Base on what you wrote up there,you haven't gotten either of them and you could still end up loosing both

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

chase the two of them,and make your choice after a while.

You seems so unserious, you're counting your chicks before it hatch. You're not even dating you're asking silly questions!

AllMight:
Omo!!! The classmate is like 2yrs younger

2 years younger is not even ok for me. Remember you are talking about woman

Quit that archaic/childish mindset of yours, people don't reason like that these days!
Who told you if you marry your agemate she'll later look like your mother or elder sister? I have seen so many women who are older than their spouses and their husbands actually look older than them. Soo it's a matter of how the lady takes care of herself!!

Bahamas95:
I wonder why some guys get married or consider getting married to their classmates. Most classmates are agemates, I can never get married to my agemate. Most women age faster than men, later in life your wife would look like your elder sister or mum.


I met some of my secondary school classmates sometime ago, you won't even believe we were classmates. They all look more matured than me, fat and all that......My girlfriend even called one aunty . I know I will also call their husbands bros because I am very sure they'll be far older than me.

Good question for the archaic thinker who keeps deceiving himself that he's so young, everyone is older than he is and he and his so called girlfriend won't grow old!
SMH! What a delusion.

ednut1:
you young girlfriend wont get old too Is marriage all about looks So if a lady is family oriented, builder and manager of finances, good mother material etc. na young tik tok slay queen you go pick over her

Bahamas95:
I wonder why some guys get married or consider getting married to their classmates. Most classmates are agemates, I can never get married to my agemate. Most women age faster than men, later in life your wife would look like your elder sister or mum.


I met some of my secondary school classmates sometime ago, you won't even believe we were classmates. They all look more matured than me, fat and all that......My girlfriend even called one aunty . I know I will also call their husbands bros because I am very sure they'll be far older than me.

That is not true. People look old because of stress and lack of proper feeding. Nobody is well feed that will look old. Women look old but it's men that also die before them.

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

Go for Toyin. At least u v known her for some time

Bahamas95:
What if both of them accept without hesitation?

Don't live in a Dreamland ask them first and think later. You never know with women is a good old saying.

Between the two who do you love most. Between the two who is more compatible with you? Between the two who's vision or mission Allie with yours? When you know it you'll know the one to choose.

Look at them, confused lots. Demeaning women, shouting hakimis name everywhere like their hero yet they are busy seeking advice on whom to be yoked with or maybe whom to subjugate and gaslight in the house to make them feel like men. Safe to say all those who make such demonic comments against women are INCELS. Check that up and don't mention me cos I won't bother replying you!

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

Awwwn

Go for that village girl wey dey trip for you

AllMight:
our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet.

This is only place that got me laugh

Sometimes in the journey of life, your classmates are very good guidance because you are coming from the same background and experience therefore your journey going forward is better focused.

When you pick a stranger from very different backgrounds you then need time to gel together. And women are very good to cover there background for ever. Most successful men marries from their neighbourhood ie church, schools, old school, market centre etc.

Don't stay in Nigeria and marry someone living abroad, irrespective.

Dude's mind is on the first lady she mentioned not the Yankee lady

Keep in touch with both. Na man you be

Bahamas95:
What if both of them accept without hesitation?

Hmm. Are you a fine looking dude?

Cos, if you are, they'll both probably agree to being with you in a relationship.

Do you have great personality? They'll probably say yes, too.

You're gonna have to test them on your values.
So, what are your values?

That's how you find who you can be with.

Keep this in mind too... it's not about the great qualities that they have...

It's about the not-so-great qualities that you don't mind living with...
and maybe, the not-so-great qualities, you find adorable.

You get it?
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Yo! Keep us updated.

Who knows, this might turn into a Korean type story

bisiswag:
Look at them, confused lots. Demeaning women, shouting hakimis name everywhere like their hero yet they are busy seeking advice on whom to be yoked with or maybe whom to subjugate and gaslight in the house to make them feel like men. Safe to say all those who make such demonic comments against women are INCELS. Check that up and don't mention me cos I won't bother replying you!

