I recently started seeing a guy who I have known all my life. Our dad's are close friends and things are going well. Everyone is in support of our relationship and so far I am really happy.

The problem is I am relocating to London for some time to do my masters very soon. Its not a big deal as he can come over any time he wants and he goes there frequently for work and on holiday.

This Christmas I will be unable to go back to Naija due to exams and uni pressures. I initially planned to visit my mum's sister who lives in the north of England.

So then my guy decides that I should spend christmas with his family who stay about an hour from the uni. I have never met his aunty or uncle but I met their daughter when she visited Nigeria a while back.

I know it means a lot to him for me to get to know them as he is very close to them and it is his Mum's twin sister's family. But I feel a bit awkward spending a few days with people I have never met and there are no trains or buses on Christmas day so I may have to stay over as they stay outside London.

It would be ok if I could convince him to come but he's got a lot on with work and can't take any time off till January.

Any positive advice and opinions appreciated If you were me would you go? Should I go?

He simply doest want u b bored
nice idea

Dyt:

He simply doest want u b bored
nice idea

yep definately a nice idea, would you go if you were me?

I m usually shy wen it comes 2 BFs family
i myt nt sha
dunno
depends on ow close i m 2 any of his cousins sha

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Ah me I go go o,I think its a nice idea it will give you time to know his family members,if its me I'd use that to my advantage.