. The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant. Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen. She's confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.

1. How old are you & how old is your girlfriend

2. Are you financially ready for wedding ceremony & marriage(the 2 are different)

3. Are you emotionally ready for marriage

4. Are jumping into marriage because you don't want to loose the girl

5. Are you gainfully employed or engaged in a viable business

You need to answer these questions before you even think about impregnating that girl.

This is why I tell my younger relatives & friends to always introduce their boyfriends to an authority figure, this will make unserious boys to stay clear

Bro shey na money dey hold u ni?

If ur finances dey ok(I don't mean rich ooo) n u sure of her, make una plan am n kuku Mali naa

But this one way una never pregnant dey do me somehow tho, Oga go check ursef too sef, but come to think of it with d state of mind she dey she fit no preggo


Wo do wateva u like jor, problem full everywhere

Na wa o nollywood film is real I no go dey joke with am again, package correct money for the papa he go change his mind

People should learn to put theirs feelings at their feet and walk!!!

U sound like a boy of twenties. I will advice u to take ur studies seriously

Kudos to that girl father,he is a real man. No man will condone immorality from his daughter.
And to u,u r number one mugu,that girl knows u r still a boy playing with sand and she is toying with ur brain.
Mind u, as u r shooting, the other guy is shooting and she sincerely ready to marry u,u may end up training a bastard.
Fact,that girl will keep manipulating u cos she is not ur mate in anyway

I stopped reading half way though but I was wondering why you claim you love that girl because if you do you would start the marriage preparation asap

Keep on fucking her, Bleep her days before and day after her period and Bleep her during her ovulation period and boom pregnant go show

This op is confused o! Mr man, if you love her, carry drink to her father and marry her in quick succession na... We know your type. you a time waster and at the end of the day you dump her after making her discourage every other suitor. You don't want to marry her yet you are trying actively to get her pregnant! In fact both of you are confused. At any given time, an unmarried lady has multiple suitors and if the desired one is not serious, she shows attention to the next and let's the first go. Enter your confused self switching on and off like faulty light bulb! I pity ladies that still waste time with long relationships.
Ladies, stay single and avoid premarital sex until you meet a serious suitor who is coming for marriage! If you like him, do a short and serious courtship,( not sharwama and pizza and sex courtship then you miss the serious issues) and marry within 6months. Failure to do this sorry is your name.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please don't mind my grammars but I will try my best to make readers understand what I'm trying to say.

I met my girlfriend at the time I was being disturbed by my parents to bring a wife. But then I was not really ready for marriage and this girl I met during that time happens to be the girl I love most.

I showed her how much I love her and I know she really loves me too. I've tested her love for me many times and I can proof how much this girl loves me.

To cut the story short, we had a misunderstanding couple of months ago and it lasted for two weeks befre we settled it. What really caused the fight was a guy that I feel like they were having a relationship and I confronted my girlfriend. She said they've known each other befre she met me and they weren't dating anymore though the guy has been trying to come back to her but she just decided to keep him as friend according to what she told me.

So this particular guy again I saw him coming to ask of her in her house when I was there and I did not feel good seeing that guy. I had to leave and didn't pick the girl call for some time and she stopped calling me too. Though I know I'm gonna call her back when Im done angry and I was even expecting her to call me more and maybe I would eventually pick but I didn't see her call for a week.

So I started feeling somehow when she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it because I stopped checking her whatsapp status. When I couldn't feel okay anymore I decided to end the fight jokingly with her and it worked then I asked her after few days of settlement why she had to put that guy on her status but she said she did it because she saw where I also put some girls on my status and me putting love emoji so she retaliated with that because it hurt her.

We settled the fight and we agreed never to get mad at each other again. But just of recent I heard it from her sister that the guy I always see with my girlfriend has come to their house to see her parents and I shoudnt even waste my time with her or tell her. I was not okay when I heard that story and coudnt believe until I asked my girlfriend if she's hiding anything from me but she said No.

After asking her so many times she finally told me to ask her whatever I heard and I told her. She answered yes and I was shocked. I asked her why she had to do that and she explained how her dad had been insulting her at home to go and marry and even transferred the aggressiveness to her mother if she fails to bring a man befre this year though, she always tell me everything her father is doing with her at home and always cry when telling me but I keep telling her to please have patient that we will go to see him very soon.

