sircatherine45:
For me, what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Vinnie2000:
Na so! Dats y dey call u the Selfish and wicked gender! A mother that has brought her son since infancy should be left alone with animals, rite?

Prettygirl200:
am just being sincere here I can't marry like that, I need privacy with my husband he can come and be visiting maybe twice a week or so. If he doesn't have that time I will do the visiting with the kids but staying with her is what I don't like.

Omicron123:
How is that possible when it's obvious he is still eating "Mummy thank ma".

Obere4u:

So when you reach to become a mother-in-law, your sons wife will give you condition that you will only be visiting your son twice a week?
What is even wrong in living in the family house with enough room for privacy? So your own mother can't live with you? She won't come babysit after your pregnancy?
Let's stop all these "woke" mentality

Prettygirl200:
Hellooooo young man am entitled to my opinions, u can't force me to agree with yours have said what I want to say. Anyman that is an only child to his mother and decides that I must marry into the family house should better marry himself or go marry his mother. I will not live my marriage life like that. If u have a problem with that den go Lick your wound!!!

Obere4u:


Na with insult you want to use live your marriage? Enjoy yourself, whatever that rocks your boat

Magnoliaa:


If your wife is an only child or only daughter and she's forced too to live with her mother, will you agree to packing to stay with them?

Mooh247:



Same Compound is ok, same roof Not cool, same building different apartment and flats is cool, same apartment is not

Generally what works for A might not work for B, but overall we are Africans and close knitted family works better than European style seperate living



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Cousin9999:
It's normal to leave your parents home only when you get married.

It's also normal for newlyweds to live with parents so they can help them with their first child, and allow them to save money for a good home.

And eventually, those parents will move in with you, so you can care for them.

Families are teams, not something to escape.

Omicron123:
How is that possible when it's obvious he is still eating "Mummy thank ma".

SilentQueen:
Hell NO

I'd rather stay single

I mean who would be cooking for him
We would not be able to knack well in peace

Kelvin3476:

U made no sense Mr.
Soo many take their mom along due to one or two reasons.
Am my mom's only son , and I will be happy to take her along to anywhere I am if possible because her husband left already. No one can take care of my mom better than I .
My mom staying with me or I staying with my mom doesn't mean I am eating Mama thank you

Magnoliaa:


I am an 'I-too-know'. Yes, I accept. Doesn't change the fact that you could not answer a thing of my questions.

What you cannot do for your wife, don't expect her to do it for you.

The person you quoted mentioned being an only heir to a estate and family holdings. That was NOT your point. You never said so. The only condition you gave was opened. Being an only son of a parents or of a single parent.

But if you can move into the estate of your wife's parents, as she's the only one there to run and keep a hold over things, just say yes, you can or will, and I'll drop this.

Magnoliaa:


If your wife is an only child or only daughter and she's forced too to live with her mother, will you agree to packing to stay with them?

Iamnorth:
One funny FACT about ladies is that,the older they get the more their options reduces...no do marry person when ready to marry be there!

VictorUSA:
See them commenting as if they are important.Women are all useless regardless of their origin.

Vinnie2000:
All diz una 'Oversabi' will hurt u ladies one day! My female neighbour with 4 kids married into her husband's family house! But later, the elderly couple packed to the village. So they are alone now. Maybe u re still a young babe. Marriage is compromise o!

Iamnorth:
One funny FACT about ladies is that,the older they get the more their options reduces...no do marry person when ready to marry be there!

emmaodet:


I don’t understand this front and backs.
Is it the man marrying the woman? Or the woman marrying the man?
If a man sees a woman, approaches her and she agrees and is okay with moving to his family house, is there a problem there? If she is not satisfied with it, she can get the f.chuck off instead of all these “why can’t the man move to his wife’s family house”
Is a man not the main provider again? Is the not the one using his leg to search for a liability/responsibility to but in his house and raise?
OR the woman wants to marry a man, house him, feed him, cloth him, put him on salary and get him a car? If yes, then he can move in with her if it is okay by him.

Bobmarie:
And when we decide to split the bills equally?

GUNITGuy:
But 99% if women commenting would sleep in dangotes son or itedolas son house ......
Don't get relationship advice from women they only reason based on the kind on people they meet broke, struggling middle class.....
Once they manage to break thru they forget all this principle they kerp