nike4luv: Good Evening Beautiful People!
Hope you are having a lovely Sunday.
New development;
I have decided to make this thread a complaints/suggestions/request thread. So please feel free to air out your feelings and I will be addressing any issues that are being brought up.
Please try not to use this as an avenue to fight or quarrel.

Have a lovely week ahead.
Nike

Prettilex: How do i reply to a post please?I cant help it.

mcnepow: I made a post here (https://www.nairaland.com/711136/nairaland-rules-word-censor/23) asking Dani1luv (the moderator) why he is being hypocritical and he abused his priviledge of bin moderator to hide or worse still DELETE a part of my post. Please is this allowed??

Make una help me warn am ooo

I want ma post returned to where he deleted it from.



Thanxxxx,
Your Loyal NL Member
McNep@w

maclatunji: Hello, I think at least one of our moderators is a trifle bit over-sensitive. I created this thread https://www.nairaland.com/920778/family-section-nairaland-heating-up-what just to get people's thoughts on some heavy language and personal skirmishes going-on in this section.

True, Nike4luv said I/we should report such posts or threads but I do not log--in to Nairaland to report each and every post that I find heavy or offensive. In fact, sometimes I don't want them removed because by our posts we shall be known for whom we are.

Hence, in all frankness, it is the same process through which you the moderator(s) located my thread that you should use to locate such threads if you really want to be active and work on those threads.

Relax, I am not here to attack your moderating style because each one of us has his/her way of doing the job.

Sometimes when you allow people talk and analyse issues you make better headway than when you use instruments of power on them. That is what my thread was about and I want it unlocked because it contravenes no rules except that a moderator or the both of you find its theme touchy.

No doubt, if threads or posts get out of hand, I will report them to you. However, at the moment I do not think there is a need for that unless you want to lock threads which will only mean the parties will move to other threads and start sparring all over again.

debosky: Y'all should modify your moderation tactics to keep this section ticking over

Don't be too quick to lock threads where fighting is going on - it is better to let the protagonists vent all their anger in one place than let them chase each other around NL starting fights everywhere.

Many of the so called fighters are in some shape or form attention seekers (even if they don't know it themselves). Locking the thread too quickly tells them they've been noticed and hence go elsewhere to wreak havoc.

As a now retired mod I've been where you guys are at now - quick to shutdown threads at the slightest angry word. It doesn't work in the end - you need to focus more on the trouble makers rather than locking threads quickly - warning messages work wonders and if such persons refuse to stop, banning them for a few hours usually does the trick.

I know there is a degree of discretion involved in moderating, and you guys shouldn't lose that. Just try to retain some flexibility in dealing with these issues and you'll do well.

Wish you mods all the best!

debosky: Y'all should modify your moderation tactics to keep this section ticking over

Don't be too quick to lock threads where fighting is going on - it is better to let the protagonists vent all their anger in one place than let them chase each other around NL starting fights everywhere.

Many of the so called fighters are in some shape or form attention seekers (even if they don't know it themselves). Locking the thread too quickly tells them they've been noticed and hence go elsewhere to wreak havoc.

As a now retired mod I've been where you guys are at now - quick to shutdown threads at the slightest angry word. It doesn't work in the end - you need to focus more on the trouble makers rather than locking threads quickly - warning messages work wonders and if such persons refuse to stop, banning them for a few hours usually does the trick.

I know there is a degree of discretion involved in moderating, and you guys shouldn't lose that. Just try to retain some flexibility in dealing with these issues and you'll do well.

Wish you mods all the best!

debosky: Y'all should modify your moderation tactics to keep this section ticking over

Don't be too quick to lock threads where fighting is going on - it is better to let the protagonists vent all their anger in one place than let them chase each other around NL starting fights everywhere.

Many of the so called fighters are in some shape or form attention seekers (even if they don't know it themselves). Locking the thread too quickly tells them they've been noticed and hence go elsewhere to wreak havoc.

As a now retired mod I've been where you guys are at now - quick to shutdown threads at the slightest angry word. It doesn't work in the end - you need to focus more on the trouble makers rather than locking threads quickly - warning messages work wonders and if such persons refuse to stop, banning them for a few hours usually does the trick.

I know there is a degree of discretion involved in moderating, and you guys shouldn't lose that. Just try to retain some flexibility in dealing with these issues and you'll do well.

Wish you mods all the best!

chaircover: Bisi Who stole meat?

I was surprised to see the thread locked too. Sometimes people need to vent and its better to vent it in one place than to vent all over the place.

Some of us vent anger in our bedrooms with our amebo beds creaking away under the strain, whilst some people prefer to vent it on their keyboards gbo gbo wa o le je ba kan naa

The cabal/kabal has spoken

chaircover: Bisi Who stole meat?

I was surprised to see the thread locked too. Sometimes people need to vent and its better to vent it in one place than to vent all over the place.

Some of us vent anger in our bedrooms with our amebo beds creaking away under the strain, whilst some people prefer to vent it on their keyboards gbo gbo wa o le je ba kan naa

The cabal/kabal has spoken

perx: perx2 has also been banned temporarily. please help and put my posts on the thread
thanks

debosky: Y'all should modify your moderation tactics to keep this section ticking over

Don't be too quick to lock threads where fighting is going on - it is better to let the protagonists vent all their anger in one place than let them chase each other around NL starting fights everywhere.

Many of the so called fighters are in some shape or form attention seekers (even if they don't know it themselves). Locking the thread too quickly tells them they've been noticed and hence go elsewhere to wreak havoc.

As a now retired mod I've been where you guys are at now - quick to shutdown threads at the slightest angry word. It doesn't work in the end - you need to focus more on the trouble makers rather than locking threads quickly - warning messages work wonders and if such persons refuse to stop, banning them for a few hours usually does the trick.

I know there is a degree of discretion involved in moderating, and you guys shouldn't lose that. Just try to retain some flexibility in dealing with these issues and you'll do well.

Wish you mods all the best!

Busy_body:






Exactly oh, and you are 100% correct nothing can beat that bedroom vent. Maybe that is why Richvkunt has been chasing Jenny's skirt sef, he can see all that passion being wasted on the keyboard hence reason his charitable self wants to help relieve Jenny of those burden