This is not one of those fairy tales ooo! Im not good in advising peeps about relationship.
A friend has been dating this girl for 5 years plus. She's an intelligent and hard working student with wifey features. She comes around weekends to help him wash clothes, clean the house and sometimes cook. She's the type that locks her phone, facebook lock, bbm lock, whatsapp lock and ...
He complained about the phone lock issue, but i explained to him that its quite normal for most female. Out of curiosity he said he took her phone recently, only to find out that his numbers are not saved on her two years old phone.
He plans to settle down with her soon, but some issues like the ones mentioned above are giving him serious concern. I told him its normal to feel uncertain sometimes about your partner especially when marriage is setting in, but I can't still figure out why his numbers arent saved on her phone for so long.
* if to sey "Cheaters" program dey Naija, e go sell pass linda ikeji. Though not all suspects are found guilty. Nairalanders abeg help me put mouth for this matter.

#observationnobecrime

5yrs in a relationship? What are they relating? People can waste time.
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#AlwaysBuyMadeInAba.

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She be student, and her papa sey make dem wait till maybe when she finish.

Kk

Strong tin. I know her excuse would be: "I know your number'. Well that is certainly true. However, she should just come out plain to tell him if she's no longer interested instead of fuelling his suspicion. Is she trying to keep him from discovering the other guys she has?

She cares for him. She loves him. She is merely ambiguous about entangling lives with him.

BTW: how was this 5 year relationship? I mean was it good 5 years or like one of those good only for 6 months, the rest was like ehhhh...

Anyway, I think not saving his number means something to certain extent.

Tell your friend make him find another motor.....

wat is this one saying . is her phone not locked. get a life

1. She locks all lockables on her phone: sign of dishonesty, no person that doesn't have anything to hide does that.
2. Bro, get the stepping!!!

A girl that wash,cook n do house chores for a guy is a keeper......
Its possible her phone has fault or she wanted to change wat she saved it with before,eg change boyfriend to fiancee.....

All d same that is not enuff reason for a breakup.

Numbers of the closest ones to me are saved in my head. Her not saving his number doesn't mean anything to me... she could rather have saved his number with a code if she wants to hide something

funny how i didnt save my madam's number too



i know its bad but i'm not cheating

He helped her (she unlocked the phone) connect data via wifi hotspot @panachuku
The guy is just being a doubting thomas, he loves her but the phone lock thing dey shake in liver. Marriage no be small thing oo.

If he feels so insecure about it, why not discuss it with her? I mean locking of her apps. As for not storing his number, we store numbers so we can remember them innit?

Girls and excuses. Some people be defending her saying no big deal, saying she knows his number. Some say the reason for saving numbers is to remember it yet our parents married for over 25years still save each others numbers.
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Something is definitely fishy here. Am not saying she's a cheat
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But please nobody should tell me nothing is wrong here
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Atleast he did not say save his name with romantic names. If his name is Wale, save it as Wale. Simple enough

I'm more interested in her phone lock, bbm and whatsapp locks.

Ladies like that are simply cheaters, marry them at your risk.

Not saving his number simply says she's not into the guy so he's just her side man who she takes as what my igbo friends call "odinamkpa"

Kakayaraznits:
This is not one of those fairy tales ooo! Im not good in advising peeps about relationship.
A friend has been dating this girl for 5 years plus. She's an intelligent and hard working student with wifey features. She comes around weekends to help him wash clothes, clean the house and sometimes cook. She's the type that locks her phone, facebook lock, bbm lock, whatsapp lock and ...
He complained about the phone lock issue, but i explained to him that its quite normal for most female. Out of curiosity he said he took her phone recently, only to find out that his numbers are not saved on her two years old phone.
He plans to settle down with her soon, but some issues like the ones mentioned above are giving him serious concern. I told him its normal to feel uncertain sometimes about your partner especially when marriage is setting in, but I can't still figure out why his numbers arent saved on her phone for so long.
* if to sey "Cheaters" program dey Naija, e go sell pass linda ikeji. Though not all suspects are found guilty. Nairalanders abeg help me put mouth for this matter.

#observationnobecrime

Bro is there any other special reason to save numbers apart from retrieving it to call the person that owns that number?

If someone can remember all the contacts that are of important to him/her and can call them without writing their numbers down somewhere, what's the point of writing 'em down?

Like seriously I didn't save the number of my father and my dearest uncle because their numbers are so simple to memorize.... Whenever they call I know it's them and whenever I want, I call them... My opinion though

Hmmm! Yeye dey smell for here, locking up your social media apps is way off jor! Monkey hand dey inside pot...some chicks are not loyal (all that glitters are not gold). No be all gal wey wash your cloth and cook for you be wife material.

She may have reason 4 doing it, maybe she didn't save it bcoz she doesn't want her envious friends to hv access to it you never can tell. I knew of 2 close friends then guys anyway, one did not save d other's no on his fone n his reason was dt even in deep sleep he can still remember his friend's no so wots d need 4 saving it again but he quickly said dt if his friend were to be a gal dt he will not understand so what i'm saying in essence is dt u should ask her her reason 4 not saving ur no n 4gv her unless u r suspecting her b4 now.

she is not been honest with all these secresy. he shd confront her

Thats the beauty of relationships
you have this great girl/guy
And everything seems to be going so well
Then some teeeny weeny shit comes up
And when U start digging fro there U realise
the whole thing is a facade

I didn't save my Ex girlfriend phone number too because I had it off head and when she found out, it caused a lot of uproar.

I deleted her number because I was too fond of her and whenever I typed a text message for someone I will mistakenly forward it to her number. And she will start asking a lot of questions..

But I must confess, password-protecting her phone was one of the reasons I quit the relationship. She is so secretive. That is a very bad sign..

LongPennis:
I'm more interested in her phone lock, bbm and whatsapp locks.

Ladies like that are simply cheaters, marry them at your risk.

Not saving his number simply says she's not into the guy so he's just her side man who she takes as what my igbo friends call "odinamkpa"

The bolded is the only important issue here..

She really got something to hide.what stops her from saving the number with his name ? after all no one is forcing her to use sweet names like darling. After five years in a relationship, they should have gone past having trust issues.

It would be quite sad to know the lady got something up her sleeves. But as long as there's no other hypothesis than phone lock/save name, she still on deck.

Mario's voice
" I dont wanna know
If u playing me, keep it on the low
Cos my heart can take it anymore"

Nsonaso:

Bro is there any other special reason to save numbers apart from retrieving it to call the person that owns that number?

If someone can remember all the contacts that are of important to him/her and can call them without writing their numbers down somewhere, what's the point of writing 'em down?

Like seriously I didn't save the number of my father and my dearest uncle because their numbers are so simple to memorize.... Whenever they call I know it's them and whenever I want, I call them... My opinion though

And what do you say about app locks?

coolhumble:


And what do you say about app locks?

Well that is where the guy should really worry about.... Because the girl surely have a skeleton in her cupboard that she locks up and doesn't want anybody to see