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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by deebrain(m): 7:06pm On Mar 02, 2022
Get wisdom.

And in all your getting, get understanding.

Buy the truth and sell it not


Behold, the slaughter tarried for thee.

Flee while there is yet time.
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by ststyreal(f): 7:07pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:



smiley cheers bro
Let me advice you here seriously oga, start going to church oftenly... Infact, start attending mountain of fire or lord's chosen, before you go pray for one week, you go dey see that girl as Satan herself and na only you go use long stick drive her far away from you.... My sincere advice to you... Peace
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by omolayomi06: 7:17pm On Mar 02, 2022
[quote author=HitSong post=110662896]Fiction... But let's assume this is true...

Some of you are just plainly stupid... It's like the more money you make, the more stupid you are and the more you make life difficult for yourself...

HOW CAN I HAVE MONEY AND FAMILY AND I'LL SEND MY FAMILY AWAY TO ABROAD WHILE I LIVE HERE LONELY AND MISERABLE?

WHAT'S THE JOY IN HAVING A FAMILY YOU CAN'T EVEN SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH?
All in the name of you want them to fit in high standard of the society and nonsense...
In the end, the society will help you train those children since you are too stupìd and irresponsible and they'll become:
Lesbians
Gays
Protitutes
Armed robbers
Drug addicts, etc.

I'm 100% sure that your wife is also CHEATING on you because no sane woman will leave her young husband in another country to live lonely and fend for himself if she truly loves him and if she doesn't have "OTHER" PLANS...fact. you get it.

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by slimmax: 7:17pm On Mar 02, 2022
gbolaS don rise, where mama Damilola dey, your husband blood ti boil

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by ststyreal(f): 7:19pm On Mar 02, 2022
AdeOri99:
Don't worry, someone is equally doing same to your wife abroad.
Yes ooooo!!!! Karma is real...
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Ese2ehi: 7:21pm On Mar 02, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
can someone summarize pls....

He was just acting a porn movie in real life with someone that's not his wife
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by LastProphet: 7:26pm On Mar 02, 2022
gohzieh:


Brother, I can remember the period I spent 2weeks from my wife. Mehn, I really missed that aloneness. It felt like this people were choking me. I started missing them after some days but believe me, I still wish I can chose to ghost on them and return back without them noticing. My lovely wife & daughter are a beautiful wahala. I can’t do without their wahala. But at a time I need space too. Married people can only understand.

Most of these singles dont know what marriage is all about and is why is taking many by surprise. I remember a female doctor neighbor that used to counsel me those days on why i should marry early and blah blah blah how sweet marriage is and all that. I kept telling her it's not something to rush into and that it's not something you see as a destiny mission to be fulfilled so work on your own dreams and plan to have a great life with or without marriage but she wouldnt have any of it. Many years down the line now I hear from our former neighbor who's still in touch with her on how the doctor and hubby had turned each other to a punchbag despite having kids together etc. Heard she tries to hide it from us former neighbors because of how many lectures she used to give then on 'sweet marriage." There are just too many daft young people around nowadays
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Nobody: 7:31pm On Mar 02, 2022
Exkandayee:
Dis one na story porn,as I'm reading my dickk was ticking, before the end,is fully erect, I'm begging my dickkk to calm down that is just a story..not babe



Lol!!!
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Freshnexx(f): 7:37pm On Mar 02, 2022
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Exkandayee:
Dis one na story porn,as I'm reading my dickk was ticking, before the end,is fully erect, I'm begging my dickkk to calm down that is just a story..not babe
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Kodifashionhub3: 7:42pm On Mar 02, 2022
HitSong:

It's your misery, frustration and cross to carry.
If you're not lonely and miserable, you won't fall easily in the hands of young whorès and slùts that has nothing to offer but the holes between their legs, while they collect your money and also give you all kinds of STDs...
You fell even as a married man and believe me, no sane married man will allow his family live abroad while he stays somewhere else lonely and miserable all because his wife his frustrated with their home country...
Are you a man at all?
Again, no sane woman will live her young husband here to live alone and fend for himself... expect if she has "OTHER" plans...
There's no other joy like family living and growing together.
You certainly still belong to the low class of the society and you also have poor mindset...
Why are your family members abroad? Better life abroad? Better schools?
The minister of Labour, Speaker of the house of rep and many other elites in Nigeria have their children in Unilag and other schools in Nigeria so what are you feeling like?

