The popular phrase is "what do you bring to the table" and men usually ask women this question.

But what does "table" mean for a man? . It simply means financial capability. Which is directly or indirectly proportional to his job or business.

I have seen men wail and nag about how women only rate them according to their pockets or what they do for a living. But when the only thing you have on your table is money, well you might as well be sized up by what you have on the table.


In a scenario where a woman offers support , loyalty, home making, care on that table ,it is regarded as incosequential except she has financial input as well sometime equal percentage with the man.

Men have subconsciously sold the idea that all they have to offer is money, yet they cry when their pocket is used to size them up. What an irony.

Ladycewhy:
The popular phrase is "what do you bring to the table" and men usually ask women this question.

But what does "table" mean for a man? . It simply means financial capability. Which is directly or indirectly proportional to his job or business.

I have seen men wail and nag about how women only rate them according to their pockets or what they do for a living. But when the only thing you have on your table is money, well you might as well be sized up by what you have on the table.


In a scenario where a woman offers support , loyalty, home making, care on that table ,it is regarded as incosequential except she has financial input as well sometime equal percentage with the man.

Men have subconsciously sold the idea that all they have to offer is money, yet they cry when their pocket is used to size them up. What an irony.

Men don't only offer money my dear beautiful damsel.

In a normal relationship, men offers non-sexual needs while women offers sexual-needs. But the economy situation of things right now has made things complicated.

The best it for each person in the relationship to offer what they can offer, without being stereotyped. Let men offer to take care of the home, do some house chores, go to the market , bath the kids, and let woman too offer to pay the utility bills, fuel, etc this roles shouldn't be gender based anymore.


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Ocholu:


Men don't only offer money my dear beautiful damsel.

Tell us what else they offer that is not directly or indirectly linked to their financial capability.

Ladycewhy:
Tell us what else they offer that is not directly or indirectly linked to their financial capability.

Protection;
Organization, and;
Derivation.

Ocholu:


Protection;
Organization, and;
Derivation.

And the level of protection , organization and derivation is directly proportional to how wealthy a man is .

This gender just dey complicated only God can understand them.

The table is a place of negotiation, a place of offer. It is a place where capacities are put to the test. It is not to be confused as a place in exchange for gender roles as mostly viewed by women.
A woman's most bargaining power on the table is her pussy. She mounts on the table, lay on her back and spread the legs. The pussy is the trump card she throws on the table.
When a man comes to the table, he comes in the expectation of long term plans capable of achieving long term goals whereas when a woman comes to the table, she sizes up the table for self seeking advantage.



PS - I would be opening a counter thread anytime soon.

Ladycewhy:
And the level of protection , organization and derivation is directly proportional to how wealthy a man is .

It's natural. And not proportional to anything. Just as how child birth is natural to women, so are these offerings to men.

It's the society that sold that narrative. And there's a certain social strata that such narrative doesn't exist.

CumOnHer:
The table is a place of negotiation, a place of offer. It is a place where capacities are put to the test. It is not to be confused as a place in exchange for gender roles as mostly viewed by women.
A woman's most bargaining power on the table is her pussy. She mounts on the table, lay on her back and spread the legs. The pussy is the trump card she throws on the table.
When a man comes to the table, he comes in the expectation of long term plans capable of achieving long term goals whereas when a woman comes to the table, she sizes up the table for self seeking advantage.



PS - I would be opening a counter thread anytime soon.

Lol says the ones who only come to the table to ask of what and what bills a woman will shoulder .

Maybe you should channel that energy to educate your fellow guys on what a table really means cos they have misconstrued the whole thing from the word go.



The table is actually not a place for negotiation as the man who actually asks the question already have expectations on what to hear and get.And 99 percent of the time it's is directly proportional to the woman's financial contribution.Admit it or not ,at the back of their mind ,their target is what percentage she can shoulder.

Ocholu:


It's natural. And not proportional to anything. Just as how child birth is natural to women, so are these offerings to men.

