Why Infidelity Is On The Rise In Marriages

Because of financial greed, wandering eyes and the expectation gap between your spouses NATURAL body parts and what he or she can do NATURALLY and the unrealistic expectations you read online and in social media or that you see in your INSATIABLE but FUTILE hunt for the perfect body or the perfect sex in pornographic movies online.

ideamonster:
It's because runs girls have increased. And it's now easier to cheat with instagram, mobile money, uber and airbnb.

So, what you say is, we men can't control ourselves anyway, so girls and girls only are at fault?

Does the Bible encourage fornication?
Does Quran encourage fornication?!

GorgeousAF:
Lack of commitment!!!!
You woo a lady,u marry her and all of a sudden you stop doing the things that made her fall in love with you,no effort at all whatsoever..you reduce d calls to zero,no care,no affection..... especially if she has kids for you then you think that's where her life ends...some men need to do better..na just fear of God if not!!!!!

Some women, or most women also have to do better, to also look attractive to their husband.

Once they get married, she loses shape like is no man's business.

yahmaid04:
Porn. Simple.

You are very correct... Porn Played a lot of role in the current rise on infidelity... For the women when they see different dick sizes, sex Positions, And different Porn Actors, they begin to imagine being bleeped by those men, Next they start to develop the desire to try out Men who can take the to the Moon ...worst case scenario is when the Porn actors Perform excellently like Machines as against their husbands Performance in bed, they begin to explore their options just to fulfill their nasty fantasy

There is no single reason why infidelity is on the rise among married couples. Some experts believe that changes in social norms, increased access to technology and social media, and a greater focus on individual needs and desires have all contributed to the trend. Other factors that may contribute to infidelity include dissatisfaction with one's relationship, feelings of disconnection or isolation, and a lack of communication or intimacy in the relationship. It's important to note that infidelity can happen to any couple and is not limited to any specific group.

saphiere:


4. Men are polygamous by nature.

Not all men. Some men may forced into such if they don't have rest of mind at home.

Emperormartin:
You're right. That no 2 is spot on.

My married friend introduced me to a WhatsApp group of married people between the ages of 35-45...

Their only business in that Whatsapp group is talk about sex, sex and sex and how to hook up and have sex among one another. These are married women and men with kids.

I'm not married but I have to remove myself from the group because it's kinda painting me bad image of marriage institution.

The last straw why I left the group is when they were organizing orgies in one Hotel in our area. The orgies will start from Friday evening and throughout the weekend... I was man matched with some married women in their early 40's... I ran!!!

I've to delete myself from that group. I'm not a saint either but this kind of sin is beyond me

Drop update na. Na that kin sin I dey like biko.

VULCAN:
Are you not ashamed of how partial you sound?

What a weak response.

Mtscheww

I don't think I stopped you from responding impartially... that's my own opinion..you have yours too !

Dshocker:


Some women, or most women also have to do better, to also look attractive to their husband.

Once they get married, she loses shape like is no man's business.

I quite agree...as a woman I can understand..some women find it difficult to get back their body after child bearing but you can exercise and diet if you fall under this category!! Wear clothes that suit your body type!!! Dress well... children shouldn't switch off your sense of fashion!!

Savedday2:
Because, all 9ja girls are ashawo by nature both the ones forming GF or church girl/wife. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe/wife doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo.

I always pitied the married guys, when I see their wives doing ashawo up and down without them knowing.

Wow, by this generalisation, it means all your sisters are ashawo😁, including your nieces, female cousins and relatives are all ashawo. That so good to know😁😁

Emperormartin:
You're right. That no 2 is spot on.

My married friend introduced me to a WhatsApp group of married people between the ages of 35-45...

Their only business in that Whatsapp group is talk about sex, sex and sex and how to hook up and have sex among one another. These are married women and men with kids.

I'm not married but I have to remove myself from the group because it's kinda painting me bad image of marriage institution.

The last straw why I left the group is when they were organizing orgies in one Hotel in our area. The orgies will start from Friday evening and throughout the weekend... I was man matched with some married women in their early 40's... I ran!!!

