she seems to always get angry when i reject gifts, items from her, naturally i love being completely independent from childhood and never asks for sth from somebody, now anytime i reject stuffs from her she gets upset and doesnt want to talk to me for a little while, how can i make her understand?

buy her chin chin

r231:

buy her chin chin

lolz, my belle wan tear

Being independent since childhood? What's that?

i would be offended as well.

wth is up with that? shes buying you gifts from the kindness of her heart and
you refuse them? look at how many guys spend on their women who would be
glad to even GET AN OFFER to get the same treatment in return and you are refusing.

smh. i tire-o.

then you mention independence since childhood. dude unless she is offering to pay your bills,
pay your rent and car note i highly doubt her buying you a box of chocolates or even clothes
is a sign of emasculation or being tied down.

I don't get boys. How is in the hell buying a man's gifts or offer to pay his bills is emasculation?

Don't get me wrong I think a wife should help out her husband anyway she can and vice versa but a girlfriend offering to pay your bill is a sign of emasculating you?

One minute complaining about women are gold diggers and begs too much.
One minute complaining about women are lazy and useless.
One minute complaining about women are letting themselves go.

I now see why the Sisters going cross the cultural line to those men that appreciates them.

OP you be area mugu.Your babe buy gift for you and u dey reject am.Wich village u come from sef?

Sometimes it can be a personal thing, I am also like the poster, I hardly ever feel comfortable receiving gifts from a gf especially very early in the relationship or with ones I am not 100% committed. It just doesn't feel right

MsDarkSkin:

i would be offended as well. 

i tire-o.

Pls don't be
BTW, @ bold, how quaint to note a Jamo using Nigerian pidgin

tashanja:

Sometimes it can be a personal thing, I am also like the poster, I hardly ever feel comfortable receiving gifts from a gf especially very early in the relationship or with ones I am not 100% committed. It just doesn't feel right

Pls don't be
BTW, @ bold, how quaint to note a Jamo using Nigerian pidgin

man it would sound hot hearing her speaking pidgin in her jamaican accent

tashanja:


BTW, @ bold, how quaint to note a Jamo using Nigerian pidgin

pidgin. . .patois.
both have the same roots. 
i might as well learn some pidgin.

lefulefu:

OP you be area mugu.Your babe buy gift for you and u dey reject am.[size=18pt]Wich village u come from sef?[/size]

exactly!

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