talknafree:

The benefits of having a girlfriends are many oh! but listed below are just a few reasons;

1) You will be a better 'Accountant and money manager" 'cus they will force you to start knowing how to manage your money if not they will ruine you

2) Your head will be made to accommodate irrelevant and meaningless issues by force (especially when the so called girl is dumber than the dumbest person on planet earth

3) You will be forced to turn to a "geographer" overnight. As you will need to know all the latest eatery, boutiques, saloons, spas and clubs (places her fathers entire pension can not foot the bills)

4) You will know the names of all they dumbest home videos and songs (especially if you are not the type that fights to be in charge of the remote)

5) You will get to train you stomach and mind to believe any rubbish that goes into the mouth should be considered as food or meal (if you find yourself a terrible gook as a girlfriend)

omo the list is endless. watch out for part 2

That is BABE for you

Shoes and silly songs are her speciality

talknafree:

The benefits of having a girlfriends are many oh! but listed below are just a few reasons;

1) You will be a better 'Accountant and money manager" 'cus they will force you to start knowing how to manage your money if not they will ruine you

2) Your head will be made to accommodate irrelevant and meaningless issues by force (especially when the so called girl is dumber than the dumbest person on planet earth

3) You will be forced to turn to a "geographer" overnight. As you will need to know all the latest eatery, boutiques, saloons, spas and clubs (places her fathers entire pension can not foot the bills)

4) You will know the names of all they dumbest home videos and songs (especially if you are not the type that fights to be in charge of the remote)

5) You will get to train you stomach and mind to believe any rubbish that goes into the mouth should be considered as food or meal (if you find yourself a terrible gook as a girlfriend)

omo the list is endless. watch out for part 2

madoba:

I am not disputing your claims but I honestly(and I mean honestly) haven't come across a working class woman who flashes, fails to return missed calls, requests for recharge cards, and practically pushes her burdens on to a guy. And mind you I did say I was speaking from personal experience and encounters with most women that work.

I can confidently speak for myself, my flatmate whom we share a flat together, two of my sisters and a few female friends I have who do not do the things Freeman complained of. Call me naive but I tend to believe a lot of women who work and earn a living are not in the habit of flashing, demanding recharge cards etc etc

The issue here is about the attitude put up in the course of a relationship as mentioned by original poster. Some women may date a man for his money but they would do it so well and nicely without the annoying habits of flashing, demanding airtime, blackberry etc. So much so that the man himself would start rolling out the money without being harassed.

talknafree:

The benefits of having a girlfriends are many oh! but listed below are just a few reasons;

1) You will be a better 'Accountant and money manager" 'cus they will force you to start knowing how to manage your money if not they will ruine you

2) Your head will be made to accommodate irrelevant and meaningless issues by force (especially when the so called girl is dumber than the dumbest person on planet earth

3) You will be forced to turn to a "geographer" overnight. As you will need to know all the latest eatery, boutiques, saloons, spas and clubs (places her fathers entire pension can not foot the bills)

4) You will know the names of all they dumbest home videos and songs (especially if you are not the type that fights to be in charge of the remote)

5) You will get to train you stomach and mind to believe any rubbish that goes into the mouth should be considered as food or meal (if you find yourself a terrible gook as a girlfriend)

omo the list is endless. watch out for part 2

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tom28:

Madoba i will honestly tell you that there are working class nigerian women who depend on other men for money.In many of these new generation banks their female staffs sleep with some of the rich customers for financial favours and there are lots of comfortable looking working class women who prefer dating wealthy hausa Alhajis and middle aged married men with money.True the working class nigerian woman wouldnt bother you for recharge cards because she would view such as below her but then she would bother her rich men friends for money,expensive clothes items,hand bags,black berries and highly expensive handsets and what have you.For many women in nigeria(not all of them though) the only important things in life are shoes,bags,clothes and they would do anything to get it including spreading their legs wide open for any man.Go to Abuja and Lagos and see the number of working class women competing with female undergraduates in the sex trade and see if i am lying.Try and understand what the OP is complaining about.He"s is saying why is it women in nigeria are so much interested in material things from men and he may just be giving an example of recharge cards and what have you because he"s a student.Lets face it man in nigeria women live and die for money.

proO1:

Very well put. That one girl demands for recharge cards while another demands for a car, while yet another demands for a house doesn't make any fundamental difference. They're all love-peddlers - just that they operate at different levels; the same principle applies. 90% of women in Nigeria are guilty of materializing/commercializing their 'love' and body - without providing any tangible benefit to the men in their lives. That is just it. Anybody that disagrees with this evident reality we see everyday in Nigeria is either dishonest, misguided, misinformed, naive, deluded or simply ignorant.

tom28:

Exactly my brother.Nigerian women are fond of commercializing their love and this is what makes them to appear very cheap.I had gain more spending money with my friends than with a nigerian woman because you know your friends will be there for you when u have nothing.I am not saying you shouldnt buy things for your GF but when your girlfriend starts making financial demands on you like u are the next father xmas then my friend u better pick race o!.Sometimes when i tell some of these girls that money isnt everything they reply by saying thus,"[b] Na love i go chop".[/b]There's more to life than clothes,shoes and handbags.

Bvercially:

Guy wei u de get all these your weak cheap gurls from anyway?, na LOve i wan chop?, i hope your gf dat u r so proud of is nt one of em?,

proO1:

Very well put. That one girl demands for recharge cards while another demands for a car, while yet another demands for a house doesn't make any fundamental difference. They're all love-peddlers - just that they operate at different levels; the same principle applies. 90% of women in Nigeria are guilty of materializing/commercializing their 'love' and body - without providing any tangible benefit to the men in their lives. That is just it. Anybody that disagrees with this evident reality we see everyday in Nigeria is either dishonest, misguided, misinformed, naive, deluded or simply ignorant.

tom28:

Madoba i will honestly tell you that there are working class nigerian women who depend on other men for money.In many of these new generation banks their female staffs sleep with some of the rich customers for financial favours and there are lots of comfortable looking working class women who prefer dating wealthy hausa Alhajis and middle aged married men with money.True the working class nigerian woman wouldnt bother you for recharge cards because she would view such as below her but then she would bother her rich men friends for money,expensive clothes items,hand bags,black berries and highly expensive handsets and what have you.For many women in nigeria(not all of them though) the only important things in life are shoes,bags,clothes and they would do anything to get it including spreading their legs wide open for any man.Go to Abuja and Lagos and see the number of working class women competing with female undergraduates in the sex trade and see if i am lying.Try and understand what the OP is complaining about.He"s is saying why is it women in nigeria are so much interested in material things from men and he may just be giving an example of recharge cards and what have you because he"s a student.Lets face it man in nigeria women live and die for money.

jeffman:


There are ladies who feel their guys owe them for allowing him date them. U wonder what the guys are really gaining from the whole thing. sometimes it is better to relax and find a girl who values u rather than trying to please someone who feels u shld pay tax to her because she got female organs.

Exactly!!

190:


That is BABE for you

Shoes and silly songs are her speciality