YOU ARE THE BIGGEST LOSER HERE.
You can actually make a point without insulting him. I doubt if some can actually come to you for advice
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Pimine: 7:43pm On Mar 02, 2022
yomi007k:


Baba...how u know say d wifey bailed on him?

Sometimes in life, opportunity presents itself for your loved ones to move and you may not be able to join them becos what you personally have here maybe be better than over there... grin

Aswearugaaad

He said his wife declared that she was tired of the country and wanted out. She took the kids along and basically said fụ́ck you very much hubby!
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by sisisioge: 7:44pm On Mar 02, 2022
Chaiiiiiiii


I pray the story is made up fa....anyways, I like the sex part. Tell us more tongue tongue tongue tongue
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by 123papas(m): 7:55pm On Mar 02, 2022
Blackbelly:
After posting broad daylight porn under the camouflage of seeking advice, now ask yourself, do you truly need help?
I seriously doubt!
Got an erection from the story. Chai
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by HitSong: 7:58pm On Mar 02, 2022
Kodifashionhub3:

You can actually make a point without insulting him. I doubt if some can actually come to you for advice
Or deh

I don't advise senseless cheats.
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Psalmistproject: 8:07pm On Mar 02, 2022
PeaceJoyLove:
Psalmistproject

Ok na. This is where you belong. Show your skills here. Told you NL will soon serve you. Stay away from Ukrainian- Russo war.

Goodluck

It's obvious you are among those irrational elements with no regards for freedom of speech and privacy
Go school mba. Na iberibe you prefer abi.
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Absolutebeau: 8:13pm On Mar 02, 2022
Sorry about your dilemma though. But did you tell her about your family? Is she aware that you're married? However, I think that the thought of losing your family due to this nefarious relationship, should jerk you out of it.
So the choice is all before you: your lovely wife and kids OR sweet s*x as you've never had it before. Cheers as you make your choice
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Aaay: 8:35pm On Mar 02, 2022
Do you know who is fuvvkking her abroad
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Kdon2: 8:36pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
Ps, I understand a majority would think this is some made up story seeing as I opened the account today. I have been an unregistered member of this platform but the issue with this babe is getting to a head. I can't think, can't focus at work, can't do anything at all.

All I think of is her. I can't ask my friends for help, they're way too close to my wife and someone might spill. Pastor, etc are out of the equation. It's you guys I can turn to, so I need those who have been in my shoes to suggest ways to get over this girl.

Pss, I tried deleting her contacts, blocked her on IG, Whatsapp, etc. After 2 days, I unblocked her and when she asked, I feigned some phony excuse.

Help me!

She is using the ogbologbo kayanmata on you bro. Your life, your future are in serious danger!
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by waliezi(m): 8:37pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
Ps, I understand a majority would think this is some made up story seeing as I opened the account today. I have been an unregistered member of this platform but the issue with this babe is getting to a head. I can't think, can't focus at work, can't do anything at all.

All I think of is her. I can't ask my friends for help, they're way too close to my wife and someone might spill. Pastor, etc are out of the equation. It's you guys I can turn to, so I need those who have been in my shoes to suggest ways to get over this girl.

Pss, I tried deleting her contacts, blocked her on IG, Whatsapp, etc. After 2 days, I unblocked her and when she asked, I feigned some phony excuse. Call me for details on how u can get out... 08032483093

Help me!
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Prolificgiant(m): 8:37pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?
are u willing to have a second?? If yes go for her,if no relocate to meet your wife or else the lady will get pregnant if you are not careful
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by spartanian(m): 8:51pm On Mar 02, 2022
Beware of sex charms aka kayan mata
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by karli4nia(m): 8:57pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
Ps, I understand a majority would think this is some made up story seeing as I opened the account today. I have been an unregistered member of this platform but the issue with this babe is getting to a head. I can't think, can't focus at work, can't do anything at all.

