bashy_demy:

^^^ hey i use God beg you no ever lay curse on me what is your Zap.I.N.G. problem with my life i borrow money from your father to give my comcubine? and beside if got none i only have those girls that i use to refresh my blood what your problem a[b]m not ashamed of anything cos am not account to anybody [/b]how i manage my life and home even my parent cannot tell me how to run my life and home so all you wish me will be yours.   KILODE KI LAGBE KI LEJU  i throw stone and you throw Olumo rock wetin happen abeg mind your bussiness there is a freedom of everything shikena

chaircover:

@bash demy I know you are only doing what you think is best, but as a woman please let me tell you that money is not everythng.

Seriously, Many women will give up their 2004 model Rav4's just for their husbands to spend quality time with them. There are so many lonely married women out there who their husbands think are very happy but they are worng.

You are also making a mistake by withholding intimate relations from your wife because you feel that she will start looking old. Olori adura ni wipe e ma lo ara ying gbo gbo gbo. It is allowed for both of you to use each other till you are old and grey

2mch:


I am sure you wife will be thinking the marriage is the worst decision she has made. My friend you are accountable to your wife, and your children. Because your behavior can +/- impact their life. You are making a big mistake having this thought process. You need to see a psychiatrist. . Am surprised any right thinking person can type that. Bashy Demy, honestly tell us if you have beat your wife before. I truly suspect you and know exactly the kind of person you are. 2004 Rav-4

chaircover:

@bash demy I know you are only doing what you think is best, but as a woman please let me tell you that money is not everythng.

Seriously, Many women will give up their 2004 model Rav4's just for their husbands to spend quality time with them. There are so many lonely married women out there who their husbands think are very happy but they are worng.

You are also making a mistake by withholding intimate relations from your wife because you feel that she will start looking old. Olori adura ni wipe e ma lo ara ying gbo gbo gbo. It is allowed for both of you to use each other till you are old and grey  

ronkebp:

hMMMMMM!!!! this topic is a very emotionla one, it is already on page 15 and it is still going strong, nice,

@Bashy, change your ways, especially if you consider a spiritual cleansing for your personal self and not only because of your wife, all those girls you are 'banshing', you don't know their make up spiritually, just be careful, . Moreover you are talking about toyota rav4 2004 when people are buying 'range rover, supercharge latest model for their wives, (kidding).

bashy_demy:

@Abali i like your response to this and i will post some thing down here for any woman who have not been through that to come out and say it cos my wife fall between one or two if not three of them

REASONS FOR MEN TO CHEAT

1. a woman who cheats on her man before marriage especially with married men will definetly be cheated on. What? who told you so?
2. a woman who nags too much will definitely be cheated on. Bullshyt
3. a woman who has no time for her husband will definitely be cheated on. wavy wavy
4. an arrogant/sturborn woman will defintely be cheated on Hmm
5. any woman who disregard  her husband wish will be cheated on, for sure-Bullshyt, many work to compromise abi na di husband only have wish?
6. any woman that fails to keep herself in shape physically, materially, sexually, socially, spiritually, will also be cheated on. (women always act like delilah. remember samson? pls no explanation Bullshyt, no reason for you to cheat, you can try and work something out
7. any woman that expect their husband to cheat will be have it cos her expectation shall not be cut short. I believe if someone is constantly accused of something he has not done he will end up doing(myself as an example)
8. any woman who keeps too many men around her (whether married or single) will be cheated on. the hubby may confess trust but right in his mind; he cannot convince himself that his wife won't cheat with one of them. Many women tend to have male friends like myself and I do not think I can be with a man who cannot trust me and uses that as an excuse to cheat.
9. any woman that cannot communicate with her husband effectively will be cheated on. Bullshyt to the highest level, have you ever met a woman who cannot communicate with her man? Please, it is the opposite.
10. any woman that fail to keep her husband secret from outsiders will be cheated on. Bullshyt but I do think what happens in your marital home should stay there unless if its domestic abuse
11. any woman that cannot resolve her family issues without a third party will be cheated on. Bullshyt on the highest level, some people just cannot solve somethings on their own
12. any woman that fails to take correction from her hubby will be cheated on. What about a man that fails to take correction with their egotistical selves? Bullshyt
13. a woman that cannot cook will be cheated on. Bullshyt to the highest level, a good man will teach her if he can cook or bring someone else to teach her.
14. a dirty woman will be cheated on. dirty how? Unclean?
15. a woman who monitor her husband movement will be cheated on. (periscopic in nature)
i have to stop here.
A woman will only monitor if she suspects the husband is cheating and she is always right.
if your man cheats check out yourself on the above.

bashy_demy:

Hmmm well i know you are saying this cos you are a woman and supporting your fellow woman check my last post and tell me wish of them fit you

armyofone:

se.x is like a pill to many men esp an africa man. a book a course mate once gave me to read ''sex is a nigger game'' interesting.
if only other ladies do not give him to their roving abunna. it is good for a woman to have a job and be useful to herself. when he cheats, you either do the same or leave. age when women take nonsense is long gone. many guys here are defending cheating, you servicing two woman, why not the woman service two men too?
pls cheater should not hide but let their woman do the same, my take.

armyofone:

se.x is like a pill to many men esp an africa man. a book a course mate once gave me to read ''sex is a nigger game'' interesting.
if only other ladies do not give him to their roving abunna. it is good for a woman to have a job and be useful to herself. when he cheats, you either do the same or leave. age when women take nonsense is long gone. many guys here are defending cheating, you servicing two woman, why not the woman service two men too?
pls cheater should not hide but let their woman do the same, my take.

tpia@:

Who dashed him marriage.

The loudest mouths here are those chronic bachelors, some of whom are pretending to have a wife.