SpecialAdviser:

Well I was referring to a married man. A married man keeps many friends and always go to bar to drink with them will most likely cheat.

Lol not all bro

This my guy even if he married tomorrow won't keep any friends and his type of person ain't willing to change.

You need to know people like this in person to know how they spend quality time in tracking different babes and nothing else

SpecialAdviser:

Polygamy in itself does not stop man from having a side chick. If not, all the numerous Alhajis in Abuja would have no need having multiple girlfriends over there. Go to Abuja and confirm how polygamous men still chase after side chicks.

In reality, what can keep men away from side chicks can be highlited below

1. Self Discipline
2. Non nagging wife
3. A constantly clean wife.
4. A wife that cooks good food.
5. A man that do not have many friends
6. A family that go vacation and spice up
7. A man who avoids seductive scenaria
8. Self Discipline
9. Self Discipline
10. Self Discipline

I have 90% of the above mentioned from my wife but I still cheat bro. Not proud of it but that’s just my bad side.

Lonelyhrt1:

I have 90% of the above mentioned from my wife but I still cheat bro. Not proud of it but that’s just my bad side.

Simply because you don't have Self Discipline

JayPeeOham:


You mean you go the extra mile to please the side chicks right?

Side chicks go the extra mile...

Arysexy:
Nothing. Toto na d same

Men stop cheating in the name of side chick

Who tell you say toto na the same? Even their shapes different. Some sweet pass others o.
Try other toto and testify.

Jovialjune1:
The sweet thing about men that cheat, is that women are also cheat and are beating them in the cheating game, that's why we have more divorces than ever before these days, so pls keep it up since self discipline is a taboo to some humans

And yes variety is the spice of life and very sweet, so humans will keep experiencing sweet varieties till the end of time

In our society the marriage benefits the woman and not the man. If not the sake of the children most man see no need for marriage. A man can easily move to next woman after divorce because a thousand one of them are waiting not so easy for a woman who is keeping the custody of another man kids.

DKM123:
Abeg after this post, someone should make a post asking why women have side gbolas.


Actually, no need for another post. I think this post and the responses on this post also speaks for why women cheat. Asides the fact that women are polygamous in nature and cannot help but cheat, they also get to increase thier riches.

I think men cannot do much about thier cheating partner. They should just try to connect emotionally and mentally to the cheating woman and at the woman's vulnerable moment (after a couple of years when old age has set in), she may start to respect the relationship you both share and change.

This OP and the commenters said the whole truth. Stolen meat aka big side gbolas is very sweet. Variety is indeed the spice of life. The side niggas know how to give different styles. Some lift you up and ferk you on the wall and some give good head while some know how to give good missionary and doggy style. Side niggas goes the extra mile to impress the wife with seks and gifts.

I am coming, I have more to write but my side dciik is calling me.

Very dry and stale, you have a lot to lose men have absolutely nothing to lose.

They are offering no responsibility and humility. They only offer humility and doggy style because they are getting the best of the man: his money, his affection and little pet gifts. The side chick only has him around for a few hours a week, so she doesn't have to be stressed by oga more than little while. This also keeps her on her toes to give her best behavior because the main chick is her rival. Everyone likes a little competition. In addition, sneaky around makes everyone excited.

Main chicks and wives are tired. They know the best and worst of the man. They see him too much. They only need his money and if he isn't giving it, then attitude will start. Familiarity breeds contempt.

Divay22:

Woman don because spare tire to you o

Life is a very short journey. Unlike car,man has a lot of spare tires ( women) hanging around him begging for attention. In cases where the main chick(main tire) is durable there wont be need to make use of spare tire till you reach your destination.
Main chick and side chick functions are the same but you cant ignore the need when it arises

The main chick cannot offer 2 different something, had it been she has atleast two different something, the Fidel castrato will not cheat.

SpecialAdviser:

Simply because you don't have Self Discipline

Lol I have self discipline, there’s one thing you should know, in life when a man makes more money he thinks he need more women but when a woman make money she thinks she doesn’t need a man. It’s just life and something we can’t change.
The funny thing is I don’t feel bad about cheating. I give my wife her maximum respect, no room for doubt about me cheating and take good care of my home and kids.

Divay22:

At least for once, think about why the both of them are still with you...
Because of your money... So don't ever allow it finish o, else you'll see other side of both of them

lol. Nah. It definitely isn't because of money...Money hungry girls don frustrate my life in the past. I flee when I come across them now.

Tight puccy maybe

Lonelyhrt1:

Lol I have self discipline, there’s one thing you should know, in life when a man makes more money he thinks he need more women but when a woman make money she thinks she doesn’t need a man. It’s just life and something we can’t change.
The funny thing is I don’t feel bad about cheating. I give my wife her maximum respect, no room for doubt about me cheating and take good care of my home and kids.

I understand how difficult it can be to have self Discipline especially in modern day internet.

But try bro. Read your Bible more often. Spend time with decent people and whenever you find yourself failing, go for confession. Gradually you will reduce it. Good luck

olab059:


lol. Nah. It definitely isn't because of money...Money hungry girls don frustrate my life in the past. I flee when I come across them now.

Alright o

SpecialAdviser:

I understand how difficult it can be to have self Discipline especially in modern day internet.

But try bro. Read your Bible more often. Spend time with decent people and whenever you find yourself failing, go for confession. Gradually you will reduce it. Good luck

Smile, thanks chief but unfortunately I don’t even believe in prayers (agnostic), secondly confess sins to who? Don’t tell me a pastor or a priest (fellow sinners). This is my bad and I have accept my fate so long I don’t do it to my wife’s face and don’t have kids outside. My wife and kids are my first priority and I’m good with this biko.

