wis3:
Is he engaged you her?

Abfinest007:
When she sees another girl in the house she will leave.

Unityp:

No.They are just Boyfriend and Girlfriend

Abfinest007:
When she sees another girl in the house she will leave.

Unityp:
My junior brother brought his girlfriend to visit me and she could not even open her mouth to greet,she was busy chatting on her phone.I suggested we hang out outside the premises and she just snapped "I am not going anywhere" and that was her first sentence since she arrived.My brother then asked her why and she replied "pls just leave me alone".
When they left that day,my wife said "your brother is in trouble unless something urgent is done now"
She forced herself and moved in with him since November last year and she just finished her degree programme. My brother who is a very quiet and gentleman is managing his life in one Federal Government Parastatal
Yesterday he came to my house alone and open up to me that he is tired of the relationship and does not know how to send the girl away.He was able to summon-up courage and told her that he can`t marry her and that she should leave his house,but the girl said she will rather die than leave his house.
Whenever he comes back from work,he will not meet the girl at home and when she eventually comes back to the house and he ask her where she went to,the girl will reply why are you asking ?,is it your business.
Pls how do we send this girl away peacefully without wahala?Who has ever been in a situation like this and how did you handle it?
Thanks

Unityp:
My junior brother brought his girlfriend to visit me and she could not even open her mouth to greet,she was busy chatting on her phone.I suggested we hang out outside the premises and she just snapped "I am not going anywhere" and that was her first sentence since she arrived.My brother then asked her why and she replied "pls just leave me alone".
When they left that day,my wife said "your brother is in trouble unless something urgent is done now"
She forced herself and moved in with him since November last year and she just finished her degree programme. My brother who is a very quiet and gentleman is managing his life in one Federal Government Parastatal
Yesterday he came to my house alone and open up to me that he is tired of the relationship and does not know how to send the girl away.He was able to summon-up courage and told her that he can`t marry her and that she should leave his house,but the girl said she will rather die than leave his house.
Whenever he comes back from work,he will not meet the girl at home and when she eventually comes back to the house and he ask her where she went to,the girl will reply why are you asking ?,is it your business.
Pls how do we send this girl away peacefully without wahala?Who has ever been in a situation like this and how did you handle it?
Thanks

Calibrator:
Sometimes I wonder why craze people like your brother's girlfriend don't cross my path...... The only language some people understand is pain and I am very fluent in vawulence

duduade:
What is hard in this


All he needs to do is wake up in the middle of the night, tie red cloth on his waist..design his upper body ..... Carry a designed calabash with all those agidi, boiled egg and co... and be going round the rented apartment.... Muttering gibberish

He should do this for seven days


I am sure before the seventh day she will pack and leave


Come back and give us a feedback

The worst thing she could do is video him that's all

Peace of mind is very important

pansophist:
Your brother is the kind of men UyaiIncomparabl want us to be, according to her, not tolerating rubbish from women makes a man bitter. The more docile and allowing for girls to take you as a caricature, the real of a man you are in her book. Later they say good men are scarce, when they can't even look at their behaviours.

The problem is not her, it's your brother. He is attacking the problem externally (her behaviour), instead of the internally (his character). He is docile and too meek. Thats where he needs to attack the problem from because even if he got rid of her, another woman who sense the weakness in him will come and repeat the same thing. Other men will use him as well. He will be everyone's beach.

There are men she won't try that nonsense with, because after her proper assessment of his character, she knows intimately well that such behaviour won't fly with him. For her to have the audacity to refuse to leave a house she didn't pay for, a man that is not married to her and dont want to marry her, a man she has no kids for, and even disrespect him and his family, is a different level of liver.

How did he end up with such a girl in the first place? It's easier not to allow someone into your life, than chasing them. Because even after breakup, they leave you with emotional scars, waste your time and money, knows your secret etc. The world is richly populated by wicked people, but your character protects your from them. Attack the problem from this level.

IThis world is not for the weak, and if women sense it, you're gone. You go suffer for nothing. Ending things peacefully is what you use for people that have sense, not a agbero like her. He should give her a deadline and if she didn't leave by then, throw her out. Simple. You don't negotiate your peace with someone that peace is not an option.

Your brother should learn that as a man, being kind should not be the only "mode of being" used to navigate the world with. Being kind should be just an option in his collection of behaviours. If the person you're dealing with is reasonable, then you employ reasoning. If not, then you give it to them in the language they understand.

Calibrator:
Sometimes I wonder why craze people like your brother's girlfriend don't cross my path...... The only language some people understand is pain and I am very fluent in vawulence