So the second thing she said was that when we had a misunderstanding for some weeks and we didn't talk she believed I've done with her and she can't wait to loose both ways even though she loves me more than the guy. Now the guy had gone to see her parents but my girlfriend said its nothing that she can't get married to the guy and that meeting is nothing, so I fell relaxed and asked her what we are going to do. She told me to impregnate her and then she will go and tell her father that she is pregnant for another guy and not the guy that came to see him. We had sex but unfortunately she didn't get pregnant. So she decided to tell her mom what's going on and how much she want me and her to marry. So the mother took her to her father and told her everything my girlfriend said that it's not the guy that came to see them is her husband that the main husband is coming to see them but the father changed it and got upset with them that why and what's the meaning of that nonsense, if she doesn't love the guy that came to see them why did she introduced him to them.

She recorded all the insults the father said and played it for me. I was so shocked and this girl started crying to the extent that I had to take her out that day to feel happy. She said she doesn't want to marry that guy but that guy had come with his parents to see my girlfriend parents.

Now I don't know what to do because my girlfriend said she will kill herself if we don't get married which can't even happen. Whenever I tell her to please let peace reign that she should go ahead and marry the guy she will get mad and would never talk to me anymore until I beg her. And sometimes when I jokingly tell her that I will also go and see another girl parent so that I won't loose at both ends she kneel and start crying not to even do so. She always tell me to put mind at rest that we would get married but I don't see it working at all because those guys parents will be making preparations day by day. My girlfriend tells me most things the parents say and I always feel bad.

Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused. The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant. Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen. She's confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.

pele, try and be on fruit diet for some time, the go for nacking session with ur babe, return here to share testimony

"she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it "


When A fool writes

Magnoliaa:
Go and see the parents of someone else's wife-to-be too and let us rest. Problem solved.

i want to come and see your parents

Why can’t you marry her though?
If you not ready let her go
Stop wasting her time

Lucasmuyiwaa:

Abeg how can stop thinking about this girl

Who told you you are thinking about her, you are just thinking about your sexual encounter

Find another girl to fornication with


Reboot your brain

horhizah:
I didn't read the story because of how muddled up it is. Please try and add paragraphs to subsequent write-ups, they encourage people to read and maintain good eye sight.

Meanwhile what's the new trend about apologising in advance about bad grammar? It has become too much and I know it is to avoid criticism, but how do we grow if we don't get criticised?

That's the first indicator that this is a fake story to keep the traffic.

I think the girl in question finally write...... Go and see the the parents of someone else wife to be problem solved... So...

Betboss:


That's the first indicator that this is a fake story to keep the traffic.

Had it been you said something nice I could have appreciated you but I'm sorry to tell you that you're fool for your offcomment. This is real bro !

Re: Another Man Has Gone To See The Parent Of My Wife To Be. by Carot: 11:54am
Magnoliaa:
Go and see the parents of someone else's wife-to-be too and let us rest. Problem solved.
i want to come and see your parents
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Guys what do you think about this message... I think the girl in question finally write..

Someone wants to force this one into marriage, you will regret it if you go ahead.

She is just using you to play card, this is not the first time we have been hearing "I will kill myself.....bla bla". Marriage is a different game entirely, don't fall for it.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please don't mind my grammars but I will try my best to make readers understand what I'm trying to say.

I met my girlfriend at the time I was being disturbed by my parents to bring a wife. But then I was not really ready for marriage and this girl I met during that time happens to be the girl I love most.

I showed her how much I love her and I know she really loves me too. I've tested her love for me many times and I can proof how much this girl loves me.

To cut the story short, we had a misunderstanding couple of months ago and it lasted for two weeks befre we settled it. What really caused the fight was a guy that I feel like they were having a relationship and I confronted my girlfriend. She said they've known each other befre she met me and they weren't dating anymore though the guy has been trying to come back to her but she just decided to keep him as friend according to what she told me.

So this particular guy again I saw him coming to ask of her in her house when I was there and I did not feel good seeing that guy. I had to leave and didn't pick the girl call for some time and she stopped calling me too. Though I know I'm gonna call her back when Im done angry and I was even expecting her to call me more and maybe I would eventually pick but I didn't see her call for a week.

