bashy_demy:

Nice said jare i do cheat make una carry me go court

ronkebp:

Most men do not want to believe that women are good cheats' they will hide it and you will never know.

tpia@:

i wonder why dayokanu never gets banned on nl, even when he clearly crosses the line and abuses forum rules.

he tends to act like he's above them.

harasses females on different threads, no self control or anything like that, switches different ids with people, hacks into others' computers[sup][/sup], is clearly part of a scamming network, etc etc.


yet this the same id he's always used since joining nl.


sacred cow or something?

he is always by his compu

tpia@:



monitoring the networks via remote access.

kandiikane:

Just pray to not come across a crazed woman as a girlfriend or wife.

Are you talking about the women hiding it or the men?

ainaabbey:

tpia@:

i wonder why dayokanu never gets banned on nl, even when he clearly crosses the line and abuses forum rules.
he tends to act like he's above them.
harasses females on different threads, no self control or anything like that, switches different ids with people, hacks into others' computers, is clearly part of a scamming network, etc etc.
yet this the same id he's always used since joining nl.
sacred cow or something?

ronkebp:


Talking about the women'.

armyofone:

Looks like he is a robot too. he is always by his compu maybe he works at Best Buy or some starbucks cafe with wi fi  
with no real life lady

wow! so he does hack into pple computer

dayokanu:

Which line do I cross, which specific forum rules do I abuse?

Which female has come to complain that I harras her,

Self control is not one of the forum rules unless you want to do a costitution amendment,

lepasharon:

iv seen some married women stare lustful at another woman wen deir wit deir wives,no respect at all

coogar:

in which lesbo world does this happen, what colour is the sky there?

2mch:

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-711989.0.html#msg8711587

Reasons why you should not justify cheating or be proud of it as a parent. It is wrong and should be seen as a weakness on an individuals part. Look at what a beneficiary (the child) of cheating, is going through as a result of his father's infidelity? People should think wide and remember every action has a repercussion.

lepasharon:

lool i meant married men

deasy:

To me men infidelity to their spouse don't just happen all of a sudden,"one thing or the other do leads to that",because a married man is like a hungry man,and i expect every spouse(woman) to give the goodies to the man in order to quench his thirst and hunger.

coogar:

what should the kids raised in a polygamous home do then?

#sighs#. . . . . .but then some married women also stare at men when they are with their husbands. hell, there are reported cases of married women sha[i]g[/i]ging everything in sight at the nysc orientation camp in that same nigeria. i have been told married women are the most dangerous and the most sexually-aggressive while serving their fatherland.

2mch:

A polygamous home is cheating to you? The people in a polygamous home are aware of the arrangement.

And most of the people i know that come out of polygamous homes have horror stories. Right now all you think about is feeding your libido at the expense of your children's future and happiness. Does that make any sense to you? I know i dont want the same for mine. Why spend so much money on another person, when the money can be invested in your children's future. Respect is earned not bought.  I wonder if you will like to see your child open that kind of thread about you.

coogar:

what arrangement? i ask. . . . .it's the same ish - the kid in the link you provided couldn't stand his dad with another woman. kids raised in a polygamous setting grew up seeing their dads with different women. dad hopping from one bedroom to another is even more grotesque. my point is. . . .t.i.a.(this is africa). . . .such things are so normal, without it happening life would be abnormal.

there must be more than 400,000 members of this forum from a polygamous house - not all of them have written such about their fathers so it means polygamy worked for some. and what makes you think a compact nuclear family does not have it's own issues too? why spend so much money on another person? you want to advise a full-grown adult how to spend his own money?

2mch:

You sound like kobojunkie, arguing just for the sake of it. The fact remains Polygamy is an arrangement with a certain understanding. Having a family outside of your own family which was joined by God and under religious law is a betrayal of trust to everything you stand for. It shows weakness, poor judgement and lack of foresight. It also shows heavy immaturity. You have been faced with a thread about the other side. And how children of a cheating spouse truly feel. I showed you this and you deviated to polygamy. Is your brain leaking?

kandiikane:

I can assure you that children who see their parents or grandparents jumping from one room to another do not find it grotesque because it is non of their business. Comparing polygamy and cheating is not the right route to go because the children do know that their Father or in some cases mother is married to these women/men and they do not grow up thinking they can sleep with any woman. They very well know the father married these women and as 2mch wrote is an arrangement with understandings between the 2 to 4 wives or how many wives are included and children.

coogar:

not at all, my brain is not leaking but i can bet me life spermflakes occupy the space your braincells should be.

polygamy is not an arrangement with a certain understanding. it is forced on the women in that household. having a family outside is a betrayal of trust and everything a man stands for just like bringing home a second, third, fourth and fifth wife. as at the time the man married his first wife, they signed "for better for worse" and in nigeria, the subsequent wives in that household are not even legally bounded to their husband.

mostly it's always a case of the man keeping an affair for x number of years outside his home and then deciding to bring the wife home after she has been knocked or some other related issues. . . .so it's still the same betrayal, same lack of trust, same dishonesty, same shyte!
i don't see the difference between a standard polygamous setting and a man busting his nut secretly, you simpleton!!!

coogar:

the fact is their father has cheated or kept an extramarital affair before having the chutzpah to bring the lady in question home. men don't just meet women on the street and marry them on the spot. a whole lot of intimate activities must have happened before the man brings his concubine home to marry her. did i even say marriage? in nigeria, there's no marriage after the first wife. . . . .it's just a simple issue of the man bringing his family members to cajole the wife to chill out and create a little space for the new woman to perch.