I've to delete myself from that group. I'm not a saint either but this kind of sin is beyond me

Abeg you fit gimme the admin number? I get something to am.

obinrinrere:
Because there are no penalty for whoever cheats.
In Islam a fornicator is meant to be flogged publicly if he or she is not married.while a married adulterer should be stoned to death.

If we follow the rules of Allah (the most exalted ),we won't be crying of breakfast today.

There is Different between rule of Allah & Rule of Saudi Arabia ...

Imagine stoning someone to Death cuz dem Fvck What's the Correlation between the Offence & Punishments

Provide me with Qur'an Evidence that stated Adulterer Must be Stoned ?

The lashes dey But Stoning na Saudi Arabia rule not Islam ....

The Problem With Many Muslim is Assuming Saudi Rule & Islam Rule are the Same ... No

Fiscus105:


Yet they say, Islam is a religion of peace.

Where is the mercy in the religion if you go by such draconian rules?

Meanwhile, who will escape such hammer if it's implemented? Even the fonder of the religion committed it severally during his time on earth.

Na lie she lied ... No Mind am ..

Na hear dem dey hear things ... Dem no dey read themselves!

postmann:
The rise in female financial autonomy and independence would yield lesser sexual inhibition on her part.

Over 60% of adultery take place in the office environment.

The modern woman lacks shame and have lesser inhibition than her last generation counterpart.

But for every wayward and rebellious woman out there, there is a man or two responsible -- her father/brother or husband.

This Shows You are a Highly Sensible Human Being ... Almighty God shall Nurture Your Wizardry Amen !

Women didn't fail we Men, Na We Men Fail Women ....

Make the Fvckery dey Go ... I don't see it Stopping sha ... Except the World reset into stone Ages ...

Nature also keep churning more females ....

We need more Population to birth Earth....

Gisos ... Fvck Never Start Sef ...


When Gen Z Pro Max Begin Their own .. Awon Omo 2020s ... Gen z(Year 2000) Pikin sef go fear ...

World is about to BloomBloom ....

Make Governments Just assume taking care of Children 100% ... E yaff Finish .. Because Many Irresponsible Fathers & Mothers are about to Flourish the World !

franchasofficia:
Infidelity or promiscuity or polygamy or whatever name you call it didn't start today and isn't on the rise anything lol.


Its just that our current world now have a better instant communication methods, all thanks to social media that now makes everything that used to be hidden open. Nothing that is happening in the world today started today....in fact, the world is even becoming better due to mobile cameras, hidden cameras, social media platforms that now put pressure on all humans to act and behave better than some decades ago where humans feared no video leak or social media outburst.



Another reason it seems like these things are on the increase today is due to overpopulation.....Nigeria was less than 50million people in the 1960s but today we are 200million plus.....approaching 300million or more if we take accurate census. So its highly expected for incidents like these to increase as the world's population increases.

We all must thank our God for creating us when the world has even become sweeter....imagine those that lived in the 1930s, 1940s, 1960s with 1st world war, 2nd world war, civil wars almost happening in every country and people being killed in the most brutal manners without conscience by their so called leaders unlike today.

I Bless God ooo ...

This is the first generation in the history of Humanities the world is connecting with Technologies not War ....

Century ago was not Fun .... Just Wickedness no knowledges Little wisdom Just Higher animals world ...

We shall always continue to getting better but as for Fvck ... That one go dey rise & the more the economic Hardships the more the fvck .

The better the economy the more still the fvck ..

Human are human .. we must answer the call of Nature Once Call Upon ... Dem no born u well ... fighting it leads to Depression

placeofallure:


The reasons are inexhaustible. Your reason 3 now for example. I know a man who is cheating on a woman way older than his wife. He's not gaining anything financially from her o. What do we call that? People are just cheats!

You Can't actually say that ... Even some words of wisdom conversation or vibrating on the same Wavelengths is something...

Even simply "Listening" or Emotional connections ...

Cheating lo Far.... the cause is beyond the sex itself ... People don't consider the psychological aspects of Others ....

Without Psychological Issues, All Mankind are meant to behave in a Similar Pattern !

Of course there shall be psychological issues & Management Differs across persons !

GorgeousAF:


I no cheat when I dey single na now, .... abeg rest!!!

Cheating No get time oo .. it only need a Trigger & You will find yourself battling!