So I started feeling somehow when she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it because I stopped checking her whatsapp status. When I couldn't feel okay anymore I decided to end the fight jokingly with her and it worked then I asked her after few days of settlement why she had to put that guy on her status but she said she did it because she saw where I also put some girls on my status and me putting love emoji so she retaliated with that because it hurt her.

We settled the fight and we agreed never to get mad at each other again. But just of recent I heard it from her sister that the guy I always see with my girlfriend has come to their house to see her parents and I shoudnt even waste my time with her or tell her. I was not okay when I heard that story and coudnt believe until I asked my girlfriend if she's hiding anything from me but she said No.

After asking her so many times she finally told me to ask her whatever I heard and I told her. She answered yes and I was shocked. I asked her why she had to do that and she explained how her dad had been insulting her at home to go and marry and even transferred the aggressiveness to her mother if she fails to bring a man befre this year though, she always tell me everything her father is doing with her at home and always cry when telling me but I keep telling her to please have patient that we will go to see him very soon.

So the second thing she said was that when we had a misunderstanding for some weeks and we didn't talk she believed I've done with her and she can't wait to loose both ways even though she loves me more than the guy. Now the guy had gone to see her parents but my girlfriend said its nothing that she can't get married to the guy and that meeting is nothing, so I fell relaxed and asked her what we are going to do. She told me to impregnate her and then she will go and tell her father that she is pregnant for another guy and not the guy that came to see him. We had sex but unfortunately she didn't get pregnant. So she decided to tell her mom what's going on and how much she want me and her to marry. So the mother took her to her father and told her everything my girlfriend said that it's not the guy that came to see them is her husband that the main husband is coming to see them but the father changed it and got upset with them that why and what's the meaning of that nonsense, if she doesn't love the guy that came to see them why did she introduced him to them.

She recorded all the insults the father said and played it for me. I was so shocked and this girl started crying to the extent that I had to take her out that day to feel happy. She said she doesn't want to marry that guy but that guy had come with his parents to see my girlfriend parents.

Now I don't know what to do because my girlfriend said she will kill herself if we don't get married which can't even happen. Whenever I tell her to please let peace reign that she should go ahead and marry the guy she will get mad and would never talk to me anymore until I beg her. And sometimes when I jokingly tell her that I will also go and see another girl parent so that I won't loose at both ends she kneel and start crying not to even do so. She always tell me to put mind at rest that we would get married but I don't see it working at all because those guys parents will be making preparations day by day. My girlfriend tells me most things the parents say and I always feel bad.

Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused. The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant. Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen. She's confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.

At the bolded, @Ubunja always said that women have options when it comes to choosing men . This is just a practical reality. Maybe the men should learn to have options too.

This girl in question write... Or what do you think...... I think this guy is not man enough... Period!

So is it to get pregnant now that is the issue?

try again and arrange for another round of sex after her ovulation. Ovulation comes btw 3 to 5 days after her period.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please don't mind my grammars but I will try my best to make readers understand what I'm trying to say.

I met my girlfriend at the time I was being disturbed by my parents to bring a wife. But then I was not really ready for marriage and this girl I met during that time happens to be the girl I love most.

I showed her how much I love her and I know she really loves me too. I've tested her love for me many times and I can proof how much this girl loves me.

To cut the story short, we had a misunderstanding couple of months ago and it lasted for two weeks befre we settled it. What really caused the fight was a guy that I feel like they were having a relationship and I confronted my girlfriend. She said they've known each other befre she met me and they weren't dating anymore though the guy has been trying to come back to her but she just decided to keep him as friend according to what she told me.

So this particular guy again I saw him coming to ask of her in her house when I was there and I did not feel good seeing that guy. I had to leave and didn't pick the girl call for some time and she stopped calling me too. Though I know I'm gonna call her back when Im done angry and I was even expecting her to call me more and maybe I would eventually pick but I didn't see her call for a week.

So I started feeling somehow when she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it because I stopped checking her whatsapp status. When I couldn't feel okay anymore I decided to end the fight jokingly with her and it worked then I asked her after few days of settlement why she had to put that guy on her status but she said she did it because she saw where I also put some girls on my status and me putting love emoji so she retaliated with that because it hurt her.

We settled the fight and we agreed never to get mad at each other again. But just of recent I heard it from her sister that the guy I always see with my girlfriend has come to their house to see her parents and I shoudnt even waste my time with her or tell her. I was not okay when I heard that story and coudnt believe until I asked my girlfriend if she's hiding anything from me but she said No.