Do you have a son ?

Sure you have a Dad and maybe he is a good Man.

The thing is you sound too protective of your gender.

One thing I know is that... there is always something to learn.

Meanwhile, what attracted me to your comment is because you said no one should.

It is all sweet if you watch the narrative without taking sides.

Ma binu.

BigBen23:
Keep in touch with both. Na man you be

Hmm.
Seems like a good idea. 🤔

But for how long?

ednut1:
you young girlfriend wont get old too Is marriage all about looks So if a lady is family oriented, builder and manager of finances, good mother material etc. na young tik tok slay queen you go pick over her

Women are far more Judgemtal of a man's look than a man will ever be on a woman's look. At least a brother is willing to consider a lady due to her good behaviour.

How many good short men are ever being in love before? You think the cosmetic industry is a multi billion one because women only wants to look good but don't require it from men? Lol

sniperr007:


Explore both

The one that agrees and gives you peace


Follow that one

Like Dora the Explorer? 🤔

Go for the one with the bugger breast…breast is life

pryme:


Go for the one that Appreciates you more and always looking out for your interest and willing to help you grow.

Wise advice.
Go for the one with the higher level of wisdom.

Mcslize:


Chaaiii some of you ladies lack conscience sha. And you can't even console the innocent boy. You will even be mocking him.

In fact, I don tell myself say ladies lack conscience and they are more heartless than men.

Women are with good hearts. The evil of men spoiled everything

Mcslize:


Ednut, will you choose an old cargo with many baggages over a fresh wine?

the young ones have baggage too. Marriage is more than looks na

I know you are a religious person but don't know if your religion permit having two or more wives.

Goodlady:

None is suitable.
You don't know if they have other admirers and they ll take them before you.
That's how a guy was disturbing saying he loved me since 2020 and he didn't know why he didn't come early. Too late for the poor boy

Trash trash and trash.

You called a man that can feed you comfortably a poor boy, you need help.

Going into relationship with both wouldn't be a bad idea from there you can choose the best.
Don't be surprise, the moment you take any of them serious in relationship that is when u will begin to see some weird attitude.

ednut1:
you young girlfriend wont get old too Is marriage all about looks So if a lady is family oriented, builder and manager of finances, good mother material etc. na young tik tok slay queen you go pick over her

You dey mind person wey never get gfrnd🙄

AllMight:
1. Toyin - She was my former classmate and friend back in school. She currently works in a bank as a CFC Agent. We met late last year during our school old student get together, we exchanged contact and kept in touch regularly. Our vibes have been good and encouraging. She had helped me very well many times since then. I'd say we are more than friends but ambigously because i haven't really asked her to be my girlfriend, though i have taken her out before on val day. Like i said, our relationship is ambigous. She doesn't have a boyfriend yet, but her mum is trying to matchmake her.

2. Sarah - Based in the States with her family for futher studies, though she's a Nigerian through her grandpa. We met early this year while playing game and since then we have become close that all her family know me. Her paternal uncle is one of my team sponsor here in Nigeria. Though this lady do give me green light steady, but because of Toyin who i haven't even get as my gf, i just laugh it off.

Honest advice please!

The wife and family you marry into will determine how far you will go in life.

Use your tongue to count your teeth that's all I have to say

Goodlady:

Get out

Bahamas95:
I wonder why some guys get married or consider getting married to their classmates. Most classmates are agemates, I can never get married to my agemate. Most women age faster than men, later in life your wife would look like your elder sister or mum.


I met some of my secondary school classmates sometime ago, you won't even believe we were classmates. They all look more matured than me, fat and all that......My girlfriend even called one aunty . I know I will also call their husbands bros because I am very sure they'll be far older than me.

Hahhahaha. We have similar mindset. I can never have a serious relationship with my classmates talk more of a girl that I don't give well over 6yrs gap.

A friend of mine got married to a lady he is 3yrs older than, she has a child now and whenever I see both of them I just laugh. She looks like her aunty

Also she doesn't respect her much. You talk one she talks plenty