All I think of is her. I can't ask my friends for help, they're way too close to my wife and someone might spill. Pastor, etc are out of the equation. It's you guys I can turn to, so I need those who have been in my shoes to suggest ways to get over this girl.

Pss, I tried deleting her contacts, blocked her on IG, Whatsapp, etc. After 2 days, I unblocked her and when she asked, I feigned some phony excuse.

Help me!

Your story is interesting. I know what you are talking about. 90% of men would gladly fall into such powerful and sweet temptation. I like to think, many of us men have very poor spiritual and ethical foundation to surmount such degree of sexual temptation.

Such temptation also has the power to ruin your life, and bring unnecessary suffering to you and your loved ones.

You should ask God for help in your heart, ask the holy spirit to forgive and help you cos adultrey is a kind of sexual misconduct that comes with deep moral and emotional pains that are inescapable.

After you have genuinly asked the holy spirit for help, i believe, naturally, the recurrent strings that links you two would be disentangled.

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Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Kaymansion(m): 9:00pm On Mar 02, 2022
Hope they didn't plant the girl into your life through someone very close to you, even your wife isn't left out be wise Mr
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Mentholated: 9:10pm On Mar 02, 2022
miladelly:
Thank you for lines of insults or words that describes how MENTHOLATED your thinking is.

I won't insult you, NOP, I am very civil & well put together.

Did I specifically say the MAIN reason I broke up with my ex is JUST because He cheated....NOP.

And what if I broke up with my ex because he CHEATED, how does that make you blue or green...
What's you business with how anyone deal with their situation.

I don't only shake my head for you, I pray that your shortcomings will make you remember to ask God for forgiveness with the statement you quoted below.

"If that man played a big role in your relocation with your kids, then I can only shake my head".

If you are given a comprehension & your understanding is that reply is...then woefully, you failed my dear.

You only think a man, must make a woman right? How about women that make men...

You are completely BACKWARD, am trying to put my emotions in check not to insult you, because you are not only FACELESS, you are indeed HEARTLESS.

Hmmmm, I started travelling abroad at age 7.

@ your silly quote again

"if that man played a big role in your relocation with your kids, then I can only shake my head".

You need to be taken to River Jordan to be Washed, Rewashed & then washed away to a destination full of salt...because it obvious your brain need some HCL.

Your head is actually, upside down my dear. Really, I will give you your reply since you refused to think appropriately....

I was not relocated with my kids...I had all 3 of my kids abroad...& what if my parents were the source of the funding the hospital bills, and more....

And what if its even my ex....what's your headache now, imagine taking Panadol for another man's toothache...

Your thinking is just always how if the man did this or that....

Mind you,my children ain't boys... they are men. 21, 19 and 13years...and if they are IN such a forum, with my full chest they will give advice to the person who needed to sort his heart issues out rather than this your useless attack on my person.

Explore my sexuallity at what age....

I am a pretty babe at 45 my dear, very hard working, single for over 10 years.... so its about sexuality exploring again to know if I am into men or women or what exactly is that word Sexuality used in this context?


Gaskiya, you are depressed & take your boxing gloves to the ring.

And by God's grace, for accusing me wrongly.....I leave that to God.

You don't know my personal story, yet you have condemned me, you have become Russia & Putin the Warlord.

I don't blame you at all.

I am a very cool & calm lady, but this Methylated Spirit went too far & I detest bullies, otherwise I would have just let it slide.

You are a bully....PERIODT.

And if you think I will back & forth exchange words here with you....NAY, no be me; emi ko; baa ni ba......am OUT.

oh Mentholated, you really are hot right now.

Cheerios....


Stop being emotional.

OP posted a story of his life and I read it.

You commented and wrote

"This exact situation you are was why I broke up with my ex-husband 10 yrs ago"

I commented based on that and stated that it did not add up and there was more to the story.

