Kiss and tell
Some women feel it's a mistake to tell the truth, most especially the ones in relationships.
They say their lover will judge them for their past, if they tell the truths.
Some say it's a code of conduct: never put yourself in a position to break apart your relationship.
Some feel they're doing the guy a favor by keeping the truth far away from him.
Some say if he truly loves them he wouldn't care about their past.
Some say white lies are allowed and perfectly okay.
Some women say they're just protecting the guy's feelings because they don't want to hurt him, but I believe this kind of lie is for her own sake, to save her own precious butt.

With that said, I'm under the impression that too many women would pamper the truth and lie seriously enough to hold on to their relationships.
Is it worth it?

There are so many things they'd lie about that I can't even begin to list the majority here: Rape, abortion, drugs, sexual experiences, virginity, impregnation by another party, etc

Women who think it is a mistake to tell the truth are merely posponing the evil day. What happen when the man got the facts later and walk out of the relationship? Men are no fool. They should know that men's mind are complex. They need to realize every man had a unique way of thinking. Some men appreciate the truth, others would never show their mind.

Telling a man about your past or otherwise is subject to the man's peculiar nature. Know him before you lie to him.

man you are right they only want the real truth to me lies.lol

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Because the men would never believe them anyway so why bother?

this is not true.
Most women ii have met have been upfront about their lives, infact the worst mistake a girl can do to me is to NOT tell me the whole truth from the word go.

interesting responses. I guess I've been misinformed.

Women, women, women, are we d only ones on this earth?, why shld we be d ones u men shld know stuffs about (pasts, virginity, bla bla) oya all of u i give u d assignment to go & start tellin your partners about not what u did in d past alone, but what u just did, even recently, while dating.

Please give us a clean break, i think its just advisable to move on, what ever could have happened to a guy or lady is in d past. If u want to know what her/his life really was, u make ur enquiry be4 u start dating, not while dating & used as a bait 4 a break up later.

jkpretty:

u make your enquiry be4 u start dating, not while dating & used as a bait 4 a break up later.

that's good advice, but would she be upfront about it

[b][/b] THE TRUTH IS THAT A GURL CANT JUST TELL THE TRUTH,,,,,,,,THATS WHY DEY THINK ITS A FAVOR THEY ARE DOING THE GUY THEY ARE DATING,LIKE WISE A GUY, ONLY THAT HE SEES NO REASON TO TELL THE TRUTH ABOUT THE PAST(EVEN IF ITS A SECOND AGO) because HE HAS PROBABLY FORGOTTEN ABOUT WHAT HE DID,HE JUST CANT REMEMBER, ABI NO B SO

It's not about what women think. It's a big mistake. The most important thing to a real man, above everything including love, is his pride. If your truth hurt his pride, forget the relationship. It will only take a while for the whole thing to crumble. Trust is good if you don't provide him with facts to dispute the trust. If you f*ck up in a relationship, keep your mouth shut. If he is crazy in love with you, he needs no truth from you to stay. Admitting it, if he finds out never saves a relationship. It only gives him the much needed justification to leave. Men always need proof to break a relationship if doubt creeps in. If you deny them the proof, it always sucks. So, ladies lie, lie and lie your ass off. We will always leave when the issue of truth start popping up in a relationship. Why would you make a guy feel good leaving you? That's what truth gets you in a relationship. WOW, this is some crazy advice. But it's the truth.

u are right, very right, but dat doesn't mean u shld keep doing wrong & lie to protect ur

relationship, becos there is something called nemesis. it does catch up.

this is just the truth n nothing but the truth most ladies are liars,u just have to take it.it is their way of life even thou u love them and they know it.why don't u ladies stop doing wrong if u know u can't stand up for what u did.well it's natural all the same

iice:

Tis ok to play coy and dodge stuffs when flirting, but when considering a relationship, best be upfront with things. . .time does reveal stuffs. And it usually isnt that pretty when things come to the light

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