Good morning guys, please I am a confused situation. I have a girlfriend but her attitude towards me can really be annoying so I met another girl and she has another guy who wants to marry her but she is not ready for him because of his fetish background.

She tells me everything, I lied to her that my girlfriend and I are no longer in contact and she believes me. She comes to my house so do I, she cooks and we eat but I never tell her that I have feelings for her because I don't know how she will see it because she is still dating the other guy.

Yesterday she came to my house in the morning, we are watching film and she slept off in my bed.

To my out most surprise because I talk with my girlfriend early she told me she was going home from school, so I text to her on WhatsApp that I cant wait to see her not knowing she mistook it to "I have something for you" omo this girl come to my house by surprise, I was dumbfounded when she saw the girl on my bed sleeping, she continued watching the movie on my laptop. I was so tensed I was sweating, the other girl woke up and saw her. She prepares and left.

My girlfriend was angry. I tried to convince her that nothing is happening between us she said no problem but inside me she is not happy, i later called the other girl she didn't pick my calls. Please what should I do because I am confused. My girlfriend said the day I visit her and see another guy laying on the bed that I should know how it feels.

So what do you want us to do? We can't probably join in your confusion.

Next time, learn to be smart.

What do u think I should have done

Ocholu:
So what do you want us to do? We can't probably join in your confusion.

Next time, learn to be smart.

There is nothing between you & the formal girl. And she came over to cook & watch movies. Is your house pen-cinemas?

What if I called you a wh*re how would you feel?the same way you folks call women h*oes..

Well your fellow kids might not criticize you cos of same gender but if it was a woman the derogatory word would be something else..

Well I reserve my main comment let me keep smiling at wannabe redpillers hypocrisy..a man cheat he is a champion a woman does that she's a wh*re..
Ride on..

"You no want kpai but you wan go heaven" meaning. You want a new gf but you don't want to loose the old gf. You are a greedy man

You sha want to eat your cake and have it ,remember a bird at hand is the only bird you have ...Trying to kill many birds at the same time might even make you lose all the birds without killing one ..

Okay, now this is confusing and complicated. Your heart knows what and who it wants so go for who it chooses. You can’t eat your cake and have it dear.

The attitude of your Gf annoys you. But you never formally end the relationship with her....(PROBLEM 1)

While you left your own relationship pending, you went And met with another girl whom after you lied to her that you and your gf are no longer in contact, she beleived and you invited her to come cook, eat, watch movie and sleep on your bed......(PROBLEM 2).

Your cooking girl or Sleeping girl has her own Bf who even wants to marry her but she did not want because his from a fetish background........(PROBLEM 3).

Your Gf came to your house when you least expected her arrival and she has seen your cooking girlfriend lying on your bed......(PROBLEM 4)

Now you are tensed and sweating profusely, your gf is angry and you ve tried to convince her and she said No issues. But deep inside your conscience is eating you because you know your Gf is not really happy with you.......(PROBLEM 5)

And now you tried to put a call across to the other Sleeping girl who just left your house and she is not picking up again. she too don provoke be dat oo........(PROBLEM 5)

Wallahi, Problem nor dey finish true true.....I see problem and Confusion, Relationship Incompartibility everywhere in this OP matter......No wonder they say person wehn nor get Gf get peace of mind.

Abeg somebody give me link to download that song "problem e no dey finish make u try dey enjoy.

Wahala e nor dey finish make u try dey enjoy, kata kata wuru wuru no dey finish

Who sing am sef. Pls someone help me make i listen to am small.

Make I waka my waka jeje

Frank2021:
Good morning guys, please I am a confused situation. I have a girlfriend but her attitude towards me can really be annoying so I met another girl and she has another guy who wants to marry her but she is not ready for him because of his fetish background. She tells me everything, I lied to her that my girlfriend and I are no longer in contact and she believes me she comes to my house so do I, she cooks and we eat but I never tell her that I have feelings for her because I don't know how she will see it because she is still dating the other guy. Yesterday she came to my house in the morning we are watching film and she slept off in my bed. To my out most surprise because I talk with my girlfriend early she told me she was going home from school, so I text to her on WhatsApp that I cant wait to see her not knowing she mistook it to "I have something for you" omo this girl come to house by surprise, I was dumbfounded when he saw the girl on my bed sleeping, she continued watching the movie on my laptop. I was so tensed I was sweating, the other girl woke up and saw her , she prepares and left. My girlfriend was angry I tried to convince her that nothing is happening between us she said no problem but inside me she is not happy, i later called the other girl she didn't pick my calls. Please what should I do because I am confused. My girlfriend said the day I visit her and see another guy laying on the bed that I should know how it feels.

This is where being a liar has lead you to...You couldn't tell the other lady you have a girl, now you have caused a serious confusion.

If your girlfriend trusted you before, you lost it...She will begin to consider her admirers or even her male bestie..

As for the other lady, if you were clean with her, she would have guided herself not to loose guard.

Anyway, you still have option of being plain with the other lady and reassure your girl that she is your girl.

Invite her, and go on a date..And tell her the A-z about the other lady...

your plan was to have that second girl as your back up, serves you right.

You are proud of it hence your caption.

Good for you all the way, son.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
What if I called you a wh*re how would you feel?the same way you folks call women h*oes..

Well your fellow kids might not criticize you cos of same gender but if it was a woman the derogatory word would be something else..

Well I reserve my main comment let me keep smiling at wannabe redpillers hypocrisy..a man cheat he is a champion a woman does that she's a wh*re..
Ride on..

A man has no hole to hide STDs , or to get wide like lagos ibadan express way

abbertee:


A man has no hole to hide STDs , or to get wide like lagos ibadan express way

A h*oe is still one baby boy..

Oya clap for yourself!

my girlfriend said the day i visit her and see another guy on her bed i would know how it feels

Wow, it seems OP is new at this.

Relationship veterans, pls explain to OP what it means when a girl says the bolded above...

Your mates are fighting in Ukraine you dey here dey reason Nigerian woman leeches matter.


A dead Ukrainian dog is better than you

So what should I do?

Frank2021:
What do u think I should have done

You are a confused human being.

V

You should have locked both of them in the room and left with the key for about one hour.
The one that hugged you when you finally open the door is the one you should go for.

But it's late, already. You chased two rats and lost both.

Wahala no dy finished for Nairaland

You are a yeye boyfriend.

These boiz sef...Una too dey like complicat issues for Una self

Isorite.

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