It's the society that sold that narrative. And there's a certain social strata that such narrative doesn't exist.

The society made up of who? Aliens?

I find it funny when we use the phrase " society" as if we are not part of it.


And you think as a woman ,she can't protect herself or ogransise her life?
What does a man need to protect from tho? Ritualists? Armed robbers? Troublesome neighbours or Police?

What does he want to organize when some women eventually even stop their dreams to raise a family ?

Ladycewhy:
The society made up of who? Aliens?

I find it funny when we use the phrase " society" as if we are not part of it.


And you think as a woman ,she can't protect herself or ogransise her life?
What does a man need to protect from tho? Ritualists? Armed robbers? Troublesome neighbours or Police?

What does he want to organize when some women eventually even stop their dreams to raise a family ?

It's funny how y'all are quick defensive. Most of my statements are empirical. I'll drop sources if need be.

A recent study showed that women are mostly the ones who push the "what does a woman offer" narrative. Go to saner climes, and the kinda narratives being projected by women are manufactured and artificial thoughts.

And, when I referenced the "society", I was talking of both you and me, so??

You need to understand that I am not arguing with you, neither I am debating. There's no factual statement were I said women can't be their own protector and others. That narrative and bias was subtly manufactured by you.

Somethings are natural. Regardless of how you choose to alter, change or twist it.

Ocholu:
Protection;
Organization, and;
Derivation.

Can you please elaborate?

Kobojunkie:
Can you please elaborate?

I'm seriously waiting too.

Kobojunkie:
Can you please elaborate?

Why??

Ocholu:


It's funny how y'all are quick defensive. Most of my statements are empirical. I'll drop sources if need be.

A recent study showed that women are mostly the ones who push the "what does a woman offer" narrative. Go to saner climes, and the kinda narratives being projected by women are manufactured and artificial thoughts.

And, when I referenced the "society", I was talking of both you and me, so??

You need to understand that I am not arguing with you, neither I am debating. There's no factual statement were I said women can't be their own protector and others. That narrative and bias was subtly manufactured by you.

Somethings are natural. Regardless of how you choose to alter, change or twist it.

You are deflecting, be clear, Op says what you men expect women to bring is finance because that is all you can bring, is she right or not?

CumOnHer:
The table is a place of negotiation, a place of offer. It is a place where capacities are put to the test. It is not to be confused as a place in exchange for gender roles as mostly viewed by women.
A woman's most bargaining power on the table is her pussy. She mounts on the table, lay on her back and spread the legs. The pussy is the trump card she throws on the table.
When a man comes to the table, he comes in the expectation of long term plans capable of achieving long term goals whereas when a woman comes to the table, she sizes up the table for self seeking advantage.



PS - I would be opening a counter thread anytime soon.

Oh, so if a lady tells you all she can bring to the table is her pussy, she is correct? you will not cry blue murder and call her all manner of obscenities, is that what you're saying?

Biglittlelois:



You are deflecting, be clear, Op says what you men expect women to bring is finance because that is all you can bring, is she right or not?

Nope! That's not what she intended.

Ocholu:


Nope! That's not what she intended.

Lol what was her intention then?

Ocholu:


It's funny how y'all are quick defensive. Most of my statements are empirical. I'll drop sources if need be.

A recent study showed that women are mostly the ones who push the "what does a woman offer" narrative. Go to saner climes, and the kinda narratives being projected by women are manufactured and artificial thoughts.

And, when I referenced the "society", I was talking of both you and me, so??

You need to understand that I am not arguing with you, neither I am debating. There's no factual statement were I said women can't be their own protector and others. That narrative and bias was subtly manufactured by you.

Somethings are natural. Regardless of how you choose to alter, change or twist it.

The only natural phenomenon here is child birth because it is a biological process women can't transfer to men.

What you call natural in terms of what men have to offer is subjective . Same way it might be natural for a man to pay bride price according to you but other societies will consider it natural for a woman to pay groom price.