After asking her so many times she finally told me to ask her whatever I heard and I told her. She answered yes and I was shocked. I asked her why she had to do that and she explained how her dad had been insulting her at home to go and marry and even transferred the aggressiveness to her mother if she fails to bring a man befre this year though, she always tell me everything her father is doing with her at home and always cry when telling me but I keep telling her to please have patient that we will go to see him very soon.

So the second thing she said was that when we had a misunderstanding for some weeks and we didn't talk she believed I've done with her and she can't wait to loose both ways even though she loves me more than the guy. Now the guy had gone to see her parents but my girlfriend said its nothing that she can't get married to the guy and that meeting is nothing, so I fell relaxed and asked her what we are going to do. She told me to impregnate her and then she will go and tell her father that she is pregnant for another guy and not the guy that came to see him. We had sex but unfortunately she didn't get pregnant. So she decided to tell her mom what's going on and how much she want me and her to marry. So the mother took her to her father and told her everything my girlfriend said that it's not the guy that came to see them is her husband that the main husband is coming to see them but the father changed it and got upset with them that why and what's the meaning of that nonsense, if she doesn't love the guy that came to see them why did she introduced him to them.

She recorded all the insults the father said and played it for me. I was so shocked and this girl started crying to the extent that I had to take her out that day to feel happy. She said she doesn't want to marry that guy but that guy had come with his parents to see my girlfriend parents.

Now I don't know what to do because my girlfriend said she will kill herself if we don't get married which can't even happen. Whenever I tell her to please let peace reign that she should go ahead and marry the guy she will get mad and would never talk to me anymore until I beg her. And sometimes when I jokingly tell her that I will also go and see another girl parent so that I won't loose at both ends she kneel and start crying not to even do so. She always tell me to put mind at rest that we would get married but I don't see it working at all because those guys parents will be making preparations day by day. My girlfriend tells me most things the parents say and I always feel bad.

Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused. The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant. Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen. She's confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.

. If you can't meet up, leave her and go and marry another person. Na fight?
You dey dull and another man overtake you.

cayorday89:

And you think the guy is matured? Make two of them get out, na the girl papa I dey feel for,them just dey play the man head.

One thing I am earnestly waiting for is the next 20 to 30 years when we the youngies of this generation will get to the age of our current parents, I just want to know how we will handle our kids of marriage-able age maybe we will let them be or be hypocritical like our parents and tell them to go get married as usual.
Make God grant us long life and good health.

Amen

Your the only person that knows if the girl is good for you and she is the one that you wish to spend your life with. So it's either you get her pregnant then double your hustle for the family or you leave the girl alone

jaxxy:
Ordinary introduction and ure panicking don’t people breaking up after even engagement or weeks to marriage?

If u know she wants to marry u and u are ready then go and see her parents. Simple.

Anything else the father says is left to him. U staying in a corner claiming u want to marry her means nothing. It shows unseriousness.

for someone that is still struggling introduction is not ordinary,I went with a friend to his wife to be introduction in anambra state,we are just three person but the guy spent at least #6k st Remy,#4k malt,#4k can beer,#5k up wine,#10k for the lady to cook,#6k fuel,, extra jollification for the boys #8k, just introduction,marriage is not for broke men,you are warned

Sorry.. but overtake is allowed

okoroemeka:
for someone that is still struggling introduction is not ordinary,I went with a friend to his wife to be introduction in anambra state,we are just three person but the guy spent at least #6k st Remy,#4k malt,#4k can beer,#5k up wine,#10k for the lady to cook,#6k fuel,, extra jollification for the boys #8k, just introduction,marriage is not for broke men,you are warned

Is this one money?? Guy everybody has there levels. Cut ur coat according to ur cloth and run ur race.

Op didn’t say he didn’t have money did he?? Or that the wife wants a big wedding? Let him go for introduction and take it from there instead of loosing ur woman to a guy she doesn’t even like.

Lucasmuyiwaa:
Please don't mind my grammars but I will try my best to make readers understand what I'm trying to say.

I met my girlfriend at the time I was being disturbed by my parents to bring a wife. But then I was not really ready for marriage and this girl I met during that time happens to be the girl I love most.

