Officialhorlah:
Do you backoff from woo-ing a woman you admire when you get that many men are after her

Me: I do back off Most times

To Men:

Onion Cider @abbietayo: "I have a question for men.
Do you backoff from woo-ing a woman you admire when you get the vibe that many men are after her?"

Badadvisor:

See this one dey form commando for woman wey dey whine you.
Confronting any guy or boy because of a lady is a big no. Never do that!
You go soon chop disgrace and beating one day. Just mark these words.

Damidave1124:
I just do my thing, I don't need to back off. We do the do and we move on. No time for relationship now

All these lamentation on nairaland front page about relationship and marriage problems scares me to enter into any serious relationship.

I no dey woo woman again, we just flow with the vibes.

YinkaOlusesi16:
When i understand that many men are led astray by women beauty, i started backing-off.

light099:
The real question against the backdrop is, why should many men be after her?
In a parallel universe, where I come from, sane people don't chase problems; one reason why the mental stability of many men threading this planet is in question.
Who should be after who? Many men or the leech?

Administration1:
Of course. Let me tell you a story...

in the days of 2go, there was this girl I was really dying to meet... I sent a series of messages to her, she would not respond, she had like 40 different guys who were trying to "woo" her also.
One day, as God would have it, my elder bro, returned from the abroad and wanted to buy me a laptop, we went to Crunches then...they had a laptop shop inside also...., guess who was attending to us? the same 2 go girl.....I just relaxed and started rejecting every option she gave to us, finally, I made my choice, and my brother gave me the money to pay, gues what as i was leaving she wrote her phone num, 2go handle and BBpin for me on a sheet of paper.
Bottom line, once you discover lots of guys are going after her and she is enjoying the attention, back off and go and make more money...

pansophist:
The premise of her question is wrong, and any answers given will be wrong as well. First of all, a woman do not go for the man chasing her, of course its makes the job easy for her when the man she wants is chasing her, but she won't develop feelings for a man because he is chasing and can rehearse toasting lines to her.

Women go for men they find attractive. If the man she is attracted to is not chasing her, she will give him all the greenlight to make him notice her, while of course disregarding those chasing her. Unless she doesn't have a man she is attracted to then she may now consider the best options out of all the one chasing her, and dump him when the man that truly melts her heart shows up.

Women are not complicated, just watch their behaviours, and they will reveal their codes of operation to anyone open enough to notice. Also, it's important for a man not to chase women, it's fruitless. Women go for men they want, so improve your lifestyle and let them give you the signs that they want you. Chasing simply means you're a tamed lion, secured in her vault, which reduces your appeal.

The5DME:
Bros, your wisdom too much oh.

Administration1:
Of course. Let me tell you a story...

in the days of 2go, there was this girl I was really dying to meet... I sent a series of messages to her, she would not respond, she had like 40 different guys who were trying to "woo" her also.
One day, as God would have it, my elder bro, returned from the abroad and wanted to buy me a laptop, we went to Crunches then...they had a laptop shop inside also...., guess who was attending to us? the same 2 go girl.....I just relaxed and started rejecting every option she gave to us, finally, I made my choice, and my brother gave me the money to pay, gues what as i was leaving she wrote her phone num, 2go handle and BBpin for me on a sheet of paper.
Bottom line, once you discover lots of guys are going after her and she is enjoying the attention, back off and go and make more money...

silverlinen:
I don't woo women
My lifestyle and money does and as such i don't keep girlfriends which means i never get to woo or look at a lady twice

adeniyi65:

That's the whole of me compiled together in a a comment.i love shooting shot on girls that i know are already full of me and can't just afford to turn down my offer because my lifestyle is classic and distinct.i am the one that even your girl friend would stare at me unaware.not because I have beautiful face or luxury for exotic wears.but simple me understand what it's whot to be classic elegant handsome with exemplary trait.

Officialhorlah:
Do you backoff from woo-ing a woman you admire when you get that many men are after her

Me: I do back off Most times

To Men:

Onion Cider @abbietayo: "I have a question for men.
Do you backoff from woo-ing a woman you admire when you get the vibe that many men are after her?"

sanmtiago:


Sometimes I come to the conclusion that we’re highly sexual beings who found civilization and used it to better our lives. But you see that sexual nature is what we can’t annihilate, it is so indispensable. Na why we Dey see useless topics about sex and the opposite sex matter very often for this forum where we Dey use keep ourselves busy. You can’t go past two threads without bumping into the third that talks about this thing called sex or anything related to it