Stating a possible scenario if your statement was true.

From your subsequent explanation, your experience and that of OPs were not the same so you should not have used "EXACT SITUATION"

BOTH SITUATIONS ARE DIFFERENT.

Have a wonderful life.
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by kingsceemark(m): 9:34pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

Op you will hate her when she starts asking you for money, na free pussy dey shark you
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Bellings: 9:35pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

Please run while you can before it becomes too late, those kind of people are the worse to have even a drink out with.
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by chioma134: 9:35pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:
So... I'm 39/m, married with 3 beautiful kids. Wife and kids are abroad, while I'm gainfully employed here in Nigeria. This is my story -

I've always been a chilled introverted guy with almost zero worries. I'm committed to my work and my work is also committed to me, at least, I'm able to send a healthy amount to my wife and kids in the Queen's country, every month. As a 'Manchelor', this is my daily schedule - wake up, go to work, close late, get home, play PS, skype the fam, sleep, rinse and repeat.

I seldom have time for social media, but once in a while, I log into Facebook and IG to catchup with friends. This was the beginning of my dilemma.

December of last year, I was scrolling on my timeline when I got a notif. Someone had liked my picture. I clicked through her profile and saw this young pretty girl. Honestly, I did not exactly fancy her at first, but I reciprocated the like on one of her pictures and logged of to bed.

When I woke the next morning, she had followed me. I followed back and thanked her for the follow in her dms.

This damsel was around 6ft, pretty, fair and easy on the eyes. She did not have any revealing or tight fitting clothes on her profile so at the beginning, I could not exactly place her physique.

We started chatting that day and as satan will have it, one day, I got leave from work. It was an unfateful Friday so I invited her to a day out at The Palms. We ate , watched a movie then when I wanted to book a ride for her back home, she said she'd like to know my house.

Tbh, I thought this was quite forward and voiced it. I love my Wife dearly. I love my children as well. I would never do anything to deliberately hurt them so I turned down her offer and booked the ride. She stays at Yaba, I at LP1.

She entered her ride and I did not contact her again.

Well, hello next morning!

Her WhatsApp call woke me up. It was a Saturday so I was at home. We spoke at length, she thanked me for the previous day and told me to at least allow her pay me back. "This girl sef!" I thought to myself.

We got to know each other better across the phone in that singular call and I felt it in my soul that she was a genuine one... not an 'InMessage' girl. She was a student at UNILAG in her 300l, studying Accounting. She was a really homely girl, light spoken and very respectful.

It was not yet mid-day when her cab to my house was 10 minutes away.

She came in, looking like a queen. Jeeez! Remembering that day sends shivers down my spine. Thankfully, I leave in a building all to myself so there no prying eyes to call Mama omo SugarPapi in faraway Ireland. My security guy opened for them, she alighted and paid the cab herself. WAWU!

She came and hugged me, we held hands as I pulled her in. She had not fully entered my house when I swept her off her feet, our lips crushed together in intense canoodle. Her tongue was probing inside my mouth as mine hers. Before I could process what was happening, she went on her knees and I felt my soul leave my body.

By this time, I had still not seen her body, so I led her to my guest room and my God!

Brief history... before this day, I had always considered myself an 'ass guy'. Actually, the few guys I consider friends know me as an ass guy. I loved huge melons but 'the behind' gets me most of the time.

Dear NLers, this girl's bossoms where neither ginormous nor small. They were just the perfect size and they stood! My God they stood! Firmly in my face, begging, begging to be...

I'm a 39yo guy and I confess that I have never experienced sex like that till that day! She was so sensual, so soft, no rush, no wrong. She mounted and rode me that day till I came. It has never ever happened before... not even with my partner and my she can f*ck!

It took every fiber of my being not to cry like a child as she rode me with ease and finesse. It was not that type of riding where the girl tries to burst your kidneys or emasculate you. It was focused on just my shaft and its cap. At some point, I was afraid I will pass out.

I had to quickly pull her off me before I pass out.

