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Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by IbroSaunks(m): 1:16pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
frosbel: I am yoruba, but i would not just watch you insult my beliefs. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
auwal87: I am sorry if I offended you , honestly it is nothing personal, just my opinion !!! |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:24pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
Teejazy: abi ooo. He is after decency, common among Muslim girls |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:27pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
toba: yes, d christians of then, who were monotheists and not those of three-in-one |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:30pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
frosbel: grow up frosbel, grow up pleaseeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!! i'd expect that follow Jesus in totality, Where is your claim found in the bible, to start with. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
deols: decency , common among Muslim girls. Please don't even get me started on this one. Is it Kano where where both Full Hijab and Half Hijab wearing girls mess up, you see so called holy Alhajis fornicating with every Jane and Judith , or is it Oyo and Lagos states where Muslims girls are , , in fact I won't say it !!!! |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:32pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
frosbel: did u c d word common of cus dr are always d bad eggs. Generally, muslim girls are d most decent. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:34pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
frosbel: have u ever heard of the word abrahamic?? u can find google helpful |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by juman(m): 1:35pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
@toba, why cant you look for one of the millions of Christian ladies to marry? |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:37pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
Laalamed: a man who prevents his children from going out late at night but comes back late from work is an hypocrite by your definition then??. Common sense is all anyone needs sometimes! |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:41pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
toba: ur girls av a choice. Like i said earlier, they marry Muslims for the material benefit many of the time |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by PAGAN9JA(m): 1:44pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
hercules07: toba: excuse me my dear friends. this is a bit complicated. let me explain this issue a bit. Before the advent of islam and christianity, tribe was inseparable from religion. Every tribe in this world had its own religion. Nowadays, because of islam and christianity, many tribes around the world have lost their original religion, which has been replaced by one of the two, like a virus. As a result, when i say tribe comes before religion, i am not referring to the original tribal religion. I am referring to these foreign religions. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:48pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
frosbel: u can say wat u like but the issue of polygamy solves much more than u wld admit. is it not worse that your women are turning lesbians nd fathers turning gay |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:52pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
frosbel: i can nd should forgive u now. Racism is only against blacks ughn?? just like xtians are the only victims of terrorism?? u are highly myopic |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Afam4eva(m): 1:53pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
The level at which Nigerians have taken religion is mind buggling. Even ethnicity is not taken that seriously. That explains why there are several inter tribal marriages among Nigerians. For instance my cousin(Igbo) married a husband(Yoruba) and it wasn't a big deal. But i don't know why inter-religious marriage is a no no for so many people. The only inter-religious marriages i have come accross are those of people with passive religious views. That's why you'll rarely see a hardcore Muslim getting married to a fervent christian. Imagine a "pastor" getting married to an "Alhaja". |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 1:55pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
PAGAN 9JA: do u believe in GOD |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
deols:i dont want to get angry with what u ve been saying so i will control myself. what kinda yeye benefit do our girls get from your men? what are going to do about ur fellow muslima that are willing to marry xtian? u pple arent well informed at all at all. smdh |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
afam4eva:abeg tell them. just imagine how this doels have been defending absurdity. this is an indirect slavery. i pity some muslims that would follow most of what these muslims have been saying on this thread |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 2:03pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
frosbel: wat does a young girl want wv an old man. MONEy?? Materialism?? toba: nice of u to control urself hahahah. am serious about the benefit. Am talking from experience. Yu'll c many of those big men goin after xtian girls wu wld marry them obviously for the reasons i mentioned. but that is not to say ds is it in all cases. dats y i sed many of d time. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 2:07pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
toba: u call ds slavery?? dey are not forced to marry anyone. dey'r only given a guideline. i'd assume calling me doels isnt deliberate. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
deols:yea it was an error. however try to force some kinda practice on some innocent young ladies that might not go down well with them is what? |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
deols:who told u that its only xtians that are guilty of what u ve alleged above? |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 2:17pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
OLASODE2K: makes sense! Many pple wu think such allowances as ds are for the good of the muslim men do not understand Islam. A man is the shepherd of his household and would be asked about every individual under his keep. A muslim man who marries a xtian woman would be working so hard to keep his children on the part. If they stray as a result of his choices, he has a great case to answer before God. So a muslim man married to a xtian woman better not feel like he has one big priviledge. I would call that a TEST. Just like in polygamy, d man is under a great test. How just can he be? A fear of the above is enoff to keep any man away but most dont know. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 2:20pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
juman:what happened to freedom of choice? if a muslima wants to marry me, would u prevent her? |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by http(m): 2:23pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
Well, inter-religious marriage do exist but it more common among Yoruba where i came from. I will use myself as an example, my father was a christian till he dies and my mum a muslim still living. am the last in the family, my mum practise her religion so does my dad. We were giving both Christian and Islamic knowledge from both parents and left to decide on what to do when we grow older, all of us have muslim names and some do have christian names, buth we are keen having a yoruba names than Xtian names. Overtime i have learned to respect both religion and what they believe and their areas of divergent. i know the principle of Xtianity and that of Islam cos i have been on both side. As i grew older i pray to God to show me the way and he does, Am a muslim even in the mist of Xtian but respect their decision and i know they respect my conviction to Islam too. My lineage have both religion cos my grad parents are from both religion too. My wife is a Christian and we are open about that. Let just be tolerant and pls respect people religion, "if u don't want someone to abuse ur parent, don't abuse theirs" I have seen alot of Xtian abusing Islam, the Prophet (PBUH) many time and u hardly finds a misguarded muslim insulting Jesus cos is UnIslamic. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by dayokanu(m): 2:25pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
It happens on both sides |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Afam4eva(m): 2:27pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
http: You have a point there. I've noticed that inter-religious marriage exists among Yorubas because i've seen some Yoruba Moslems that have Christians as wives eg Fahola, Tinubu etc. I guess religion is not really a barrier for some Yoruba. But it could also imply that Yoruba are passive when it comes to Religion. Just a thought. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by deols(f): 2:28pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
toba: wen u preach xtianity, are u forcing some ideas on somebody's throat Islam is goodwill nd dr's no compulsion in it. It is also total submission to the will of God. SO, reminding fellow Muslims of what is expected of them isnt a forceful act. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 2:35pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
u know thats a lie about islam. what are the islamic sect boko haram fighting for? whats their agenda? |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by http(m): 2:44pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
afam4eva: I bet to disagree that Yoruba are passive regard religion, i will say we are more OPEN, i am not a muslim cos my mum is, i am a muslim cos i pray and allow Allah's will for me and that is conviction not just parent telling you this is the religion that is right and good and that one is wrong and evil. When people discovered themselves what matter to them and if that is the will of God for them, they will be convince and be convicted to it. I don't see anything in this world that can change me from Islam cos am convince about it. My prayer is in Surat Fatia Ihidina siratal mustakim meaning Allah show us to the straight or right path. |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
afam4eva:thats why yoruba wouldnt join boko haram all in the name of religion |
Re: Why Are Muslims Preventing Inter Religious Marriage? by Afam4eva(m): 2:47pm On Aug 31, 2011 |
http: I'm still of the opinion that a hard-core muslim cannot marry a Christians because they'll disagree on so many things. One of the couple will have to either convert to the other's religion or take it down a little bit. Because two fanatics in the opposite direction cannot live peacefully. That's what i think. |
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