I'm 27yrs old and I have a female friend whom i've know for close to 10 years. I once asked her out 8yrs ago but she never gave me a definite answer (i will think about it). After many years, we came together again as friends.

I met one of her friends at her place and i asked to know more about the girl, but instead she asked me to date her rather than her friend and she even went further to tell me that if i could win her heart, she is ready to dump all her male firends.

The questions are , is she really serious about her statements, what is the assurance that she will not leave me for someone else just as she wants to leave others guys for me. ,

Please advice

I tot u were a serious guy, now i know beta, abeg where is the newspaper i was reading o jare, ??

Duh!

@Toronto , u r soo hilariousss, hmmm u in Toronto? as king cuz of ur nam, hmm dawg, study da gurl 2 know if shez serious so jealous dat u asked 2 know more about her friend den wanted 2 take da opporunity 2 date u instead of her friend dating u,

It seems as if you're not focussed on your girl. Are they twins or exactly alike? And one more thing: would you like a backstabber for a girlfriend?

Hotstepper:

@Toronto , you're soo hilariousss, hmmm u in Toronto? as king because of your nam, hmm dawg, study da girl 2 know if shez serious so jealous that u asked 2 know more about her friend den wanted 2 take da opporunity 2 date u instead of her friend dating u,

Please speak English or pidgin or am I the only one who does not understand hotstepper when she writes

My opinion is, she ruined her chance 8 years ago. Why bother, go look for other chick. It's her fault.

funloving:

Please speak English or pidgin or am I the only one who does not understand hotstepper when she writes

Its like she wanted to write em all at thsame time.

hahha@funloving , sorry if u don't understand me, i simply wrote in english with sum mistakes as in sum words ain't 2geda as they r suppose 2 be datz all, da 1st few lines was simply asking DA TORONTO GUY if hez in Toronto, anyhow, ppl storry 4 da mistakes aite, peace

Some mistakes eh. Some

@chrisd, ahhahaa, abeg make una no kill me oooo, i apologizeeeeee

If you continue like that, you can start writing german.

So tell me hotstepper, where you got that dress. The is a bathroom curtain shop round the block that sells exactly that design.

hmmmmmm, it can be dat of curtain but da dress fyne datz alll, make i change am b4 ppl start yabbing me now, i know wetin 9ja ppl feel do

Whats up with all the typos?

@ Max, men where u be gitting that freaky-ass emoticon from?

The last smiley is funny and cheeky.

chrisd, maxflame and Toronto: meeeeeen, you guys are just so helpful

i hope you guys can take a joke
@badmus:  it's been 8yrs and she's still not decided whether or not she wants to be your girlfreind? like c'mon now! 8 good years of uncertainty? that's extreme abeg! but then this her friend isn't exactly being a friend either coz asking you out behind her  back is pretty low. True, you are still uncertain about the girl but this is the point where a true  friend steps in to help not complicate issues. i think you'd be better off dating someone else entirely because these two girls are much too occupied with their selfish intrests.

Are you "just friends" with your female friend, or "more than friends", because, I don't know, man. It seems like you're being led on. Eight years is a long time. There's this thing called "moving on", you know,

omo boy go and approach her friend yourself she had her chance so let her go and date all her plenty male friends

Men,

Firstly, My experince towards ur issue isnt a small one, I think u have to make do with a Bird at sight than that in the Forest.

So Think about this, Cos the worst mistake you will make as a man is to go to a place where you are not wanted.

Just Let your target gal continue to think about ur asking her out" until she will turn to Half past 6, "

I say go for it! She never cared why should she now. Then again ladies ask themselves for advice about a guy and if who they ask likes the guy also she bad mouths the guy for her friend, but now knowing her friend like the guy too she feels conned and want you back. Conclusion, stay away from groupies.

U all are really funny,I can't help but laugh,u should know the answer to this guy,or are u that emotional that u can't use ur descritions?

@seun [are they twins or, ]

@Grizzly i tot u were a serious guy, where is the newspaper i was reading]

@ Rhodalyn, What u mean "tot i was a serious guy"?? N who r twins?

i was quoting what u told da guy who posted this topic