Lonelyhrt1:

Smile, thanks chief but unfortunately I don’t even believe in prayers (agnostic), secondly confess sins to who? Don’t tell me a pastor or a priest (fellow sinners). This is my bad and I have accept my fate so long I don’t do it to my wife’s face and don’t have kids outside. My wife and kids are my first priority and I’m good with this biko.

This is exactly the reason why you cannot stop. To stop cheating, you have to admit it's wrong.

SpecialAdviser:


This is exactly the reason why you cannot stop. To stop cheating, you have to admit it's wrong.

As I mentioned before bro, that’s my bad and I have accept my fate, it’s not a daily occurrence or even weekly. Just ones in a while

Many things

Beolly:

Very dry and stale, you have a lot to lose men have absolutely nothing to lose.

I don't think your brain works very well. A man cheating on his wife has absolutely nothing to lose, abi? Dumbfcuk!!

Nothing really, it's mostly about self control

MOST Nigerian males will cheat if they have the $$$ to do so.

Side chick can offer Mouth Gig
While
Main chick can't ��

In general, there are two kinds of men and women. There are men and women who value surface level attraction and there are men and women who value deep emotional connections. Monogamy is not for men and women who value surface level attraction. Those kinds of people can sleep with anyone that they find sexually attractive.

Monogamy is for the men and women who value deep emotional connections. Those kinds of people don't sleep with just anyone. Sexual attraction is not enough for them. They only sleep with people whom they have deep emotional connections with.

Men who cheat and think that their wives don't cheat are fooling themselves. Most of their wives cheat too. Those people can't connect with people who value monogamy.

SIRG120:
Let me elaborate this for Clear understanding....The fact is, most men struggle with maintaining monogamous relationships..... It takes a whole lot of discipline and self control to remain faithful as a man...... Do you really think the cheating ends with just one side chick?.... Of course not..... With one side chick lies other side chicks..... When they get tired of the so called side chick they move onto the next one and this keeps going on and on....... It's more like a Path of irredeemable return........ Take it or leave it, every man has got that dirty side in them, it's just that the few good ones that are faithful suppress their dirty side....... If am to be logical here, the slogan that " Men are Polygamous in nature" is not fallacious ( Though am not in any way supporting Cheating) But it's a Psychological fact that can never be erased.... That's where nature takes Place......... But Nuture encompasses environmental factors, Proper upbringing , Sound Orientation and Personal decision..... This is where discipline and self-control comes in and that's the only thing that can stop a man from cheating in a monogamous relationship.......You can never forcefully Please a Chronic cheat, even if you're Angelina Jolie or Juliana Roberts...... The best you can do is to skillfully make them emotionally, Mentally and sexually connected to you...... That way respect comes in and when he begins to have respect for what you both share he gradually begins to call himself to order in his vulnerable moments...... With time he stops cheating completely..... At this point, there won't be any need for him to have side chicks and there won't be any need for this Question you asked...............To my fellow men out there that believe and Practice monogamy...... There's absolutely no need for side chicks...... Find that one woman that is very loyal to you and ensure you're faithful to each other........." If you can't be faithful to a loyal Partner then you have no business with monogamy".

WatchYourSix:


Side chicks go the extra mile...

I was saying it's vice versa!

The side chick goes the extra mile because the man also goes the extra mile to please her with his money which she, in turn, uses to go the extra mile for him.
Something the man won't do for his wife or main chick because he feels he already owns her hence no need for the extra mile rather an entitlement mentality sets in.

Jovialjune1:



If your father had avoided your mother by all means, your comment would have made sense.

Continue showing your upbringing

phemy36:


Continue showing your upbringing

Says the full that condemned Nigerian women

Side Chicks can be bleeped anyhow, you can tie or hang her legs up anyhow you like it. Men no dey show mercy when fucking side Chicks, but you can't try that with your Wife

SIRG120:
Let me elaborate this for Clear understanding....The fact is, most men struggle with maintaining monogamous relationships..... It takes a whole lot of discipline and self control to remain faithful as a man...... Do you really think the cheating ends with just one side chick?.... Of course not..... With one side chick lies other side chicks..... When they get tired of the so called side chick they move onto the next one and this keeps going on and on....... It's more like a Path of irredeemable return........ Take it or leave it, every man has got that dirty side in them, it's just that the few good ones that are faithful suppress their dirty side....... If am to be logical here, the slogan that " Men are Polygamous in nature" is not fallacious ( Though am not in any way supporting Cheating) But it's a Psychological fact that can never be erased.... That's where nature takes Place......... But Nuture encompasses environmental factors, Proper upbringing , Sound Orientation and Personal decision..... This is where discipline and self-control comes in and that's the only thing that can stop a man from cheating in a monogamous relationship.......You can never forcefully Please a Chronic cheat, even if you're Angelina Jolie or Juliana Roberts...... The best you can do is to skillfully make them emotionally, Mentally and sexually connected to you...... That way respect comes in and when he begins to have respect for what you both share he gradually begins to call himself to order in his vulnerable moments...... With time he stops cheating completely..... At this point, there won't be any need for him to have side chicks and there won't be any need for this Question you asked...............To my fellow men out there that believe and Practice monogamy...... There's absolutely no need for side chicks...... Find that one woman that is very loyal to you and ensure you're faithful to each other........." If you can't be faithful to a loyal Partner then you have no business with monogamy".

well said.

Jovialjune1:



Says the full that condemned Nigerian women

I'm sorry to reply you. I don't exchange word with your gender. Try to stay out of my mention please. Bye

Contekbbc:
Better thunder fire your left ball!

Of a truth,cheating is bad and should be shunned!

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SuprymBean:
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