DonroxyII:
You Can't actually say that ... Even some words of wisdom conversation or vibrating on the same Wavelengths is something...

Even simply "Listening" or Emotional connections ...

Cheating lo Far.... the cause is beyond the sex itself ... People don't consider the psychological aspects of Others ....

Without Psychological Issues, All Mankind are meant to behave in a Similar Pattern !

Of course there shall be psychological issues & Management Differs across persons !

Don, so you support cheating abi? I will tell!

placeofallure:


Don, so you support cheating abi? I will tell!

Lol, Mama ..
I'm a Realist ...

I'm Just trying to Understand Our Societies & The world not just from my personal Lens But
The Maturities Utilised By People to Responding to Challenges & Situations bedevelling them.... Especially Matrimonial Issues!

I'm just trying to Dissuade Us from Utilizing Our Personal Experience to Draw General Conclusions on "Cheating" as Mere "Sexual Intercourse" ....

There Are alot of Other Factors leading to That "Cheating" Which Many Fails to Recognise Before Judging the "Cheaters" .....

Things Happens In Marriage Above & Beyond Normalcy & The The Maturities of Average Human-Couple Alongside The Fact that Our Background Differs as well as Economic factors leads to Many Things Including "Cheating" !

Cheating is just an Escape for Some from Mental & Psychological Abuses in their Matrimonial Home not Just Fun-Galore .... Meanwhile to some, It's Just Cruising...

All I know is that Two Mentally Challenged Couples Can't Make a Good Marriage Meanwhile Couples that ain't Mentally challenged in Nigeria albeit The World shouldn't be more than 5% of Subsisting Marriages .... !

You know what? I kinda agree, especially with the Escape from Congo part . A male friend once confided in me, the wife wanted to kill her with stress. He even stopped coming to church at some point. That kind of a troubled marriage can make one cheat.

DonroxyII:
Lol, Mama ..
I'm a Realist ...

I'm Just trying to Understand Our Societies & The world not just from my personal Lens But
The Maturities Utilised By People to Responding to Challenges & Situations bedevelling them.... Especially Matrimonial Issues!

I'm just trying to Dissuade Us from Utilizing Our Personal Experience to Draw General Conclusions on "Cheating" as Mere "Sexual Intercourse" ....

There Are alot of Other Factors leading to That "Cheating" Which Many Fails to Recognise Before Judging the "Cheaters" .....

Things Happens In Marriage Above & Beyond Normalcy & The The Maturities of Average Human-Couple Alongside The Fact that Our Background Differs as well as Economic factors leads to Many Things Including "Cheating" !

Cheating is just an Escape for Some from Mental & Psychological Abuses in their Matrimonial Home not Just Fun-Galore .... Meanwhile to some, It's Just Cruising...

All I know is that Two Mentally Challenged Couples Can't Make a Good Marriage Meanwhile Couples that ain't Mentally challenged in Nigeria albeit The World shouldn't be more than 5% of Subsisting Marriages .... !

placeofallure:
You know what? I kinda agree, especially with the Escape from Congo part . A male friend once confided in me, the wife wanted to kill her with stress. He even stopped coming to church at some point. That kind of a troubled marriage can make one cheat.

U sef dey see am ... !

Imagine u sef come get some issues & Both of you begins to Rub Minds & Reason Together
...Before You realise ...

No be just Minds una go dey rub Verily Una Go dey Rub Something with Something & Gbensh, E enter !

Societies will start judging both of you as Cheaters without any single help to cushion the effects of whatever lead to the Acts in the first place ..

DonroxyII:
U sef dey see am ... !

Imagine u sef come get some issues & Both of you begins to Rub Minds & Reason Together
...Before You realise ...

No be just Minds una go dey rub Verily Una Go dey Rub Something with Something & Gbensh, E enter !

Societies will start judging both of you as Cheaters without any single help to cushion the effects of whatever lead to the Acts in the first place ..

Hmmmnn! Discipline over Emotions. We should all try.

placeofallure:


Hmmmnn! Discipline over Emotions. We should all try.

At some point in Challenges the best Discipline Breaks ....

Everyone has their turning-point .. Where their dy/dx=0 !