pinkrex:

Whats the difference?

Go check the dictionary for the meaning of 'spice'

Sugar is sweet. That's difference. Go check the dictionary for the meaning of these nuts.

Mr, Cork:

Mrs, Chima. errmm  you not really a wifey material. And I mean it in a good way

Good. That mean you will stay off my nuts from now on right?

Here is Germany different from Nigeria.

Many women are more educated than men, but we don't really care about that. Good jobs are rare to find also here.

So many men are staying at home as houseman while to women earns the money.

Where is the problem?


corona

corona46:

Here is Germany different from Nigeria.

Many women are more educated than men, but we don't really care about that. Good jobs are rare to find also here.

So many men are staying at home as houseman while to women earns the money.

Where is the problem?


corona

My husband best be earnng dough like I am. What nonsense is called house husband. Shame for catch my Ekiti face.

But ofcourse, I'll inevitably be earning more money with my career

ok

If financial crisis like the US happened in Nigeria it would be a test for our girls. And, I know quite a large numbers of them will leave their men.

This prove that only the rich are going to get the best of our girls! Single guys take note!

all4naija:

If financial crisis like the US happened in Nigeria it would be a test for our girls. And, [size=28pt]I know quite a large numbers of them will leave their men.[/size]

This prove that only the rich are going to get the best of our girls! Single guys take note!

That's no doubt the ideal thing to do for girls who do not want to suffer. Who wants to hang on to a lazy azz man?

getting jobless means not automatically lazy!

and what is bad being a houseman ?b

Where is written that the man has to be provider of the family?

Houseman? lol

corona46:

getting jobless means not automatically lazy!

No it doesn't. I quite agree. 3-6 Mos is enough to find some sort of job with a credible  degree for a well-educated man.

corona46:

[size=28pt]and what is bad being a houseman ?b [/size]

What a question. Moving on. . .

corona46:

Where is written that the man has to be provider of the family?

In every sensible woman's personal diary.

Tosinville:

Houseman? lol

Can you just imagine. Me thinks the chick's husband is a houseman.

Na Houseman abi House Husband?

ken.eguae:

Na Houseman abi House Husband?

Potatoe potato. Still same gutter label.

@Ileke-IdI

Lazy ass man because he didn't have good job!? Should women sit their ass out home and let men take care of everything!?Isn't that a lazy ass for women too!

This kind of feminism is taking women to know where better at the end. Well educated guy with a good job is not easy to find or else the ladies want to remain single. The blame is not from the guys in this case but from girls who are picky!  

Come on! There is nothing much that really differentiate man from woman.What a man can do a woman can do better - the ladies used to say.  At least, a man can't marry a women who is not well educated with no job!

there is nothing to laugh about  . Homework done by the husband.

I guess this would be nothing for a proud Nigerian man. But this is reality here.

In 10 years the situation will have been changes also in Nigeria.

this is called emancipation  

all4naija:

@Ileke-IdI

Lazy Bottom man because he didn't have good job!? Should women sit their Bottom out home and let men take care of everything!?Isn't that a lazy Bottom for women too!

Who said anything about a woman sitting her arse at home?
Although it's perfectly sound for a woman to stay home and take care of her children till the youngest one gets to a certain age. It's not something that I'd be found of doing, but it's the ideal method to ensure that her child does not go astray.

My point is. . . . both spouses go to work.

This kind of feminism is taking women to know where better at the end. Well educated guy with a good job is not easy to find or else the ladies want to remain single. The blame is not from the guys in this case but from girls who are picky! 

This has nothing to do with my post. Skipping.

Come on! There is nothing much that really differentiate man from woman.What a man can do a woman can do better - the ladies used to say.  At least, a man can't marry a women who is not well educated with no job!

Still skipping.

corona46:

there is nothing to laugh about  . [size=28pt]Homework done by the husband.[/size]

I guess this would be nothing for a proud Nigerian man. But this is reality here.

In 10 years the situation will have been changes also in Nigeria.

this is called emancipation  

My husband can go to work and still do some house work.

He does not automatically turn crippled whenever his foot steps on our "WELCOME" rug.

So . . . . that's not enough excuse.

@Ileke-IdI

Where are you headed, if not for the feminism thing?

all4naija:

@Ileke-IdI

Where are you headed, if not for the feminism thing?

Obviously not.

Dont count your chicks before they hatch.

^^^^
That's not too straight at the point!

Well, tell me where you are headed?

all4naija:

^^^^
That's not too straight at the point!

[size=28pt]Well, tell me where you are headed?[/size]

MAN GO WORK. WOMAN GO WORK. BOTH GO WORK. MONEY IN BOTH WAYS. FAMILY HAPPY.

@Ileke-IdI

Okay! That's always the best way!

In this case the guys is well educated and couldn't find a good job. For that simple reason many of our girls say they aren't having anything to do with that. That's very typical of our girls though!I think it's one of the basic reasons why our guys are going to very extreme lengths to make money because they know that's the only thing most of our girls understand.

all4naija:

@Ileke-IdI

Okay! That's always the best way!

In this case the guys is well educated and couldn't find a good job. For that simple reason many of our girls say they aren't having anything to do with that. That's very typical of our girls though!I think it's one of the basic reasons why our guys are going to very extreme lengths to make money because they know that's the only thing most of our girls understand.

What are you discussing exactly?

1. Job employment with a great degree?

2. Yearly salary?


Well, I'm discussing getting a job that atleast has a stable yearly income, my large income will help stabilize our home. I'm not found of housing a jobless man.

^^^^
woohoo!

I quite agree with your comments not in line with what the OP ask about. Jobless man is responsible for his problem, he's no excuse at all to be jobless!

Most discussion on this forum lacks quality and honesty. The unfortunate part is some folks comes here to lean on others advise.

No woman (Pagan or Religious) in this 21st Century can survive a man without a good job for 10years moreso if the woman has prospect. I know a neighbor who married a medical doctor husband at LUTH, the lady grew and waxed stronger in a prominent financial institution to the extent that she owns 2 cars (SUV + Car) while the husband rides a push and pull car. Marriage already collapse with a 4 year old daughter sharing in the pain of divorce.

The list goes on an on! The most important is to marry a loving, caring, God fearing and intelligent but educated to a "level" man with tenacity/doggedness to navigate through the thick and thin of life. Such people go a long way.

Can I say that we have misplaced our values? Money money ,money.

I dey chop chop college degree?

Mrs, Chima:

Sugar is sweet. That's difference. Go check the dictionary for the meaning of these nuts.

So who is nuts

Im pretty surprised at your sensitivity

He is not rich, but he is educated and ambitious. Can I go?

pinkrex:

So who is nuts

Im pretty surprised at your sensitivity

You don't get out much do you? Oops I answered my own question.