All of my girlfriends know better than to answer late night calls. As a matter of fact, you will know if the call is not clean from her mono-sylabic response ehn, yes, o.k, alright e.t.c

Insecure huh?

It is not proper at all unless she's a medical doctor or a Pastor and someone requires her urgent attention to Survive, anything other than that doesn't make sense at all, !

Why does it not make sense a woman or a man answer calls after 11 pm? Adults have curfews?

@Toba, permit me to call you an Idiot, thanks.
Same reason Africa is still trudging behind the rest of the world in every ramification.

What type of question is this?

na wa oo

Guys consider this pls.

Unmarried, single NOT searching: Should spend her time wisely. Forming unhealthy habits could destroy her future. Chat with friends at the right times and not during the unholy hours.

Unmarried, single and searching: Could spend quality time with prospects or others that she deems important as long as time spent at night on the phone does not rob off negatively on something important and urgent the day after.

Married and happy: Spend time with the ones you love i.e your hubby, kids and relatives. Rest your body. Focus on building your home. Stay away from night wolves who go after weak-willed women. They could kill just to satisfy their dirty but sweet-smelling fantasies.

Married and unhappy: Pray. Try your very best to sought out your issues. Make sacrifices. Go for the right help. You'll be one of the chief beneficiary in the end. Its not easy and better out there like it seems. The wolves out there cannot and will not tell you the truth. Their so-called listening ear is working tirelessly for the erection in their pants.

ajirebi20:

Only slu/-ts receive calls after 11 PM

You need help.

sexkillz:

So a LADY should IGNORE her PHONE ringing by 11PM so that she would be said to be DECENT? Mind you in 25 years time she should be MARRIED and she should be GUIDED by the LAW of her HUSBAND! So that example doesnt CUT IT!

And why should she give up her rules just because she is married? Stone age thinking

ajirebi20:

Only slu/-ts receive calls after 11 PM

So if your mother/sisters receive calls after 11 pm would they be considered sluts too?

Hmm.

Are you serious?


How did this even get to the front page?

sexkillz:

Pls ask the DUMB CLUELESS AGGRAVATED MOFO!

Your mother is a damn clueless aggravated s/l/-ut

I doubt you know who your father is? How would you when your mother is in the habit of receiving phone calls from strange men after 11 PM.

Oloshi. Alaileko ara galatia

ajirebi20:


My mother is a damn clueless aggravated s/l/-ut

I doubt I know who my father is?  How would[b] I[/b] when my [/b]mother is in the habit of receiving phone calls from strange men after 11 PM.

Oloshi. Alaileko ara galatia [b]ni mi

^^^

You kinda look gay in your picture. i regret bantering with you. Now go play with your buddy's dyyyck. Please, dont gag too much, it is bad for your health.

@ Topic

Yes it's decent for her to pick up the phone and tell her wolee she's not interested in night vigil because she's having a W.A.W. (War Against Wolees) session with lax, alias wine-n-dine bobo.

I don't think it is bad.In case of emergency call,are you saying that she should not pick to help
it the intent that matters

There is nothing like decent or indecent in receiving telephone calls any time of the day. How do you know if it is a life saving call? You do not receive calls at your peril.

sexkillz:

She shouldnt! But if her HUSBAND objects, she should respect his wishes as her HUSBAND! He is the ONLY one that has a say, unless of course they DONT sleep on the same bed!

That last statement should come first

So this topic is still an ongoing discussion.

Op, don't allow your wife pick calls at 11pm even when there is good news that you have been appointed as one of the house of reps & the president want to congratulate & inform you in person but getting your number all day was impossible so the secretary used her discretion to dial your wife's number at 11pm. Tell the President to eat his appointment that it is 11pm & your wife is a decent woman.

Just imagine and what I still don't believe is that SEXKILLZ is in support.

Again, I don't see what's the issue with ADULTS answering calls after 11 pm.

Are there an omen in Nigeria concerning 11 pm?

Its only if you are a worried, jealous and insecure guy (husband or boyfriend), who would bother? as long as the calls don't disturb my sleep; wetin concern dog with durex

This is absurd.
Lots of people, both men and women, work night shifts.
Are they not to be allowed to make the calls they feel appropriate at the hour they please?

We live in a world where Skype lets me talk to a friend in Australia- I should refuse their call because someone might take it into their heads to imagine that means I'm not a lady?
Get serious.

In any case, girls can spend hours on the phone late at night with another girlfriend.
About clothes.
About whether a certain boy is really interested or not, etc.
We all know that.

Signs of infidelity are another matter, though, of course.
Beware a  man who receives after midnight calls, girls!

And fellahs, if you don't want your girlfriend or wife talking on the phone late at night, why not occupy her attention?

Right question to ask is

Is It Decent for married people (male or female) to anserw their phone after 11pm

Na wa o some men have even gone ahead to give the woman time to sleep too. I read somewhere a guy said by 10pm a woman should be in bed lol. so women don turn children too wey if 10 reach hubby go pursue go bed except when he wants her legs spread or wants her to do something in the house chei woman don suffer sha.

Woman or man can anserw phone call that are important anytime of the day and save the spouse from noise pollution at odd hours by going to the living room.

I am married and I call my family members both married and single male and female at night if I have long gists to gist with them to save me some money. sometimes too I plan with friends who are living far from me to make midnight calls I see nothing wrong in it.
You men should marry women you can trust and not monitor all day round to know if she is cheating on you., The next question you will ask is, IS IT RIGHT FOR A MARRIED WOMAN GO TO OUT OF THE HOUSE ALONE? COS SHE MAY GO HAVE S>EX .

A jealous and an unreasonable husband will count it as the wife is cheating on him. Little things like this, seeminly unharmful can develop into a tragedy in the family. What you see as harmless, may be regarded as harmful to another person. People are looking at it with a view that it is not a big deal for a lady to make call after 11:00pm, it should not be at the front page. NO. It may be decent to people outside this country, but within Nigeria setting where some husbands that are very jealous, it is indecent. Little things like this can develop into a quarrel in the home. Let us be careful. God bless you. God2man.

I hear you, God2man.
While I know you're sincere and I respect your warning as timely, why not go to the root of the problem-
the man's attitude?

If he's jealous at 11 pm, he'll be jealous sooner or later at 10 pm.
And at 10 am.

Jealousy is as cruel as the grave and there's no way to appease it.