I showed her how much I love her and I know she really loves me too. I've tested her love for me many times and I can proof how much this girl loves me.

To cut the story short, we had a misunderstanding couple of months ago and it lasted for two weeks befre we settled it. What really caused the fight was a guy that I feel like they were having a relationship and I confronted my girlfriend. She said they've known each other befre she met me and they weren't dating anymore though the guy has been trying to come back to her but she just decided to keep him as friend according to what she told me.

So this particular guy again I saw him coming to ask of her in her house when I was there and I did not feel good seeing that guy. I had to leave and didn't pick the girl call for some time and she stopped calling me too. Though I know I'm gonna call her back when Im done angry and I was even expecting her to call me more and maybe I would eventually pick but I didn't see her call for a week.

So I started feeling somehow when she uploaded that particular guy pick on facebook and tagged it "my love." She uploaded it both on whatsapp and facebook so that I caN see it because I stopped checking her whatsapp status. When I couldn't feel okay anymore I decided to end the fight jokingly with her and it worked then I asked her after few days of settlement why she had to put that guy on her status but she said she did it because she saw where I also put some girls on my status and me putting love emoji so she retaliated with that because it hurt her.

We settled the fight and we agreed never to get mad at each other again. But just of recent I heard it from her sister that the guy I always see with my girlfriend has come to their house to see her parents and I shoudnt even waste my time with her or tell her. I was not okay when I heard that story and coudnt believe until I asked my girlfriend if she's hiding anything from me but she said No.

After asking her so many times she finally told me to ask her whatever I heard and I told her. She answered yes and I was shocked. I asked her why she had to do that and she explained how her dad had been insulting her at home to go and marry and even transferred the aggressiveness to her mother if she fails to bring a man befre this year though, she always tell me everything her father is doing with her at home and always cry when telling me but I keep telling her to please have patient that we will go to see him very soon.

So the second thing she said was that when we had a misunderstanding for some weeks and we didn't talk she believed I've done with her and she can't wait to loose both ways even though she loves me more than the guy. Now the guy had gone to see her parents but my girlfriend said its nothing that she can't get married to the guy and that meeting is nothing, so I fell relaxed and asked her what we are going to do. She told me to impregnate her and then she will go and tell her father that she is pregnant for another guy and not the guy that came to see him. We had sex but unfortunately she didn't get pregnant. So she decided to tell her mom what's going on and how much she want me and her to marry. So the mother took her to her father and told her everything my girlfriend said that it's not the guy that came to see them is her husband that the main husband is coming to see them but the father changed it and got upset with them that why and what's the meaning of that nonsense, if she doesn't love the guy that came to see them why did she introduced him to them.

She recorded all the insults the father said and played it for me. I was so shocked and this girl started crying to the extent that I had to take her out that day to feel happy. She said she doesn't want to marry that guy but that guy had come with his parents to see my girlfriend parents.

Now I don't know what to do because my girlfriend said she will kill herself if we don't get married which can't even happen. Whenever I tell her to please let peace reign that she should go ahead and marry the guy she will get mad and would never talk to me anymore until I beg her. And sometimes when I jokingly tell her that I will also go and see another girl parent so that I won't loose at both ends she kneel and start crying not to even do so. She always tell me to put mind at rest that we would get married but I don't see it working at all because those guys parents will be making preparations day by day. My girlfriend tells me most things the parents say and I always feel bad.

Plz ineed ur advice because i'm confused. The only thing that could help us was the pregnancy but when she did the test she was told she wasnt pregnant. Now she is regretting her actions because she never knew all these could happen. She's confused too because she cried everyday because of all these.

Eh yaaaah.



The girl's father is making a huge mistake forcing his daughter to marry someone she doesn't want to marry, hmmm



And you self, your prick no de work, na wa oh.



Go and buy agbo jedi, mix it with lemon, bitter cola, aligator pepper and garlic, na triplet your girl go born, try it but my hand no de

adenig1:
Re: Another Man Has Gone To See The Parent Of My Wife To Be. by 11:54am
Magnolia:
Go and see the parents of someone else's wife-to-be too and let us rest. Problem solved.
i want to come and see your parents
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Guys what do you think about this message... I think the girl in question finally write..

Sorry, but why did you quote me?? Or you don't know how to quote and you're just learning the ropes of it?