We ordered some take out, went at it three more times and around 8pm she was on a ride home. I told her to send me her account for me to send her something for the weekend. She out rightly refused and also refused me paying for her transport. WTH?! Abi na mami water tins?

Well it's been three months now and I can't seem to let her go. I have never experienced sex the way she does it. I confess that I may be catching actual feelings for her. I see myself jealous when she receives a call from her male counterparts, she once showed me a video she made with her ex. I was so angry. When she noticed my demeanour, she came, sat on my naked groin and whispered in my ears - "he is in the past, THE PAST".

I have to come voice out my predicament because she is now taking space in my heart. I can't do this to my family.

Guys, how do I 'divorce' this girl?

@OP, I understand what you're going through, which is a strong emotional and sexual attraction to another person probably due to long distance marriage. I've been in that position myself, although there was no physical involvement. However, the pull of attraction was so strong I was considering leaving my marriage.

I got out of it by sincere prayers to God and studying the Bible. Also, listening to messages helped. Progress was gradual, but what finally did it for me was completely cutting off all communication. I used the opportunity of a small misunderstanding to do that and in about a week's time, I was completely weaned of those thoughts.

So do these 3 things
1. CUT OFF ALL MEDIA OF COMMUNICATION
2. PRAY SINCERELY FOR GOD'S HELP
3. STUDY THE WORD OF GOD DAILY
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Nobody: 9:41pm On Mar 02, 2022
SugarPapi:


GOD BLESS YOU SIR! Honestly you get what I'm going through right now. This girl has a grip on me I cannot explain and so far no one has offered solid advice on how I can separate from her.

Side chicks cant take over, does she know if u r married? Respect the family code, consider your kids too, because if they found out you left your mum for a hoe, you will be hated for life. Fact!
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Hassanmaye(m): 10:00pm On Mar 02, 2022
Blackbelly:
After posting broad daylight porn under the camouflage of seeking advice, now ask yourself, do you truly need help?
I seriously doubt!
Haha
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Hassanmaye(m): 10:00pm On Mar 02, 2022
Exkandayee:
Dis one na story porn,as I'm reading my dickk was ticking, before the end,is fully erect, I'm begging my dickkk to calm down that is just a story..not babe
Haha
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Hassanmaye(m): 10:01pm On Mar 02, 2022
HitSong:
Fiction... But let's assume this is true...

Some of you are just plainly stupid... It's like the more money you make, the more stupid you are and the more you make life difficult for yourself...

HOW CAN I HAVE MONEY AND FAMILY AND I'LL SEND MY FAMILY AWAY TO ABROAD WHILE I LIVE HERE LONELY AND MISERABLE?

WHAT'S THE JOY IN HAVING A FAMILY YOU CAN'T EVEN SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH?
All in the name of you want them to fit in high standard of the society and nonsense...
In the end, the society will help you train those children since you are too stupìd and irresponsible and they'll become:
Lesbians
Gays
Protitutes
Armed robbers
Drug addicts, etc.

I'm 100% sure that your wife is also CHEATING on you because no sane woman will leave her young husband in another country to live lonely and fend for himself if she truly loves him and if she doesn't have "OTHER" PLANS...
Wow
Re: I'm In A Fix... HELP ME! by Nobody: 10:03pm On Mar 02, 2022
Psalmistproject:


It's obvious you are among those irrational elements with no regards for freedom of speech and privacy
Go school mba. Na iberibe you prefer abi.
Lol. Do you mean the Nigerian fake schools you attended? That na education? Go read my posts, and you will have an idea of who I am. Common sense should have told you to do that before you posted this. It's part of what I am saying.....You can't use your brain. Nigeria has failed you. Chai! A normal brain should have at least made an investigation.

Well, like I told you earlier, leave Ukraine-Russo threads, keep your discussion to f.uck and roasted reptiles threads. Na here your skills dey.

Freedom of speech does not mean you should not know your level. Your comments in war threads are insults to wisdom. Guy, na f.uck and food your brain fit carry....so do am here. grin

No waste your talent....fix this guy. cheesy

Goodluck!!!

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